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United States, Wisconsin, Menasha

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About Me

I'm still a little freaked out about the idea of online dating but I realize dating in general is difficult for me. I have been in a few long term relationships with people who were friends first but never had to try being set up on blind dates or the whole bar thing. Between work and spending time with my kids, I haven't had a lot of opportunity to meet new people so I'm going to try to stick this out a little bit longer. I have a great job as a manager but it is usually pretty demanding and to do the job well, I need to put in extra hours. The flexibility and loving what I do makes the extra stress worth it. I also have a part time job which I don't find stressful but I would describe as pretty mentally draining. Being a Social Worker with a forensic/psychiatric focus leads to a constant focus on boundaries and keeping a professional only relationship with people (which is another reason the whole online thing freaks me out - I've already seen coworkers, I'm afraid to see former clients). I feel that one of my strengths at work is that I am able to enjoy helping people who can be viewed by many as not deserving of help. So it's nice to have someone to vent to and be totally myself with outside of work. It's also nice to have someone to tell me to stop my whining and get over it when I'm overthinking things. I enjoy a sarcastic remark to make laugh at myself. I am a caretaker in so many areas of my life and think I do a decent job at managing all the chaos but I do realize that I need to exercise regularly and force myself to have a social life when I'm not with my kids so I can keep a level head and stay positive. I play on a volleyball team once a week now and I've been reconnecting with old friends I've seen less and less of over the years. I love day trips with the kids or with friends -;festival" that involves hanging out outside with some live music and food and I enjoy spending time with my extended family. I love to cook but will complain about cleaning so I admire a man with a little bit of OCD and the energy to work on projects around the house. I am really looking for someone who I love hanging out with and is accepting of everything that comes with kids and a busy schedule.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    It been really nice to be home and closer to family, and being around old friend and making new. I am not going to write a book on here because It will never be able to communicate who I really am. Friends and family are very important and I like to spend a lot of time with them. You:Can be lazy, but chooses not to be, most of the time.Fun with a good with a good sense of humor and easy to get along with.Kind and down to earth.don't lie to me about age, height or ask me stupid questions as to why am I tall, yes it happened ( and I wanted my bang my head against the wall) Good luck to you with this and have a great day. I have learned that it does not matter where you go as long as the conversation is good.

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    If you can't be truthful & real & if you're into playing BS games please don't read any further....Let's see what I can tell you in this box. I am a single, fun, down to earth, sarcastic, tell it like it is, loyal, trustworthy, real 33 year old mother of a beautiful 8 year old little girl. I like to goof around, have fun, get dirty, but know when it's time to be serious. I love all kinds of music. I need someone who can keep up with my sarcastic nature. I live my life as drama free and I am not looking for someone who plays games and brings nothing but BS to the table. If you're a negative, grumpy, miserable person please don't even bother. I have my faults just like anybody else. I try and make every situation an enjoyable, fun one.Also, please have an up to date picture. It is ***and everyone has or knows someone who has a camera or camera phone or something to take a picture. I am not trying to be mean, but there has to be an attraction on both ends before we move onto the rest.Please don't ask me how the site is working out because if it was working for me, do you really think I would still be on here talking to you? Basically whether it is from this site, in a grocery store, walking down the street or where ever it may be I would just like to meet my best friend and stop all this useless dating!!I feel like this box has to define us somehow and I am much more than what's written in a box on a website. If you are interested in seeing beyond the box....Email me you might be surprised!! At the end of the day it is what it is!! Let's just have a good time!!

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    Abbigael

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    Looking for someone decent. No guys who like to play games. MUST have a decent job!! I'm looking for someone to have a great time with and someone who can make me laugh. Please have a good personality, and a sense of humor. Really want someone to hang out with and someone that has the same interests that I do. Being a couch potato watching movies, the outdoors (love fishing, and even hunting), watching football...GO Redskins!!

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