SIMILAR PEOPLE
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MelOffline
Man. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 49-59
I lost my husband of 26 years to Cancer and am interested in honoring his wish for me to find happiness and open my heart to someone new. I don't know what I want, but I know I enjoy life and love to be around positive and energetic people! What have you got? Help me find my new path with some great company and a few good laughs! I love to dance, work out, walk and jog, watch movies, TV, and I love all genres of music. Oh, and family is always very important, mine and yours! On a first date, I like to get to know someone by asking a few questions and watch the way they interact with others. You can tell a lot about someone by the way they speak with waiters/waitresses or people in the service industry. I enjoy laughing and having fun, but I also like to look into the eyes of the person sitting next to me or in front of me and hear what they have to say about life, family and thier personal goals. I would love to hear about your dreams, your accomplishments and your losses. Everyone gets real when they talk about their own struggles, so honesty is a characteristic that I greatly admire. I take life seriously but I also know that having a sense of humor is how we ideally cope with adversity. I enjoy eating just about any type of food that you could put in front of me, so you choose the restaraunt and I will try whatever is on the menu (almost anything) I'm adventurous but not foolish. After dinner, we could take another stroll through a park or the center of town, looking through store windows and share our desires with one another. I come from a unique and loving family, but we have had our problems. I will share the funny and the not so funny stories with you, can you do the same? Once we go our separate ways, I love when someone calls or texts to let me know they are home safe and sound. It gives us an opportunity to tell that other person how we felt as we drove away to our homes. It kind of builds up the excitement for a possible second date! Will I kiss on the first date? I'm pretty sure I would be open to that, but ultimately, it has to be mutual and not awkward. So if there is awkwardness, I can wait until we are both feeling it!
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GerardOffline
Man. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 51-61
Ah yes plenty of space to describe a lifetime but I don't feel like writing a book here though I am writing a book on personal freedom and technology. It's a challenging topic! And that's just it - nothing worthwhile is easy including the search for the right person to spend one's life with. But the headline gives a hint that I'm looking for something more than a quick hookup. Nothing against those if safely done but you tend not to see the person again sometimes so developing something more durable is worthwhile. There's a whole lifetime to tell about I suppose but not much space to do it so I will leave that up for a private chat. How's that for a copout...lol. But I have been looking on these personals sites for quite some time and am truly amazed how few quality guys there are out there who are ready for something more. Maybe everyone has a lot of baggage by the time they get a bit older who knows? The goal is to meet in person of course.As for me, I enjoy travel, outdoors, sports (hockey, skiing, and summer activities like rafting as well), great restaurants (All kinds especially Indian and Malaysian). As I mentioned, I am writing a book so do enjoy creativity too and attending art openings and so on.Will get some more photos on here too shortly so bear with me I know this is SO important!I tend to take joy in the moment, in seeing the beauty of it whether a person or in nature. Sure, there is a lot of bad out there but the way to handle it is to see it for what it is and give it minimal importance thought not *** Life is about variety and the saving moment is the next moment....it's a philospy of life but a practical one. I like a variety of foods in particular Indian and East Asian. Also enjoy some of the old movies (noir in particular) and in moder movies adventure and some sci-fi.Well-travelled but looking to go to some south american or south asian countries in my next trip.NOTE: Please POST a picture of yourself here showing your face. .Equally important have a bit of a write-up on yourself and what you are looking for in a guy and something about yourself. Thanks. First date would wither be at a coffee shop or over lunch/dinner. That's the best way to get to know someone face to face. I go by first date impressions as far as seeing if there is anything worth pursuing. I won't lead anyone on if I don't feel there is anything to build on. It sounds a little judgemental to do this on the first date but that's experience talking and I have been burned by letting hope guide things where there was nothing to begin with. That's just being honest even if it bothers the other guy to tell him where I stand. Because if you are there in person for a few hours you learn more than you do on line.
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DominikOffline
Man. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 52-62
My goal here isn't to get laid, but the take a chance that I might find Mr. Right -- Christian, slim, nonsmoker (for starters). I intend my pictures to help communicate a bit about my normal life. I'm a believer in working these kinds of things out together. I don't like making all the decisions.