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About Me

II love to laugh and would do anything for my friends or family. Friends describe me as funny and sweet and tell me I have a lot to offer the right guy.. I love movies at the theatre and and rentals work on those cold winter nights. I do not like the cold or winter and if I could I'd hibernate like a bear from January until May.I am attracted to men close in age to myself that have a great sense of humor. Although looks do play a role, I'm typically drawn to a guy by their personality and intelligence. A man with strong family values, who knows how to balance his love life with the things he likes to do without a partner is a draw for me. If appearance does play a part I typically go for the tall guy with devilish eyes and killer smile. Someone that can make me laugh and appreciate me for all I give could surely win my heart. Turn ons include: humor,spontaneity, confidence without arrogance, consideration and courtesy. Turn offs: rudeness, obnoxiousness, multiple tattoos or piercings, and being inconsiderate.Married or involved men looking to hook up need not respond!!!! Meeting for coffee, lunch or dinner to talk with minimal interruption to see what we may have in common.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Abijah

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    As an acupuncturist, I attempt to live a healthy lifestyle(key word is attempt...doesn't always happen) by going to the gym and/or running ***times per week and cooking simple, healthy meals. I like to go out and have fun but am very happy spending time enjoying the outdoors, hiking, running or walking or hanging indoors playing games or watching a movie cuddled on the couch. I also enjoy riding horses, kayaking (I've only been once but I loved it), I am a great passenger on the back of a motorcycle (I even come equipped with my own helmet and chaps), rock climbing (I haven't been in a while) or simply plopping down in a chair with a good book out in the sun...the training has been intense but I am really excited for the race! I typically enjoy rock music but I think my tastes are mellowing a bit(don't be fooled though...the rocker will always live in me!). I attempt to live positively so I make every effort to appreciate what I have and not complain about what I do not have or cannot change and hope to find those qualities in a mate. I am open-minded and above all, I love to laugh(even if it's at my own expense). I am told that I have a dry, sarcastic sense of humor so if you offend easily, I might not be your cup of tea. I am looking for someone who has similar interests, doesn't carry baggage around with them and looks at the glass as half full as opposed to half empty. I'm looking for someone who understands that relationships take two and that communication is vital to the success of that relationship. I am also looking for someone I am wildly attracted to and who is wildly attracted to me in return!A few of my favorite things: my morning coffee, my cats(I have 2 but am in no way a "crazy cat lady"...I promise!!), my home, my family and friends, passion/connection/affection, lip balm, my job (these are in no special order but getting in the way of my morning coffee might leave you without limbs...not that I am a grumpy morning person but b/c I really do love my coffee!). I think a first date when you don't know someone should be something simple like coffee or a drink with the possibility of dinner/food. It's easy to like someone on the phone but in person chemistry is either there or it's not so a quick meeting is the best way to see if it's there...and then go forward to a 2nd date(or continue the 1st if both parties are available). *****I never log off so it looks like I'm Online day and night....I am NOT...so if I don't respond immediately, it's because I haven't checked my app! ;-)

  • Esme

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    So heres where i talk about my hobbies, goals/aspirations, etc. lol. I think it is much easier just getting to know that person and learn as you go. Now for everyone who believes inner beauty out weighs outer beauty, I do not completely disagree, but reality is that we are all attracted to the outer beauty of a stranger. Inner beauty comes after you get to know that person. we can not be attracted to someones inner beauty when we dont even know them, and since none of us know each other I'll bet the physical attraction is what leads you to sending that message. If I am attracted to you I would definitely want to get to know you. Physical attraction is what brings out sexual desire. Sex isn't everything in a relationship but it is very important. Im guessing a lot of women say that sex isnt important but i disagree, the passion two people make is juust as important as friendship is. Both of these things are important to keeping a relationship strong, it is the spice of life. Whats the fun in reading someones profile. I dont think a profile determines a connection. You have to get to know that person.I want the person I am with to be my best friend and share the same sexual desires. I like holding hands, taking walks but I like to have fun also, weather that be going out dancing, fishing, camping, golfing, etc., I just want to do it with that special person. I work long hours and am very independent. I am not so much in to the material things but more into living within my means. I think a relationship is ***. I don't see it as this is your job and that is mine. If the dishes need done and u are the one home then do them, If the grass needs cut and I'm the one home I will cut it. I am not a Cheater and don't want one. If u need more than one playmate I'm probably not the one for u. I'm tempted to say First dates always demand a crowd but I think it also depends on how comfortable you are with that person. Most of the time after just talking to someone a few times I get a feel for that comfort level, so first dates would definitely have to be something you are both comfortable with. I might even want to wear some good running shoes!

  • Karrie

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a very cofident woman looking for someone to be my bestfriend and partner. I love music, mostly R&B, hip hop and reggae. I enjoy watching sports like football,baseball and basketball. I have 3 great kids (they do not need babysitter) and love spending time with them and my family.......family is very important to me so I am looking for someone with the same qualities. I love to cuddle and watch a movie as well as going out and having fun! Some place we can talk and get to know one another.

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