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Lesa, 43

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PLEASE DO NOT WRITE ME ONE WORD MESSAGES I have NO interest in someone who cannot write a full sentence and spell correctly ! It is TRULY a PET-PEEVE of mine. One word will NOT get a reply. Thanks ! .(¯`*•.¸,¤°´`°¤¸.•*•*´¯) (¯`*•.¸,¤°´`°¤¸.•*•*´¯) (¯`*•.¸,¤°´`°¤¸.•*•*´¯)I am single after ***years & I am looking for my FIRST REAL DATE! I love photography, volunteering, kids, pets & REAL people. I am a fan of 80's (dance) music, love to travel & want to meet someone who makes my knees weak when our eyes meet. I am truly a people pleaser, but my goal is to be happy & find someone who makes me WANT to be happy WITH THEM. I have a 21 year old daughter who lives on her own, attends College & works. She IS my world. I do not have much other family & look forward to meeting new friends & people who are passionate about their life.; places with water.I have an 11 year-old American Eskimo dog that is my baby & have got her at 4 months old from the pound. I am able to carry an intelligent conversation, use manners & be polite. It's just a nice way to feel when someone respects you enough to use manners.I have REALLY never been on a REAL DATE. I have heard that guys pick a girl-up at her house, take her out & bring her home....I have not EVER experienced it (even my ex-husband didn't do that for me when we dated.....we MET someplace or I drove....Now it's just history ! ) I do NOT talk about my EX or other people when I am with someone. That too is RUDE & in poor taste. I would like to hope that someone else would be able to do the same for me. My favorite feature is eyes & I like to keep my attention on someone & be 'in the moment'. I can only hope I find someone who will 'catch my eye'. ;) ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*(¯`*•.¸,¤°´`°¤¸.•*•*´¯) ^*^*^*^*^*(¯`*•.¸,¤°´`°¤¸.•*•*´¯) ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*Since I haven't EVER been on a FIRST DATE, I will just use what I have seen (TV/movies) to create my idea of a great 1st date. I would love the guy to be excited to meet me & bring even a single flower, compliment what I look like or what I am wearing & open the doors for me. Whisk me off to someplace to talk while we order drinks or food, etc....find out about each other while finding moments to laugh, take-in one another & look into the eyes of my 1st date for a sparkle....Ok, too many Romantic Comedies ?? lol I would like it to be simple, casual & comfortable for us both. I'm not into someone spending a TON of money on a dinner. I'm simple & appreciate all efforts put forth on my behalf. I am a very kind person & DO plan on listening intently to our conversation & sharing what I can about myself without rambling on about MY life. I am shy to begin with, but I DO warm-up & get more comfortable over time. I am new to this whole experience, so I hope you can 'work with me'....I am pleasant & kind & sometimes blush easily! lol Can't wait to meet someone great! :-) ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*(¯`*•.¸,¤°´`°¤¸.•*•*´¯) ^*^*^*^*^*(¯`*•.¸,¤°´`°¤¸.•*•*´¯) ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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