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Tabetha, 40
United States, Minnesota, Grand Rapids

Offline, last seen Sat, 20 Jun 2026 05:38:55

About Me

i am just looking to date, not for a relationship, so im the wrong gal if u want a relationship.if a relationship happens then thats great. i write and sing country music. so music is my life, love to have a good time and hangout with a few drinks. dont mean to sound so callous, just been BURNED n the past by "looking" for a relationship, so now im not looking for one. if a relationship results then great, if not then i just move on. basically i have no expectations. if u like me great, if you dont thats great too. i have a huge heart and am the most caring person you will ever know, i guess u can say i wear my heart on my sleeve. that i try not to do as much, as this shows weekness. dont think im here for a one night stand, if that happens then that happens too, but i just want to be around someone who makes me laugh and have fun and enjoys the same things i do. if it happens i just make a great friend thats awesome.im a jeans and tshirt and flip flop type of gal, but can clean up nice. basically i am not high maintenance. haha, love the outdoors and anything to do with water, love to swim. and love spending time relaxing in my hammock , i do hunt and fish, yes i no, i dont looc lic the type that does, but i do and love it. want to no something, then asc...oh and btw...if u do drugs, have or have ever had an std or just mentally unstable, plz don't bother to message me...im NOT interested. another big BTW...b4 ascnnn for full body shots, yes im a bigger gal I HAVE CURVES...not huge, but def not a supermodel thin girl, u lic a thc gal then that's me, if not, who really cares. just saynnnoh and one more thing...if you "WANNA MEET ME" then message me, u wont meet me if you dont hahahaha...now carry on. I am always smiling and laughing,(if im not something must be wrong wth me) without laughter life would be unbearable lol, so I want to be around someone who smiles and laughs and just has a good time in any situation. dinner or drinks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Family & Kids Fantasy American Football Archery
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  • Lavenia from Grand Rapids | Woman | 40 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Hi there! How is everyone doing on this website? I consider myself to be a pretty open and honest person with a good sense of humor. I am hoping to find the same on here! I know what I want and I am hoping he is out there...?! ha ! I will not settle,but also know that there is NO perfect!;relationship" etc. The list goes on and on! I love to go on long walks, travel to warm places, go to festivals, concerts, movies, out to eat try new things together (like sky diving, I have never done it BUT definately woud like to give it a try!), and it is EVEN BETTER when you are with the RIGHT person! We have to be atleaste some what attracted to each other to even get this started! I mean ,come on! Let's be honest here! PLEASE have a personality along with that cute self that you are! I basically want someone who is BEAUTIFIUL on the inside as well as the outside. FYI- I must confess, I am a sucker for DIMPLES and I am usually am attracted to guys with dark hair and dark eyes! I do not discriminate though. NOTE- IF you are old enough to be my Father or young enough to be my son then PLEASE do NOT contact me! I truely am a likeable person, just don't want to waiste each other's time! Good luck in your search! : ) Hmm...1st date...? Let's see! We could meet each other at a lounge and have a****ail or 2 and see how our conversation is going and IF the chemistry is there for BOTH of us...IF it is indeed going well, then maybe we could go somewhere fun like Dave and Busters and see the more playful and competitive child like side to each other...? I think that would be fun! : ***OR maybe save the 2nd part for a 2nd date) ha!

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  • Raye from Grand Rapids | Woman | 40 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

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  • Shanel from Grand Rapids | Woman | 40 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Hello! Thanks for checking me out! ;) First, I have to say that I've noticed a lot of guys write "no drama" on their page. I have a 16 year old boy and 12 year old girl, so yes, (fortunately) I have drama in my life. If you have a little girl and don't, please let me know your secret. ;0) We all know that everything is the end of the world for little girls. lol I enjoy spending time with my kids and I'm very thankful that they still want me around for the time being! As much as I love them, I also enjoy having my "me time" and I would love to find someone to share it with. I cannot have any more children, but I am completely fine dating someone that has children. I am a pretty simple person. I honestly do try to keep things simple. I love being outdoors in the summertime. I like camping and fishing, (yes, I can bait my own hook), cooking out, working in my flower beds, riding bikes, hanging out with friends & family, amusement parks, or basically anything else that keeps me active. I also like to just sit and observe nature and relax. In the winter I tend to hibernate most of the time. I like to work on projects around the house and cuddle up on the couch and watch movies. I work out 5 to 6 days a week and try to eat healthy most of the time, but I still love an ice cold beer or two while I'm cooking out. I also love cooking and trying new recipes. I'm very outgoing and try my best to be open-minded and accepting of others. I'm a very affectionate, caring person and must have someone that is the same. I enjoy meeting new people, going to new places, and learning new things. I'm that person that talks to everyone in the line at the grocery store, (or anywhere else for that matter). I'm currently going to school to get my Bachelor's degree in Health Sciences. Between school and kids it doesn't leave a lot of time to meet new people. Living in Mayberry doesn't exactly help either. lol However, I remain very optimistic that I will meet my "special someone" some day! Until then it's just all a part of the journey... I'm looking for someone that is affectionate, has a good sense of humor, enjoys new experiences, has a positive attitude, and takes their responsibilities seriously. I am looking for someone that is physically active, fairly fit, and able to keep up with me. Of course the standard good attributes like honesty, integrity, morals, etc... still apply. If any of this sounds good to you, then send me a message. If not, that's OK too. If everyone was a match then we all wouldn't be on here, right?! I hope to hear from you! Have a wonderful day! :) Honestly, anything that involves laughter and good conversation works great for me! If you set parameters or expectations on it, then you might be missing out on new experiences.

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