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Nila, 49
United States, Minnesota, Stillwater

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About Me

I work full time...own my house & I love my animals...I love all animals...(even more than most people..haha)I am a homebody & enjoy my quiet time after working all day, I read a lot, but do enjoy having fun.I like to go see live bands every once in a while & dance with my girlfriends...classic rock & 70's & 80's rock are some of my favorites..; some shopping.I would rather go to museum, zoo, or go sightseeing, than to go camping or gambling at a casino. (My idea of camping is a king size bed, cable, & dessert)I have a select group of friends, & sad to say, I trust only a few people...I try to live by the golden rule, although the world seems to be more & more harsh every day & people can be so hard to understand.Many times I just try to remember that many people are just so unhappy with their lives & within themselves, that they don't realize the way they are acting...I always try to be hopeful & understanding....if that doesn't work...move on.I try to always be happy, even though life can sometimes throw a curve ball, I always try to see the best of situations.I try to see the best in people, but stupidity is rampant in today's world, so that is a work in progress.I'm trying to be more accepting of the *** others, the anger in the world, but mostly I stay home & count my blessings, since most people irritate me....lol.I need honesty & truth above all...If you have to lie or keep secrets, then it is that much harder to cover your lies & keep the story straight.I have been through many of life's ups &My goals are simple...be happy, have enough to be stable & secure in life, yet always thrive to be a better person because of the downfalls.What I am looking for...Honesty is the most important, someone who can simply be happy by hitting the green lights & laughing at the absurdities in life...never take life & its troubles too seriously, or youll always be unhappy. I want to find someone who will be there for me on bad days, as I would be for them...to laugh with, be silly with, to sing off key with to their favorite songs...to just enjoy life.What am I not looking for?If my friends would say "Hey, introduce me to your dad!"....Please don't write to me.If your beer belly weighs more than I do...Please don't write to me.If there are pictures of dead, beautiful animals in your profile, don't write to me.Comb Overs? Nope...Missing front teeth? Really? No. If your main profile picture is sitting with Bubba at the bar with a can of Pabst....Guess.Ok, so there is some sarcasm there, but just trying to be fun, while pointing out the obvious of what a dating site can beI just know what I want & what I like, so I'm hoping for the same interests & likes...attraction & compatibility are important. If you don't have a picture, I won't reply...for all I know, you could be 80 years old, ***pounds, or a woman.Have a Great Day & Smile! A simple meet & greet...Meet for a drink, go from there...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Country Electro Pop Shopping Canadian Japanese Portuguese Spanish Biography Comedy Drama Dance Dirt Bike Racing
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