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About Me

.. Now that that's out of the way .. hehe I'm not a negative person by any means and I'm not better then anybody else, very positive in-fact. I'm not the type that will say something that I don't mean or say something just because it's what you want to hear. I have a huge heart and love to embrace the joys in my life. With that said, I want to be open and honest and say what I'm NOT looking for. We all say what we want but I feel it's important to say what i'm not looking for. I'm not looking for a man that can't make time for me, if your on here but don't have time to put into getting to know me for me then please don't send a message, not looking to be somebody's booty call or one night stand, I have way to much respect for myself and I'm to old to be playing games like that.. I don't want to be anybody's secret or second .. I'm worth a place by your side as you are worth that alsoI don't need a liar or a fake person - Once again I'm to old for the games and drama - Yes we all have a past but that past has a place. This one might be taken as shallow or mean but I'm an honest person so please take it as that - I'm not looking for a man that is a lot older then me I'm typically not attracted to men over 45 and i'm not looking for a guy that's still in your 20's - Yes you may be into older woman but I'm not the "older woman" for you. I'm the type that Is willing to put in what it takes to get to know somebody and see where it goes - I would like to find somebody that is willing to put in the same. There is so much to me and i'm in a place that I'm tired of being alone and I hate the dating thing - My intent wasn't to upset anybody but to be honest. I'm not perfect for all but, I hope i'm perfect for one! Lets talk

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jaynie

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I like to cook and bake. I keep a clean house. I enjoy time alone with my significant other. I like movies, having a drink or two. I'd like to go back to school at some point but right now work and children have most of my time. I like spending time with family and friends, bbq'n or hanging out. Enjoy my camping trip once a year. Go to Starbucks and talk until we've had enough. Have a casual dinner then maybe a walk.

  • Amee

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Just like everyone else, I hate doing these things. I mean, how do you summarize yourself? I always get caught between wanting to make a bulleted list (my organized side) and rambling on forever about this and that until you're lost in the prose and at the end you'll say, "...but you didn't finish the story!" (My creative side). If you read all the advice out there and you're a man, you'd go for the prose because women love reading that stuff. But if you're a woman, my ad is already too long. Go figure. Hah!What the heck. I've gone on this long...I am shy and introverted; yet charismatic and can be the life of the party. I don't tell a good joke, but most people find me amusing. I don't smile all the time, which I guess translates into being somewhat intimidating and unapproachable (but now that I've told you that, you will not find me so); but if you approach me I usually have a smile for you. I am often told that I am the 'bright spot' in many people's day and am often sought out for quick conversation when they are feeling down. More than one man has said I am a good driver. :-)I am a geek. I grew up reading comics and, while I don't collect anymore, I still pick up one or two issues once in a while. I have several TV shows and book series that I am gaga over. And yes, I gush about them like a teenager. Sue me...but if you're not into them I probably wouldn't bore you with the details. I hate to tell folks this, but *everybody* is a geek about *something*.Running has taken over my life recently. Mostly it's because I'm training for my first Half in November; I *do* make time for a social life. Time out with friends, my nephew's football games (followed by family time), hiking and so on and I'm also training at work so I can move into a different field; but running is my current passion and obsession of choice.Hmmm. I wrote more than intended, but I hope I left you wanting to find out more about my story...Please note that you are unlikely to get a return response from me if all you say is, "Hi." Or throw down only one or two sentences. Ask me a question. Tell me something about you. Anything for God's sake! Just not..."Hey."

  • Carole

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm looking for a best friend, a lover, and a great partner all in one. Kindness and respect are wonderful qualities in a man. My favorite relationships have lots of laughter and adventure. Being a very laid-back individual, I appreciate the same in a partner. I can be very geeky and playful always moving toward the positive in situations. I am a happy person.Being a night owl, you may find me spending hours listening to music videos on youtube or house hunting or satisfying some need for knowledge about a random topic. I guess you could say I know how to entertain myself BUT I play well with others too! I love getting together with friends for dinner parties or heading out for a beer or two. I really seem to get excited about snow skiing!!! I enjoy sitting around a campfire and jetskiing. Spontaneous or planned weekend getaways are fun. I am open to new experiences.Please contact me if you are interested in getting to know each other. Something simple first.

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