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Gerard, 54

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About Me

Ah yes plenty of space to describe a lifetime but I don't feel like writing a book here though I am writing a book on personal freedom and technology. It's a challenging topic! And that's just it - nothing worthwhile is easy including the search for the right person to spend one's life with. But the headline gives a hint that I'm looking for something more than a quick hookup. Nothing against those if safely done but you tend not to see the person again sometimes so developing something more durable is worthwhile. There's a whole lifetime to tell about I suppose but not much space to do it so I will leave that up for a private chat. How's that for a copout...lol. But I have been looking on these personals sites for quite some time and am truly amazed how few quality guys there are out there who are ready for something more. Maybe everyone has a lot of baggage by the time they get a bit older who knows? The goal is to meet in person of course.As for me, I enjoy travel, outdoors, sports (hockey, skiing, and summer activities like rafting as well), great restaurants (All kinds especially Indian and Malaysian). As I mentioned, I am writing a book so do enjoy creativity too and attending art openings and so on.Will get some more photos on here too shortly so bear with me I know this is SO important!I tend to take joy in the moment, in seeing the beauty of it whether a person or in nature. Sure, there is a lot of bad out there but the way to handle it is to see it for what it is and give it minimal importance thought not *** Life is about variety and the saving moment is the next moment....it's a philospy of life but a practical one. I like a variety of foods in particular Indian and East Asian. Also enjoy some of the old movies (noir in particular) and in moder movies adventure and some sci-fi.Well-travelled but looking to go to some south american or south asian countries in my next trip.NOTE: Please POST a picture of yourself here showing your face. .Equally important have a bit of a write-up on yourself and what you are looking for in a guy and something about yourself. Thanks. First date would wither be at a coffee shop or over lunch/dinner. That's the best way to get to know someone face to face. I go by first date impressions as far as seeing if there is anything worth pursuing. I won't lead anyone on if I don't feel there is anything to build on. It sounds a little judgemental to do this on the first date but that's experience talking and I have been burned by letting hope guide things where there was nothing to begin with. That's just being honest even if it bothers the other guy to tell him where I stand. Because if you are there in person for a few hours you learn more than you do on line.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dominik

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    Man. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    My goal here isn't to get laid, but the take a chance that I might find Mr. Right -- Christian, slim, nonsmoker (for starters). I intend my pictures to help communicate a bit about my normal life. I'm a believer in working these kinds of things out together. I don't like making all the decisions.

  • Macy

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    Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Just ask. I am friendly and will answer any inquiries. I'm discreet and "selectively out". I'm an adventurous, younger than chronological age, healthy, good-looking, masculine man. I enjoy entertaining friends and colleagues at my home and garden. My work schedule affords me ample time to travel; which I do frequently through-out the year. I prefer warm weather over the cold. Cold could be more tolerable with a companion to warm my soul as much as I would warm his. I'm a stable man with much love and warmth to offer. I have learned to live on my own and don't NEED a companion; but, the right one is out there for all of us. My taste in music varies with the environment and the mood I want to set. If I had to choose one genre of music, it would be BPM on Sirius Radio...dance channel. I like any new challenge and adventure. My "bucket list" seems to have a never ending bottom. I can rarely to nil be seen at any of the local bars (maybe once or twice a year); but, if I had my dream job it would be the proprietor of a "knock-out" entertainment complex. I found the following on someone else's profile..had to copy it!**Olny 55% of Pepole can raed tihs I cdnuolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht I was rdanieg. The phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid, aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it dseno't mtaetr in waht oerdr the ltteres in a wrod are, the olny iproamtnt tihng is taht the frsit and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can sitll raed it whotuit a pboerlm. Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. Azanmig huh?yaeh and I awlyas tghuhot slpeling was ipmorantt! fi yuo cna raed tihs, palce it in yuor porflie A first date depends on whether we advance to actually talking on the phone to better know each other. I'm not opposed to hosting a dinner and a movie. Or just walking in a park. A date should be a date ... not a hook-up. I'm a very sexual person; and, I admit things sometime happen on a first date; but, my objective is to find a lasting relationship to spend a lifetime together.

  • Kylan

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    Man. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Who I am.....I am lets go out in to the country man! I considered myself a very aware person regarding social and political concerns, some have called me a activist, I just say I'm awake!! I love my Pekingese dog, and working hard to have a life of serenity. I know how to treat a man good and be able to put a smile on his face.I love my job, my house, and my life, I believe it is now the time to share it with the right man and bring joy into our life's !! Who likes great home cooked meals and spend nights cuddle up watching TV, or going out to a movie, or a having conversations that makes both of us go hmm!Some ones that love pets and would like to meet the same. Ask me out, once that is out of the way. Then coffee and great conversation.

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