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Gerard, 54

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About Me

Ah yes plenty of space to describe a lifetime but I don't feel like writing a book here though I am writing a book on personal freedom and technology. It's a challenging topic! And that's just it - nothing worthwhile is easy including the search for the right person to spend one's life with. But the headline gives a hint that I'm looking for something more than a quick hookup. Nothing against those if safely done but you tend not to see the person again sometimes so developing something more durable is worthwhile. There's a whole lifetime to tell about I suppose but not much space to do it so I will leave that up for a private chat. How's that for a copout...lol. But I have been looking on these personals sites for quite some time and am truly amazed how few quality guys there are out there who are ready for something more. Maybe everyone has a lot of baggage by the time they get a bit older who knows? The goal is to meet in person of course.As for me, I enjoy travel, outdoors, sports (hockey, skiing, and summer activities like rafting as well), great restaurants (All kinds especially Indian and Malaysian). As I mentioned, I am writing a book so do enjoy creativity too and attending art openings and so on.Will get some more photos on here too shortly so bear with me I know this is SO important!I tend to take joy in the moment, in seeing the beauty of it whether a person or in nature. Sure, there is a lot of bad out there but the way to handle it is to see it for what it is and give it minimal importance thought not *** Life is about variety and the saving moment is the next moment....it's a philospy of life but a practical one. I like a variety of foods in particular Indian and East Asian. Also enjoy some of the old movies (noir in particular) and in moder movies adventure and some sci-fi.Well-travelled but looking to go to some south american or south asian countries in my next trip.NOTE: Please POST a picture of yourself here showing your face. .Equally important have a bit of a write-up on yourself and what you are looking for in a guy and something about yourself. Thanks. First date would wither be at a coffee shop or over lunch/dinner. That's the best way to get to know someone face to face. I go by first date impressions as far as seeing if there is anything worth pursuing. I won't lead anyone on if I don't feel there is anything to build on. It sounds a little judgemental to do this on the first date but that's experience talking and I have been burned by letting hope guide things where there was nothing to begin with. That's just being honest even if it bothers the other guy to tell him where I stand. Because if you are there in person for a few hours you learn more than you do on line.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Mile

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    Man. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    How does one describe themselves??? What I can tell you is that I am a normal (lol) down to earth kinda guy that is looking for love and romance and oops don't forget passion. I would like the whole nine yards which is marriage, the house, the dog(s) and oh yes the kids. Not much of a couch potato so lets get outside and ride bikes, take walks, play tennis or work around the yard. I do like theatre and music and would like to go to NYC more but don't get me wrong, you could also take me to the "Park" to see a Phillies game. Having fun is oh so important in life so don't waste a moment, let's get out and live it. "Amazing Race" anyone?? Anyone?? A quote I like to live by ... "Celebrate the happiness that friend's are always giving, make each day a holiday and celebrate just living." Sounds like a match? ... take a chance. A first date for me ... hmmmmmmmmmmmm??? Well i would like to go for dinner and that doesn't have to be in the traditional sense either. Meaning, let's pack a picnic lunch and toss a blanket somewhere and enjoy the moment that our surroundings give to us. A movie would be nice as well or just take a ride to no place special and find some roadside diner to enjoy.

  • Aden

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    Man. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    looking for my best friend. Someone to spend the good times and the bad together. I like to do fun things like amusement parks especially roller coasters, stock car racing (dirt track). love quiet dinners and to walk on the beach late at night hand in hand with my special someone. I am looking for Mr. Right. I am currently a work-a-holic as I have no one special in my life. I was in an LTR of 13 years and am ready to try again, been single now for 6 years. Hope you are that special someone. I enjoy meeting men of different ethnic background than me but am not exclusive to that type. Send me a message, I will reply to everyone. Not into the BS of not replying, and don't understand why people are on a dating sight and will not reply even if the reply is NO. Just have enough decency to reply. IS ANYONE REALLY LOOKING FOR SOMEONE HONEST AND SINCERE OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Romantic quiet dinner for 2

  • Matthew

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    Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I'm a regular healthy clean-cut guy, successful professional, polite and quick witted and have a loyal circle of friends – most of whom I’ve known for extended time. I have a likeable low-key personality and subtle masculine confidence. Trying not to take life too seriously and I have no regrets of my life journey. I’-If you are interested in learning more about me please send me a message. Thanks for reading my profile. Let’s talk and make a plan…

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