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About Me

.. Now that that's out of the way .. hehe I'm not a negative person by any means and I'm not better then anybody else, very positive in-fact. I'm not the type that will say something that I don't mean or say something just because it's what you want to hear. I have a huge heart and love to embrace the joys in my life. With that said, I want to be open and honest and say what I'm NOT looking for. We all say what we want but I feel it's important to say what i'm not looking for. I'm not looking for a man that can't make time for me, if your on here but don't have time to put into getting to know me for me then please don't send a message, not looking to be somebody's booty call or one night stand, I have way to much respect for myself and I'm to old to be playing games like that.. I don't want to be anybody's secret or second .. I'm worth a place by your side as you are worth that alsoI don't need a liar or a fake person - Once again I'm to old for the games and drama - Yes we all have a past but that past has a place. This one might be taken as shallow or mean but I'm an honest person so please take it as that - I'm not looking for a man that is a lot older then me I'm typically not attracted to men over 45 and i'm not looking for a guy that's still in your 20's - Yes you may be into older woman but I'm not the "older woman" for you. I'm the type that Is willing to put in what it takes to get to know somebody and see where it goes - I would like to find somebody that is willing to put in the same. There is so much to me and i'm in a place that I'm tired of being alone and I hate the dating thing - My intent wasn't to upset anybody but to be honest. I'm not perfect for all but, I hope i'm perfect for one! Lets talk

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Aviana

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I will try to sum up everything in a nutshell and not be too long winded, lolI'm a little shy in the beginning but pretty down to earth and certainly don’t judge a book by it's cover. My children, my family and friends are very important to me but I'd like to find that special someone. Someone to share hopes and dreams with, someone to say "it's going to be alright" I enjoy life and always try to have a positive outlook on things, I truly believe you can turn any negative situation around and make it positive if you choose to do so. It's all about your mind set. I really enjoy the simple things in life like going for long walks, cuddling by the fire or just sitting and talking. Anything can be enjoyable if you want it to be. I also enjoy going to the movies and playing pool, even though I'm not the best at it.....it's all about having fun. I believe laughter is the best medicine, so you must have a sense of humor and take things lightly, be able to joke and carry on and just have fun. Life is too short not to, so you have to make the most of every day.I'd have to say honesty, trust, communication and respect along with a good sense of humor are important qualities that I look for in a significant other/partner. As well being an overall good person who is willing to put themselves out there, someone who is sensitive to the needs of others and someone who is secure and confident with themselves.I certainly don't play games, so I'd appreciate the same in return. I'd ask that you please have a picture when you make first contact. It’s always nice to put a face to the person you are conversing with. Thanks :) Whatever we both decide.

  • Kilie

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a BBW and proud of it. I am also a single mom and proud of that. I have a good heart and love to have fun. So if you are someone who is true and honest...you never know? Message me and will we see.

  • Amiya

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    ****DONT READ ANY FURTHER if your seeking "friends with benefits" status!!!!Just re- Free-spirited, free-thinking sexy, & attractive blue-eyed blonde, slim w/hella SWAGG & [WOW!] I'm 'smart' too...! That's wassup! LOL...! I'm daring, bold, and adventurous, very open, outgoing, outspoken, spontaneous & independent, very non-conformist, quirky, complicated and 'unique' woman... Frequently told I'm very amusing & funny, tho I'm undecided if that means they're laughing with me OR AT me - LOLwLOL! I'm NOT your average chick and I LIVE LIFE on MY terms & MY rules, "My Business" ! Only God can Judge Me - Everyone else w/an opinion, speak freely OR don't!!I can't think of ANYTHING better than LAUGHING & having FUN out of life, and I need a guy who can handle and KEEP UP WITH ME & ENJOY himself doing it! Just a few of my interests are ~ I'm deeply passionate about animals, and enjoy an extremely wide & I love the ocean, mountains & desert, romance, flowers and candlelight, attentiveness & thoughtful surprises... I totally dig & am very 'into' Harley's and 'Lowrider's'. Im an EXTREMELY HUGE PBR (bull-riding) & Pro Boxing fan, and love boating, comedy clubs, football, dive bars, shooting guns N pool, gambling, horseracing(!!), all-nite /all-in poker games, travel and roadtrips to anywhere... *I DO smoke ***too!) and enjoy it! Looking for a guy who can make me 'feel' he's the most intriguing & interesting guy in the world... Who KNOWS HOW 2 HAVE FUN & LUVS 2 HAVE FUN, doing just about anything & everything, (staying at HOME, together, obviously has its appeal, LOL, but seriously, if that's ALL U really wanna do that's NOT my idea of FUN or LIVING LIFE to the FULLEST!), that WILL enjoy doing them with ME, who is NOT DOWN to play games, has enough INTEGRITY, RESPECT & SELF-RESPECT to VALUE "keepin it REAL" always, and who IS attentive, considerate & if necessary, WILL MAKE time to spend with ME! A guy who is able to value & like 'me' for WHO I AM, not want to, or try to 'change me' into who they want me to be, or who THEY THINK I 'could', or 'should wanna' BE! Im SUPER KOO with ME, seeking SAME, really simple!You must have an AWESOME sense of humor & love to LAUGH, (that's NON-negotiable), be open-minded, non-judgemental & able to handle impulsivity, embrace & enjoy LIFE to its fullest - especially long fabulous summer days, be an outdoorsy kinda guy, laid-back & easy-going, seriously enjoy MUSIC, have some CLASS & KNOW (that includes SHOW!) how to treat a WOMAN with RESPECT, be into chicks IN CHUCKS LOL, with tattoos n visible piercings, and lastly, but MOST importantly, really & truly like n RESPECT ANIMALS, especially DOGS!!!! Even Ugly Ones, LOL!Must be DRAMA-FREE (!!) and preferably w/NO MORE than a 'carry-on' of baggage - REAL TALK! I truly DISLIKE n have NO RESPECT for LIARS, ARROGANCE, self-important BORING PEOPLE, control freaks, deviants, stalkers, ***** If U wonder, worry or CARE on any level, WHAT 'other people' think about U - then in 'full disclosure' (I) am positively NOT the girl for U - so let's NOT waste each other's time??

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