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LotusOnline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
About myself... there's plenty of good, and just enough bad to keep things exciting. I'm loyal to the death and would have made the perfect knight if they'd let women do it. I'm a fighter when I have to be and am generous with my time and who I am. I don't have a lot materially, but I don't want for much either. I take care of my home, this hundred-year-old hobbit hole that I'll probably be stuck with till I'm a complaining old biddy, and those I love and who are in my charge get most of my attention. I have an almost gut *** support and defend the underdog, and I'll do just about anything to create harmony and fairness. Integrity is so important to me that it can border on the annoying, which leads me to......the bad. If someone called me a "pain in the ass," I'd have a hard time disagreeing with them. A cute pain in the ass. I can be a bit much and too intense. When I'm into something, I'm in it all the way. I might drive you crazy with my analyzing, debating, and discussing. But just tell me to "time out" myself and I'm fine with that. I react strongly to emotional upsets, although I tend to keep most of that to myself and withdraw a little. There's a heaping of the devil inside me, but it's always in fun, and I'm drawn to situations that'll either make people wag their fingers at me or laugh their asses off. These things are usually more fun with company, and I might have, in the past, been accused of being a bad, I would say mischievous, influence.I like when people disagree with me and don't let me get away with thinking that I'm always right. I have a strong personality and will defend my opinions or the other side of an argument just to keep the dialogue going and the thing explored. Don't let me get away with it. Stand by your opinion and prove it's right by digging out the truth of the matter. I genuinely welcome the differences of opinions and life-styles. I couldn't stand to be with someone who agreed with everything I said or let me have my own way all the time.Are you still there?What I do most of the time...I work in higher ed teaching ESL and Comp I & II. I enjoy the give and take that happens in the classroom and the different experiences that others bring to it, especially those from other cultures and backgrounds. That's where I'm most happy and comfortable, with the interaction and the open exchange of ideas.Outside the classroom...I fill my most of my spare time with various art projects, attempts at writing my own stuff, reading, long walks (about three hours a day with the pup), puzzles, occasional work-outs, PBS and BBC, watching home shopping but rarely buying, theatre shows, out-and-about adventures, reading student essays and lesson-planning, and all the other mundane crap that fills up a life. The old oak tree overtop my house keeps me pretty busy year round cleaning up after it, but we thank it for its shade and the roots which soak up the water that would otherwise be in my crawlspace. I suppose I spend a good deal of time fantasizing and day-dreaming as well. I used to a lot more when younger, and still can't help myself. Old habits, I guess. I like stories. I like getting out of "here" for a while. This world can be a little cold, lonely, scary, and caustic at times.Okay, so what am I looking for?You need to enjoy the company of women. Truly. I get it that you can't help but see us as the love-goddesses we are. You're a (straight) man. That's natural. You want us in your bed. But we can't all be in your bed and most of us won't want to be. Those are just the odds. So you really need to respect the fact that we are fellow human beings who share this space in time with you.That would be the most important thing for me. I don't know if I have a type. I've never really gone by that, and if I had to review exes, I would have to say that they were all different. Honesty, loyalty, and communication are so important, plus just being on the same page as far as expectations. Where I've had problems in the past would have had more to do with lack of sincerity or differences in values than anything else. I've tended to give a lot more than was being reciprocated, and I'm not so willing to do that anymore. If you're going to be in my life, then what is it you have to offer that's going to make my life better in some way? Yes, you have the right to ask the same question of me. I guess we'll have to get to know each other a little and decide if it's worth pursuing. I have to add here that I'm looking more for quality and compatibility over chemistry and physical attraction. I know those are important, but not as much as the former two. Chemistry can be misleading and a shallow judge of character. And I think people give it too much precedence. I am open to exploring and seeing what's out there before getting so serious, though. I might even prefer to not have the weight of a relationship at the moment, but it's got to be good for me in some way. I read somewhere that online dating is useful only for casual sex and superficial love. Perhaps. But I'd like to keep believing that something more were still possible...Happy Hunting. ...or, About You...If anything here applies, that would be great. I'm looking for