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Tabetha, 40
United States, Minnesota, Grand Rapids

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About Me

i am just looking to date, not for a relationship, so im the wrong gal if u want a relationship.if a relationship happens then thats great. i write and sing country music. so music is my life, love to have a good time and hangout with a few drinks. dont mean to sound so callous, just been BURNED n the past by "looking" for a relationship, so now im not looking for one. if a relationship results then great, if not then i just move on. basically i have no expectations. if u like me great, if you dont thats great too. i have a huge heart and am the most caring person you will ever know, i guess u can say i wear my heart on my sleeve. that i try not to do as much, as this shows weekness. dont think im here for a one night stand, if that happens then that happens too, but i just want to be around someone who makes me laugh and have fun and enjoys the same things i do. if it happens i just make a great friend thats awesome.im a jeans and tshirt and flip flop type of gal, but can clean up nice. basically i am not high maintenance. haha, love the outdoors and anything to do with water, love to swim. and love spending time relaxing in my hammock , i do hunt and fish, yes i no, i dont looc lic the type that does, but i do and love it. want to no something, then asc...oh and btw...if u do drugs, have or have ever had an std or just mentally unstable, plz don't bother to message me...im NOT interested. another big BTW...b4 ascnnn for full body shots, yes im a bigger gal I HAVE CURVES...not huge, but def not a supermodel thin girl, u lic a thc gal then that's me, if not, who really cares. just saynnnoh and one more thing...if you "WANNA MEET ME" then message me, u wont meet me if you dont hahahaha...now carry on. I am always smiling and laughing,(if im not something must be wrong wth me) without laughter life would be unbearable lol, so I want to be around someone who smiles and laughs and just has a good time in any situation. dinner or drinks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

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