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Arlena, 39

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About Me

I enjoy being outside, parks, beach, lakes, and even just a backyard! Well, I'm not really into roughing it though. My idea of a great weekend get away would be staying in a luxury hotel and enjoying nature when we wanted to. Not having to make our own accommodations outside and surrounded by nature the whole time. Going to the movies is always fun and meals out are always a treat.It's important to me to take my role as mom to my six year old son, very seriously. I work hard at being the quality of mother I feel he deserves. Only having him 50% of the time is hard on me. So when I do have him, it's all about him.I come from a close family. We enjoy spending to with each other. When we get together we like to play bocce ball, go on picnics, family card games and BBQ.My music taste can surprise some people. I like punk, hard, fast music, but really enjoy lots of music. Rolling Stones, Beach Boys, Bob Marley but some of my favorites are old Misfits, Descendents, Fugazi, Queens of theStone Age, and The White Stripes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

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  • Shaylyn

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    First and foremost, if you are allergic to cats, please stop reading now...I have two! I am as basic as they come, dont need alot to get by. I do not wear make-up and am most comfortable in jeans and a tee-shirt. Doesnt mean that I wont dress up though. Tomboy my whole life, but can definetly be a girl when I want to. I am very shy and will not jump into a physical relationship right away. If you arent willing to talk about, or get tested, dont bother contacting me. "Tested" as in sexual health. I am looking for a clean guy who keeps his place and car mostly clean as well. Not looking for loud obnoxious guy who needs to be the center of attention. I dont mind a guy who has a beer or two, but I dont want someone who drinks to get drunk. Some of my hobbies are playing ice hockey, riding my Raptor, and cardio boxing. Also like scuba diving, disc golf, rollerblading, and I am getting involved with mud runs. I will try most any sport. Have been sky diving, fencing, and go-cart racing. My taste in music is very wide but mostly 80's. Like alternative and sappy chick music too! I'm not too crazy about big sloppy dogs, but that depends on the care taker I guess. I like to watch football and hockey and I understand both sports. First date would be nothing fancy..somewehere casual, not too loud. Definetly not a club or bar person..but would go to a bar if I had a date with me. Im also basic with food, dont like seafood and have been told I eat like bird. My idea of a good first date is NOT going to your place and watching a movie..so dont ask!! If you think asking me if I kiss on the first date is an indication of how far you mite get with me...its NOT...so again, dont ask!! If you have a girlfriend, wife or are "on again, off again" with someone..please dont bother. Know its harsh but apparently needs to be said!!

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

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