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Shantae, 42

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About Me

Im a 42yr old divorced Mother of 2 Sons, of 16 and 21. Been divorced now little over 2yrs. 21yr old is on his own. I have my 16yr old all the time. Hoping to meet a fun, good hearted, faithful, funny, romantic gentleman. Would settle for faithful LOL. I like laughter. LOVE comedy. I can find funny in anything and at anytime.My kids too once I start or they do, so a sense of humor is a MUST!! I love anything 80s, music, movies. Love to meet a man who is also into 80s sh*tlol. Trust me we will have fun :) Concerts, beach vacations. Rides to no where. Spontaneous weekends away I miss it. Cookouts, Holidays and good times. RAVENS football LOL. Anything else u wanna know just ask. :) Meet at a public place like a mall or restaurant. I dont mind a man with a few extra pounds, but no big men sry. Just my preferance. I am in NO hurry. I like to take things slow. Please no men who are overly touchy and feely on the first date, thats an *** off. Not looking for a "GOOD TIME" aka one night stands etc. Thats what ya looking for theres other websites for that..LOL. I love chemistry and if its there as we date we can then move along as we both feel comfortable.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Joanne

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am very family oriented person ,caring ,down to earth who believes in old school relationship ,i believe in being friends before lovers ,am blessed with a great son and family ,i like camping ,walking ,hiking ,I LOVE TO COOK AND STAY HEALTHY ,love to workout and stay in shape ,love nature ,i enjoy doing about anything ,i enjoy the little things in life,love looking at the stars,,silence nights very relaxing ,am very responsible ,i don't like drama and its just a waste of time and energy ,i am blessed with a happy personalty and every day is a gift from god to us and a chance to be a better person ,i am open to learn new things in life and learn about others ,i am very honest person with myself and others and if you have a problem with communication then we are not a good match ,with all do respect to every body but i am not in to body piercing or to many tattoos sorry don't mean to offend any one ....; your in your 40s i hope your done with the bar scene and clubs because its not for me and never was or will be ,am attracted to some one who like to take care of himself ,laid back ,honest ,LOVE COMMUNICATION because its very important we are not kids any more ,i know what i want from you and i hope the same from you ,I AM NOT looking for one night stand or an intimate encounter or sex ,,,, ,no lies ,no games,, like i said before i believe in being friends before anything else ,so with communication and honesty and open mind and heart and if the chemistry is there then everything will work out ,i wish every one the best of luck .PLEASE IF YOUR UNDER THE AGE OF 39 AND OVER 50 PLEASE DON'T SEND ME ANY *** ,AND IF YOU DON'T HAVE A PICTURE PLEASE AGAIN DON'T *** YOU FOR UNDERSTANDING . sure i like to see you in person and just talk .

  • Evelyne

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I’m pretty open minded…everyone has their own experiences in life that may put them in situations to make certain choices or view things in certain ways—some good, some bad. I believe in looking at the big picture before placing judgment on a person’s position in life or their principles. Depending on the circumstances, I have a serious/responsible side, but believe me; I am quite capable of having lots of fun! Actually, I'm usually the one who doesn't want to leave the party. Outside of work I'm usually hanging with the family or out with friends...drinks, etc. I enjoy concerts and going to the casino. I love playing cards. As for traveling, I really haven’t been to too many places, but I definitely want to fit more travel time in and see a lot more....especially where it’s warm, because I DON’T like cold weather at all!! In fact, I wouldn’t mind moving someplace where it stays warm. Although, I would probably miss the seasons....I do like fall and seasons do bring so many memories. The type of man I’m looking for…someone who is down to earth, honest, and considerate, someone who can make me happy, make me smile/laugh and I’d do the same for him. I’d like someone who truly wants to share each other, spend time; going to dinner, movies, concerts or just hanging out together relaxing at home, watching our favorite shows, cooking together,walking/sitting on the beach, picnics, camping, traveling…all that good stuff! Anyway, that should do it. If you like what you’ve read so far and think we might be compatible, I’m here. ttyl

  • Esme

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    So heres where i talk about my hobbies, goals/aspirations, etc. lol. I think it is much easier just getting to know that person and learn as you go. Now for everyone who believes inner beauty out weighs outer beauty, I do not completely disagree, but reality is that we are all attracted to the outer beauty of a stranger. Inner beauty comes after you get to know that person. we can not be attracted to someones inner beauty when we dont even know them, and since none of us know each other I'll bet the physical attraction is what leads you to sending that message. If I am attracted to you I would definitely want to get to know you. Physical attraction is what brings out sexual desire. Sex isn't everything in a relationship but it is very important. Im guessing a lot of women say that sex isnt important but i disagree, the passion two people make is juust as important as friendship is. Both of these things are important to keeping a relationship strong, it is the spice of life. Whats the fun in reading someones profile. I dont think a profile determines a connection. You have to get to know that person.I want the person I am with to be my best friend and share the same sexual desires. I like holding hands, taking walks but I like to have fun also, weather that be going out dancing, fishing, camping, golfing, etc., I just want to do it with that special person. I work long hours and am very independent. I am not so much in to the material things but more into living within my means. I think a relationship is ***. I don't see it as this is your job and that is mine. If the dishes need done and u are the one home then do them, If the grass needs cut and I'm the one home I will cut it. I am not a Cheater and don't want one. If u need more than one playmate I'm probably not the one for u. I'm tempted to say First dates always demand a crowd but I think it also depends on how comfortable you are with that person. Most of the time after just talking to someone a few times I get a feel for that comfort level, so first dates would definitely have to be something you are both comfortable with. I might even want to wear some good running shoes!

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