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.. Now that that's out of the way .. hehe I'm not a negative person by any means and I'm not better then anybody else, very positive in-fact. I'm not the type that will say something that I don't mean or say something just because it's what you want to hear. I have a huge heart and love to embrace the joys in my life. With that said, I want to be open and honest and say what I'm NOT looking for. We all say what we want but I feel it's important to say what i'm not looking for. I'm not looking for a man that can't make time for me, if your on here but don't have time to put into getting to know me for me then please don't send a message, not looking to be somebody's booty call or one night stand, I have way to much respect for myself and I'm to old to be playing games like that.. I don't want to be anybody's secret or second .. I'm worth a place by your side as you are worth that alsoI don't need a liar or a fake person - Once again I'm to old for the games and drama - Yes we all have a past but that past has a place. This one might be taken as shallow or mean but I'm an honest person so please take it as that - I'm not looking for a man that is a lot older then me I'm typically not attracted to men over 45 and i'm not looking for a guy that's still in your 20's - Yes you may be into older woman but I'm not the "older woman" for you. I'm the type that Is willing to put in what it takes to get to know somebody and see where it goes - I would like to find somebody that is willing to put in the same. There is so much to me and i'm in a place that I'm tired of being alone and I hate the dating thing - My intent wasn't to upset anybody but to be honest. I'm not perfect for all but, I hope i'm perfect for one! Lets talk

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Mallie

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    ok so here we go...so ive gone bk and forth with this a cpl times but yet to have had any luck and idk i guess im wanting to see if there is any possibility of finding that one. I am looking for a man who is mature yet knows how to have fun without playing little games.. I really am tired of making mistakes im ready to be inlove and i just want to fall for the right guy....ya kno i really dnt want to be out dating alot of diifent ppl ...just that one special one will do me just fine!! I like a man who has a sense of humor but knos how to be serious when needed.I need passion and romance...... I love to love and i long to be in love with someone who i am able to let myself go with...where i can be me but then again i guess we probably all want that.loli like all the typical girly stuff with a serving off guy stuff.lol i have 3 boys so in my house it is... football ,motorcycles,race cars and well they like the girls i dnt.lol anyhow soooo i guess ive said enough for now ... if theres anything u want to kno ask away....bahahahahafeel free to check out my *** want to see more pics and stuff so a first date.......just getting to know someone and what kind of prson they are

  • Wisdom

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Where to start...So I'm told I have an infectious smile. Whether or not that's true, I do smile often and hopefully that speaks to the way I live my life. I'm blessed with a fantastic family, surrounded by amazing friends and truth be told, my kid is amazing. Now I've also been told I can be a bit feisty...but that's open to interpretation. Am passionate in my endeavors and known for my energy and enthusiasm. I'm warm, confident, independent and can hold my own in most situations I get thrown into... but am all girl and embrace everything that comes with that! I completely subscribe to the "what goes around, comes around" (both good and bad) approach to life and am still ever the optimist when it comes to people, which shockingly does not always serve me well. I believe in playing by the rules (usually) and that choosing right over wrong is usually JUST that simple. I love living at the beach for more reasons than I have time to list or you probably want to hear about. But if you do, just ask :) I live for sun and when those warm balmy beach days kick in, you can find me on the sand. I love to entertain and do so often because literally, there is nothing better than a house filled with friends, music and laughter. I'm fit and I workout...run and paddle whenever I can these days weather permitting and might even possess a tiny competitive streak, which for the most part I keep in check. I am a huge fan of the written word and as you can see, brief may not be my strong suit. But what I lack in concise communication, I make up for with direct and from the heart.Let's see, what else...~am a great swimmer & awful snowboarder (plan to improve that this winter!)~admittedly, I'm a hideous trivia pursuit contender, but I play Bananagrams with a vengeance~~hate horror movies (enough tragedy in the real world) and prefer anything in print or on screen with a life lesson and a happy ending.... ~NO, I didn't play basketball or volleyball and YES I'm sure it's a shame at my height, but when you see me bowl you'll understand why :) ~do most likely have an emoticon addiction but it's well balanced with a vast appreciation for great vocabulary words~Captain Crunch cereal and the Electric Light parade....still love 'em!As for you...Intelligence is alluring, confidence is fascinating and tall is a necessity. I am a girl that loves her heels and direct eye contact!Emotionally & physically healthy...integrity at your core. Sense of fun and adventure intact still, regardless of your age. Grounded & fulfilled, you are able to find more reasons to laugh than complain in life. You are willing to take a little time and effort to look your best whether it's time put in at the gym or for a night out. Family relationships and friendships are a priority. Have direction, know what you want and how to get it and hopefully not walking around with a "bag of bitter" about your ex. Seriously, it's an energy suck! A great smile and a wicked sense of humor are hard to resist. I believe in keeping it easy....please don't ask me to climb a mountain or play Scrabble I find a drink soothes those first meet nervesAnd go from there....you never know

  • Shevon

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a tall, slightly eccentric, very colorful woman with a lot of passion for life and the ability to get things done, be responsible! yet live in the moment and have fun.I have two children living at home, while they are big kids and have somewhat of a life of their own, they still need me and they are my priority! So my spare time is limited and precious. I am looking for someone to spend grown- up time with. I am a very easy woman to get to know and have conversation with. I have been a waitress for a very long time and have travelled a lot so I can relate to a lot of people with many backgrounds. I think first dates should be about introductions, I prefer coffee or meeting in a public place.

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