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Alexa, 39
United States, Minnesota, Grand Rapids

Offline, last seen Thu, 26 Mar 2026 09:53:20

About Me

I'm not sure what I'm looking for. I guess I'll know when it finds me. :) But, it's definitely not a hook up, so if that's your deal, carry on, and good luck. Looks aren't everything to me, but anyone would be lying if they said they didn't play some role in initial attraction. I'm definitely a sucker for sexy eyes..I'm a very sociable person who enjoys a fun night out as much as a quiet night in. I work alot, so when I get some free time, I like to make it count. I'm very dedicated to my family and friends, and am looking for someone who will fit in with them as well as they do with me. I believe that I have the easiest friends & family to get along with. Very laid back, easy going people, who always have my back... sometimes even when I'm wrong! ;)Communication is definitely key with me. Respect will get you everywhere. I'm pretty straight forward and honest, and expect the same from my significant other. I also don't require all of your time, but I don't mess with guys who feel the need to get attention from multiple women at the same time. Guaranteed, I'll be enough for you. :) Don't get it wrong... I love spending time with the people that mean the most to me, however, I believe that everyone needs and deserves their "me" time.I absolutely love to get together with friends around a bonfire or a table and play games or just relax and enjoy their company. I do go out at least once a week for either my volleyball league or dart league. If I were to meet you for the first time in person, a cheesy pick up line or telling me I'm pretty wouldn't get you further than a "Thank you". It won't work on here, either. :) Try something with a little more substance. Stimulating conversation will definitely get you further than an empty compliment. Truth? It's very unlikely that I'll make first contact. I'm a little old fashioned like that. If I "view" your profile & don't contact you, it's not necessarily because I'm not interested in talking to you. I just don't like wasting my time, or yours, if there's not a mutual interest. So feel free to message me. :)A few random facts about me that you'll have to deal with: I'm a diehard Cowboys fan, I have an obsession with bacon, I have 10 tastefully done and placed tattoos, and I fear and LOATH spiders. If you won't kill or remove a spider for me, we'll never get along. ;) (I should've started this out by saying, "Call me Ishmael.")

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Swimming Drag Racing Nascar
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