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Mandi, 39
United States, Minnesota, Grand Rapids

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About Me

Without sounding cliche' Im an independant, strong-willed, & stubborn 39 year old woman. I have been divorced for 6 years and have three children who are all young adults. My family is very important to me. I moved to this area to be closer to family and start a new life. I am looking for a meaningful relationship and not late night parties, booty-calls, & bar hopping.My personality: Im a caring, friendly(never meet a stranger), chatty, confident, easy-going,& trustworthy. My likes: music, travel, history, planting, fishing, LSU football, movie night at home, spending time with good friends and/or family, a good bottle of wine, good food, museums, antique shops, chocolate, dancing(although I do dance like a white girl), hitting golf balls, people watching, and a good foot rub!My dislikes.....pessimism, laziness, selfishness, arrogance, liars, lite beer,clutter, Spiders, red bull, taxes, and people who dont have a sense of humorNow, to all you that are not serious about dating and are just looking for a "hook up" or "friend" Im not your girl. I will say this, If we meet and there isnt the slightest bit of chemistry, I will let you know. I would hope you would do the same for me. Im direct and to the point, not into playing games. Aint no body got time fo dat! Thats a little of my corny humor!! Meet for a drink or coffee so we can chat. No bars on the first meeting!!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Cycling Volleyball
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  • Lavenia from Grand Rapids | Woman | 40 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Hi there! How is everyone doing on this website? I consider myself to be a pretty open and honest person with a good sense of humor. I am hoping to find the same on here! I know what I want and I am hoping he is out there...?! ha ! I will not settle,but also know that there is NO perfect!;relationship" etc. The list goes on and on! I love to go on long walks, travel to warm places, go to festivals, concerts, movies, out to eat try new things together (like sky diving, I have never done it BUT definately woud like to give it a try!), and it is EVEN BETTER when you are with the RIGHT person! We have to be atleaste some what attracted to each other to even get this started! I mean ,come on! Let's be honest here! PLEASE have a personality along with that cute self that you are! I basically want someone who is BEAUTIFIUL on the inside as well as the outside. FYI- I must confess, I am a sucker for DIMPLES and I am usually am attracted to guys with dark hair and dark eyes! I do not discriminate though. NOTE- IF you are old enough to be my Father or young enough to be my son then PLEASE do NOT contact me! I truely am a likeable person, just don't want to waiste each other's time! Good luck in your search! : ) Hmm...1st date...? Let's see! We could meet each other at a lounge and have a****ail or 2 and see how our conversation is going and IF the chemistry is there for BOTH of us...IF it is indeed going well, then maybe we could go somewhere fun like Dave and Busters and see the more playful and competitive child like side to each other...? I think that would be fun! : ***OR maybe save the 2nd part for a 2nd date) ha!

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  • Lydia from Grand Rapids | Woman | 37 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Well I tried this "online" thing once before and definitely did not have a fairy tale ending! Actually more like an episode of Dateline! Ultimately I am looking for a long term relationship but for now just want to get to know someone and see where it goes...finding a friend is just fine. PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU ARE JUST LOOKING FOR A "HOOK UP" OR "SEXTING"...sorry...just not interested! I assure you I do not need to look for the idiots that want that...they are EVERYWHERE! Also if you are married or in a relationship YOU HAVE NO BUSINESS ON THIS SITE leave my profile NOW LOSER! It has come to my attention that I should add this as well! If you have profile pictures taken in public restrooms we probably won't be compatible...I am really tired of meeting people who tell me the things I want to hear *** the truth. I respect someone who has integrity. I am usually up for just about anything within reason! I am not easily offended by a dirty joke and love a little sarcasm! I am pretty high strung and opinionated...could be why I am single...who knows?!I long for that weak in the knee, heart racing, hanging on every word, can't stand to be away from you feeling! I believe it is out there and won't settle until I find it! Even though I have set up an online dating site I am still pretty old fashioned about dating and want to be pursued (like every girl does)...so that means don't wait on a message from me...send me a message if you want to get to know me better! I would definitely need the first date to be in a public place so as to avoid anyone who might be planning on making a suit of my skin.

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  • Jillie from Grand Rapids | Woman | 39 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Here we go.....I love the beach and enjoy spending a lot of time there. I have three children that are my world and a dog that I often consider my fourth LOL. I love to cook and with the right person it can make for an amazing date. I love to learn, read, hike, go for road trips, long walks,i enjoy the driving range and I even love laser tag. I have recently started surfing and I'm always up for trying something new as long as I enjoy the person I am with. I love getting dressed up for a night on the town or just hanging on the couch in my sweatpants and fuzzy slippers. My family and friends are very important to me, and I enjoy spending time with them , so if you have social skills that's a plus....Most people would say I'm alot of fun and out spoken, I love a man who likes a challenge....I'm very honest,out going,passionate,and when I have something on my mind I'm not afraid to say it. I work with horses a few mornings a week and on those days usually come home a little dirty lol. I am a Master Barber and work all day long with men. I'm not afraid to work hard and have goals for my future....LOL..Someone who can compliment my life and I theirs... I'm looking for that man who gives me butterflies when I think of seeing him........That man who sends the random " I'm thinking of you" text... just because.. The Man who will become my best friend and spend the rest of our days growing old together . So You can tell I do have a romantic side ....I have done online dating before and I have mixed reviews about it. So Please!! I value honesty and someone who can be very upfront, so If your picture isn't recent or your profile is not accurate please don't respond. My feeling is that if you are going to lie before I even meet you then there is no point to meeting at all. If your Just looking for "A GOOD TIME" or your gonna ask what color my panties are, or what size my breasts are........ I am not the girl for you, I do not want to waste your time and I sure don't want to waste mine!!! we can talk about it ;)

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