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Carl, 42

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About Me

I'm not sure what to put here, so we'll just go with the truth. I am a BBW,(If that doesn't appeal to you, there is not any reason for you to continue) just starting to date again after ending a 10 year relationship about 6 months ago. I am in the banking industry, and work a swing shift Monday thru Friday. I love my weekends, my family, my friends. I am a social person and like to do things with people, but I also enjoy a lazy Sunday at home in my pj's watching movies.I I love all kinds of music... R&B, Hip Hop, Classic Rock, and occasionally even a litte Classic Country.I have a good sense of humor,a realistic approach on things, and can usually see things from every side. I am looking for someone compatable, compassionate, and an overall good person. Sense of humor is a must! After e-mail, chatting, and talking on the phone to get a feel for one another's personality, An ideal first date would be coffee or a****ail,depending on the time of day. If that goes well, then maybe dinner or a comedy show. I like to do all sorts of things, so I'm up for any number of places if we make it past the coffee! Disclaimer: I will not meet at my house or your house for the first time, it must be somewhere public.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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