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HelaineOffline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I am a hopeless romantic looking for sparks, chemistry, etc. Having that magnetic connection is my only criteria…it’s either present when two people meet or it’s not. I am not looking to rush in to anything more than establishing a friendship to get to know one another. For me, half the fun is the anticipation of what could be once that spark is *** about me and what I am hoping to find in a man…So me, this is hard. I do not like to shine the light on myself and avoid being in the public spotlight whenever possible. That said, I can adapt to almost any situation…from public speaking to welcoming compliments when required. People that are close to me would say I am loyal and committed to those I love. Honesty, trust, and generosity are values I live by and seek in others.I consider myself a handful…hence the “brave man” caveat. I have high expectations…I’m ambitious, independent, active, and make the most out of every day, situation, opportunity, etc. I’ve been known to get too absorbed (okay, self-absorbed) with work or doing menial tasks. I benefit from being around someone who is able to distract me with humor and spontaneity. I have a strong personality…I can hold my own when needed. I do best with men who are easygoing, but who can also put me in my place. Though I don’t necessarily like to be told what to do or hear the word no, it’s kind of a turn-on in a twisted sort of way. I’ll stop there. At this point in my life, I am ready to throw caution to the wind. I have ditched my checklist of what to look for in a man and *** opted to follow my heart (and yes I feel stupid saying that as I’ve always made decisions with my head…over thinking things and being way too cautious).…did I mention I’ Qualities I admire in a man include a sense of humor, good taste without being pompous, someone who values a dollar but doesn’t lose sleep over money spent…I don’t do cheap, but respect a man who is practical and who lives within his means. I appreciate someone who enjoys the finer things in life though comes across as low-key and casual…a man who’ Ideally, a person that has the tendency to be calm and collective in tense situations, treats people kindly (never rude), avoids taking life or self too seriously, and has the ability to laugh in uncomfortable/tough situations. I know that’s a tall order…I did mention high expectations somewhere in this write-up. So the other half of the equation is the ability to be flexible, open-minded and forgiving……being able to make amends and overall keeping ones ego and heart in check.Yup, there’s more…a guy who is independent. Someone who enjoys alone time just as much as being together. And when together, doesn’t mind being spoiled just a bit. I am not one to talk on the phone at great lengths but appreciate a man who can communicate. Oh and someone who is liberal enough to allow me to pick up a tab or take charge from time to time…you fill in the dots. Though I consider myself tolerant and open-minded, there are a few traits that I wouldn’t be able to overlook…racism/prejudice, superiority complex, over inflated egos, substance abuse, cruelty, dishonesty, and promiscuity. I feel I should provide some sort of disclaimer so here it goes…I am not looking for financial security (nor to support someone), a husband (though not opposed), or a father for my son (he’s got one)…Just sparks. I like to keep it simple…enjoying a meal and good conversation together while drinking a bit more wine than either of us should.
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DalilaOffline
Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
ME: Curious about people and life, communication huge with me, love to learn and try new things. I walk by faith, social butterfly, easy to talk to, down to earth, smart, educated, easy going, independent, hard worker, good job, strong willed, hugs, giver, funny, compassionate, laughter, planner, educated, tall & all legs, great smile, traveler, works out at gym, deeply passionate, active, genuine, energetic, walks, loves kids, conversationalist, young at heart, comfortable in her own shoes, classy, great communicator, forgiveness is the key to happiness, and will go with the flow whether with you or our buddies/friends.Country music is my music of choice, not into hard rock or rap. I embrace life what ever comes good or bad and not afraid to bend and change not looking at changing you either not into that. Complex, not really (I am a female ha! ha!) easy to read, watch my face & eyes they speaks volumes. My quotes, The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have. Spring/ Summer/ Fall - Outside everyday! Love the cool or hot summer days. Adventurous and like to try new things in saying that I have a varied of interests and can be happy doing almost anything. Not a TV watcher life is to short. Him: Physically attracted, Tall, medium to large / build, prefer no totally gray hair men, some gray is OK sorry guys.Personality: Communication we must be able to talk about life, kids, sex, dreams, goals our jobs and sometimes just enjoy the quietness. Make me laugh and me him, yes you need to be somewhat funny, easy going.Financially secure, successful in his own right, active, giver, young at heart, compassionate, adventurous, passionate and stamina a must, gentle touches (caress my face, squeeze my hand, take my arm or hand as we walk), a great smile, loves to give and receive kisses and hugs. ***Must attach a picture if contacting me too please, or will not respond.** **Also he must clean, grocery shop, cook, wash dishes and everything in between. Ha! Ha! Gotch yeah! Just kidding... Humor is good and that smile you just displayed was worth it.. Willing to put my self out their to find that special one and take chances. You need yo have time in your life for a relationship and we can see each other ***times a week at least and you should know what you want. I love all the parks, lakes, outdoor activities what about you are you game? *Not looking for serial daters, fwb, casual sex, game players or the bar scene have better things to do. Note: ***I do not drink and never will, no not an alcoholic. I will gladly buy you a beer/drink or a round for your friends or mine when out. This is benign to me and unimportant. It is better to meet in the first week then wait weeks why waste each others time.It is amazing how much that first meet up determines the future. First connections are huge.
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HwaOffline
Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
I am a country girl at heart and have always been attracted to cowboys, farmers and good honest people. I have a great sense of humor and like to laugh and joke around. I love animals and my pets are a very important to me. If you are a man who wants a skinny chick with no sense of direction.....PLEASE do not waste my time and yours. I am a strong woman who knows what I want and has worked hard for the things that I have with no help from anyone but myself...If u are a man who has no time to date or be in a relationship ..again....dont bother to contact me....with that said ...good luck with finding someone.