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About Me

Ive been an artist all my life in various different ways...I sing, act, tap dance...try to play guitar...and now... I am currently bartending as a side job. It's a fun way to get out of the house...listen to good music and get paid!I enjoy any activity that involves being outdoors...hiking, biking, swimming, boating...but I also like relaxing at the beach or curling up by a fire to read a good book.I love to travel and explore tropical islands. Tahiti will be my next destination.If you made it this far in my description...then I'd like to add that I'm looking for someone to "compliment" my life and not "complicate" it. I have learned that relationships take work...but shouldn't be difficult.Yes, I have kids...but they are older. One is 22 and the other is 19. I love comparing notes about school and homework with them! Glass of wine...quiet dinner where we can talk...a walk on the beach...anywhere that we can get to know each other better.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Mallie

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    ok so here we go...so ive gone bk and forth with this a cpl times but yet to have had any luck and idk i guess im wanting to see if there is any possibility of finding that one. I am looking for a man who is mature yet knows how to have fun without playing little games.. I really am tired of making mistakes im ready to be inlove and i just want to fall for the right guy....ya kno i really dnt want to be out dating alot of diifent ppl ...just that one special one will do me just fine!! I like a man who has a sense of humor but knos how to be serious when needed.I need passion and romance...... I love to love and i long to be in love with someone who i am able to let myself go with...where i can be me but then again i guess we probably all want that.loli like all the typical girly stuff with a serving off guy stuff.lol i have 3 boys so in my house it is... football ,motorcycles,race cars and well they like the girls i dnt.lol anyhow soooo i guess ive said enough for now ... if theres anything u want to kno ask away....bahahahahafeel free to check out my *** want to see more pics and stuff so a first date.......just getting to know someone and what kind of prson they are

  • Purdie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    .. Now that that's out of the way .. hehe I'm not a negative person by any means and I'm not better then anybody else, very positive in-fact. I'm not the type that will say something that I don't mean or say something just because it's what you want to hear. I have a huge heart and love to embrace the joys in my life. With that said, I want to be open and honest and say what I'm NOT looking for. We all say what we want but I feel it's important to say what i'm not looking for. I'm not looking for a man that can't make time for me, if your on here but don't have time to put into getting to know me for me then please don't send a message, not looking to be somebody's booty call or one night stand, I have way to much respect for myself and I'm to old to be playing games like that.. I don't want to be anybody's secret or second .. I'm worth a place by your side as you are worth that alsoI don't need a liar or a fake person - Once again I'm to old for the games and drama - Yes we all have a past but that past has a place. This one might be taken as shallow or mean but I'm an honest person so please take it as that - I'm not looking for a man that is a lot older then me I'm typically not attracted to men over 45 and i'm not looking for a guy that's still in your 20's - Yes you may be into older woman but I'm not the "older woman" for you. I'm the type that Is willing to put in what it takes to get to know somebody and see where it goes - I would like to find somebody that is willing to put in the same. There is so much to me and i'm in a place that I'm tired of being alone and I hate the dating thing - My intent wasn't to upset anybody but to be honest. I'm not perfect for all but, I hope i'm perfect for one! Lets talk

  • Amee

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Just like everyone else, I hate doing these things. I mean, how do you summarize yourself? I always get caught between wanting to make a bulleted list (my organized side) and rambling on forever about this and that until you're lost in the prose and at the end you'll say, "...but you didn't finish the story!" (My creative side). If you read all the advice out there and you're a man, you'd go for the prose because women love reading that stuff. But if you're a woman, my ad is already too long. Go figure. Hah!What the heck. I've gone on this long...I am shy and introverted; yet charismatic and can be the life of the party. I don't tell a good joke, but most people find me amusing. I don't smile all the time, which I guess translates into being somewhat intimidating and unapproachable (but now that I've told you that, you will not find me so); but if you approach me I usually have a smile for you. I am often told that I am the 'bright spot' in many people's day and am often sought out for quick conversation when they are feeling down. More than one man has said I am a good driver. :-)I am a geek. I grew up reading comics and, while I don't collect anymore, I still pick up one or two issues once in a while. I have several TV shows and book series that I am gaga over. And yes, I gush about them like a teenager. Sue me...but if you're not into them I probably wouldn't bore you with the details. I hate to tell folks this, but *everybody* is a geek about *something*.Running has taken over my life recently. Mostly it's because I'm training for my first Half in November; I *do* make time for a social life. Time out with friends, my nephew's football games (followed by family time), hiking and so on and I'm also training at work so I can move into a different field; but running is my current passion and obsession of choice.Hmmm. I wrote more than intended, but I hope I left you wanting to find out more about my story...Please note that you are unlikely to get a return response from me if all you say is, "Hi." Or throw down only one or two sentences. Ask me a question. Tell me something about you. Anything for God's sake! Just not..."Hey."

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