more than just "says 'bless you' when I sneeze"...You’re wanting to hang out in some church basement one fine Saturday night to give it a go at Bingo and you need a date.You'd consider dressing up for me as Spider Man or Darth Maul or Tim Curry from either RHPS or Legend. Asking too much? I don't expect this right away, so it's okay, relax. Maybe someday.You want to get a cup of coffee and have a talk or check out a museum. I'm quite fond of churches and cemeteries as well. A table-chat or park bench while people watching would be nice too.You can whip me up a fine meal. I wouldn't mind helping you out in there, but a man who knows how to take care of things in the kitchen is pretty sexy to me.You're open-minded, or just bored, and would feel like sitting for me while I do some life-drawing sketches. Seriously, I’m in need of some unabashed models.You need someone to accompany you on walkabout around the city or some random small town to discover new things.You're brave.You treat others with kindness and respect.You're sincere and smart, not clever and cool.You like dogs but don't have a pit bull.You feel like teaching me how to bowl.At least one of your favorite movies is animated.You do what you say you're going to do.You don't mind someone who quotes movies and calls out the different states on license plates.You used to listen to Duran Duran and liked them and aren't afraid to admit as much.You're mature and courteous enough to be honest about what you're looking for.The Feedback Booth on Antiques Roadshow cracks you up.You love homemade cookies and can make them. Or know someone who can.Curiosity urges you to try new things and sometimes gets you into trouble.You've restored an old home and actually knew what you were doing. Or didn't but learned a lot along the way.You judge others by their actions not their words and expect the same in return.
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LoyceOnline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
I love to bake, travel and have a good time, which sometimes consist of doing nothing! Love Love Love HOCKEY! Blue is my favorite color, tats are sexy and I have a daughter who is grown and very beautiful. With that being said, I have several tats an no that doesn't make me trashy but in fact artistic....all my ink has a meaning so if that bothers you then tuff! I like baby faces and a great smile just gets me all the time, also a sucker for great lips..men who have a sensitive side as well as a funny side.....I don't like very HAIRY men or men who try to impress you by how much money they have, liars and/or cheaters..........I work two jobs...one at an office and the other on the weekends at a nite club...... My favorite holiday is Christmas an everything about it.......I sometimes can be very shy when it comes to men but other then that I am very outgoing! I'm not a girly girl but I do clean up well, also not in the best shape id like to be in but also not in the worst...I would like to do the whole gym thing but a prior accident leaves me limited to what I can do unless u are willing to help me with a workout plan... Not here to "find a pc of azz" or find a "sex buddy" so if that is all you are interested in plz keep looking. But if you are interested in me then leave me a message, if not I hope you find what it is you are looking for! :)NO DISRESPECT IF I DON'T ANSWER YOUR MESSAGE, JUST MEANS I AM LOOKING FOR SOMETHING/SOMEONE DIFFERENT.LEGAL NOTICE:Please be informed that any individual, third party or organization using this site for any reasons, are prohibited and restricted from using any portion of my profile, information and/or photographs at any time or for any purpose. It will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action. Guess we would have to talk about it to make sure we both would feel comfortable in where we go......
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PhyllisOnline
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I am a fun, outgoing girl who is looking to spend time with someone who shares the same interests as me. I enjoy all types of movies, but my favorite movies are thrillers and suspenseful movies. I don't limit myself to any one type of music. If I like the lyrics, then I like the song and the artist. I enjoy reading mainly mystery books. When the weather is nice, I go to dog parks with my black lab and walking with friends. I do have a creative side, and I make quilts and embroidered items. I have a great sense of humor, and I love to laugh and have fun. I can be sarcastic, and I don't take myself or life too seriously. I am a great conversationalist, and I can talk to anyone about anything. I like to really get to know people and understand who they are and what makes them tick. I live a drama free life, and I want to hang out with someone where it may turn into something more. I work for a company that makes life saving *** love my job, and that what I do may save a life. I have had the opportunity to travel out of the country and to meet and interact with interesting people. I am a hard working, driven person who is always looking to improve myself both professionally and personally. I am pretty adventurous and open to new things. It would be good to do something where we could talk, so we could get to know each other.