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Shelba, 38

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About Me

yesterday is history, tomorrow a mystery, today is a Gift, so embrace and live life to the fullest, you only have one after all !! Playful, curious, full of life, energy and spunk, always wears a smile or smirk on her face, is full humor and laughter with a twisted bit of sarcasm :o) What else to say....hmmmm? I don't have a clue as to what would make one stand out from all the rest.... Hit me up and you can find out any and all you may want to know.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kirstin

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Seeking just one sweet guy. It doesn't sound that difficult does it?! Well it absolutely is. I wonder where being sweet and kind went?Anyway lol, I am an independent, successful, articulate, kind, reliable, honest and playful women. I am seeking someone with similar attributes. I am hopeful that sometime soon I will meet a genuine, sweet, funny, caring guy. It should go without saying that amongst these things, there must also be physical attraction. I will say this, if you are purely superficial, and always seeking someone better then you are not for me, and it is best that you move on. I am very friendly, balanced, and offer substance. If this is something that interests you, send me a message. My body type is more curvy but the menu doesn't offer that as an option. I am on this thing right now whereby I research the Internet for the best deals on designer products,,,a little weird considering I don't care for designer anything lolI have a love for vintage things, clothing, cars, furniture etc. Currently looking for a vintage beetle lol....who knows maybe the sweet guy I meet will have a beetle he is willing to sell to me lolThanks :)

  • Day

    Online

    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Hi Everyone!Not sure what to write in here... The size of this or any box seems not enough to describe who I am and what I am looking for in a partner.A few random thoughts, would probably describe me best than any list of likes and dislikes... while leaving upon you the excitement of the discovery! ;) And I know how much you guys like that, and I also know that I deserve brownie points for this! :DBesides I think, that likes are subject to change as we evolve and grow through life. Who you are is what really matters and shall never change.If the latter changes, let me know... I'll redirect you automatically to the next profile. The chick "next door" looooooves crazy!!! LOL (But not kidding.. And if you can fluctuate in between extremes you’re very intelligent I think… and complete. MAGICAL is probably the term that best describes the man I am looking for.Non-smoker is fine as I am trying to quit... :))Dog Lover is NOT a must... but not a Dog Hater IS!!!I am not a big fan of internet dating, it is not me at all... But I was also told not to put all my eggs in one basket, so I thought I’d drop a few in the “Pond” and see what happens… :)I am not complicated, and the small things in life are the ones that make me happy! When it comes to dating and relationships, my Philosophy is well summarized in this quote of one of my favourite thinkers:“Every man carries within himself the eternal image of woman, not the image of this or that particular woman, but a definite feminine image. This image is fundamentally unconscious, a hereditary factor of primordial origin.”Carl Gustav Jung.In simple words: When it feels right(for both...) then it is!It all comes down to chemistry in the end.. and attraction is a must. A first date with somebody met online shouldn't even be called such, but rather a First Meet.And I would keep that very casual and simple.. just to get a feel of each other. Coffee or a few drinks, and if there's a spark, we'll take it from there and schedule a First Date. :)PS: ** I DON'T HAVE AN EXTENDED PROFILE... THAT'S BS!!! **

  • Phylis

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Online dating...It feels kind of like shopping for people, which seems unnatural to me, but my friends tell me this is the way it's done these days, so here we are. I'm not great at describing myself, but here goes.I'm a bay area native, even went to college here, but I have been able to travel a bit. I can find humor in just about anything, and I do mean anything, I have even been known to laugh at funeral homes. I love to people watch, so dive bars are a ton of fun for me, with the added bonus of getting to see the local bands, which I also love. Music wise, I like just about anything, but I'm not really into rap- too much violence in it. Street fairs are great, love to watch NASCAR with my dad, also love classic cars, and usually hit the local cars shows.I like baseball and I love to go to games, but not the Giants- it feels more like a society event than a baseball game, which leaves me unsure of how behave. I'm a die-hard A's fan, and while I can tolerate a Giants fan, if you're a Yankees fan, I'm probably just going to offend you, that would make us both feel awful, and I'd really rather avoid that. I have some pretty strong feelings about Steinbrenner's whorehouse, and his death hasn't cooled my ire :-)I have an extremely close knit group of long term friends who are like family to me and I spend a lot of time with them, BBQing during the summer, movie nights ( we usually pick a theme- worst acting, highest gross out factor, most ridiculous premise, etc.- and watch 3 or ***I like camping, preferably somewhere remote, with no cell phone reception, where I won't be bothered, but the expresso machine has to come with me, because I'm not going to go without it in the morning, I don't care where I am. I read constantly ( my best friend says I would read the phone book, but I really do need something with a plot ). I also spend so much time in meetings and going over budgets, that if my 21 year-old self could see me now, she would throw her beer in my face and tell me to lighten up.As far as the type of guy I like, he has to be happy already, since I'm not good with fixer-uppers, and I really prefer a guy's guy, so if you wax anything regularly, or are intimately aquainted with 'Project Runway', we can be great friends, but we can't date. Also, if we're alone in a room together, I can't be the only one who can identify an intake manifold. I would love to find someone to have fun with, if it turns into something more, great! Another single parent would be ideal, since I've found that people who don't have children get a little testy about the challenges that come along with single parent dating :-) Not a requirement, but dating a single parent isn't easy, so know that going in.I have a terribly caustic wit- so I'm definitely not for the faint of heart. I'm also not looking to get married just yet, so if you're looking for the mother of your future children that absolutely must be born soon, I'm probably not the girl for you, but I'd be happy to help you find her, I've been told I'm an excellent wingman :-). I'm not really into the casual dating thing, so if you're looking for a friends with benefits situation, I'm absolutely not the girl for you. I love bowling, I think it's the greatest white trash sport ever invented, shooting pool being a close second. I'm terrible at both, but it's still a lot of fun.I'm always listening to music, and since I came of age in the 80's, some of it is really bad (think 'Asia' or anything that could be described as a 'Hair Band'), but I'll listen to just about anything, and I love listening to live music. If there's a band playing somewhere, I'll probably try to make time too see them

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