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Lizzy, 38
United States, Minnesota, Hopkins

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About Me

First off: Yes I'm real. Yes I'm single. Yes I'm actually looking for a relationship. No I won't "cam" with you and I'm not here just to lead guys on because I'm bored. I believe that there is a person on the other side and only a pathetic person would think that they have any right to just "play" with someone's emotions for their own amusement. That being said :)... Between being busy at work and owning a house I find it difficult in the remaining time to find a way to meet people without having to sift through those that are looking for something else. Since I can't expect someone to show up at my door (while that would be kind of creepy but at the same time convenient) I figured I would give this a shot because I have some friends that have tried it and like it.I don't even know exactly how to summarize myself in a few paragraphs. Hmmm.... I am loyal to almost a fault, dependable, honest (again sometimes almost to my own demise). I have worked hard for all I have. I have to say I am fairly shy at least when I first meet someone. After that you will wish the shyness would come back (KIDDING). I think I am very sweet and still have the morals my parents *** me. But don't let that fool you. Just because I am opposed to breaking even the most mundane laws does not mean that I don't like to have fun Ha-ha!I love reading, watching movies, long rides to absolutely nowhere, hiking, exploring and just hanging out. I don't expect my partner to have the same interests as me and would hope that they feel the same. I am looking for a partner who is done with the 20 something games and "playing the field" and is looking to possibly have a long term relationship. I am looking for someone who is also financially responsible. And PLEASE if you currently have a girlfriend and are surfing for a replacement, please don't contact me until you are actually single. Thank you!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Swimming Indonesian Thai Fantasy History Sport Dirt Bike Racing
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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

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