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Kaya, 38
United States, Minnesota, Grand Rapids

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About Me

I try to get as much as I can out of life and always fight for what I believe to be important. I can be very focused on my goals. Sometimes things bring me down, but I ALWAYS get back up on my feet and keep going. Most people would describe me as strong but sensitive at the same time.I believe kindness is one of the most important attitudes to have. With it, you can do anything. You can learn to let go and focus on what's really important, you can be compassionate towards others and yourself too. Don't be mistaken, I am not saying I am a saint :-) I'd say kindness is my ultimate goal and North, the thing I use to guide my life, but sometimes I do get sidetracked as I am only human.I'm looking for someone who knows how to be down to earth when needed, but who is also capable of being different and adventurous. Someone with whom I can talk for hours without running out of things to say. I appreciate intelligence and tend to feel attracted to men who are capable of analysing problems in a deeper way. I'd really love to meet a man who has experienced enough in life to make a few mistakes and learn his limitations and his capacities, as well as what he needs in a woman.I've lived quite a bit as well and the things I've learned helped me realise what is important for me in a relationship. I feel I am with the right man when I know I can be myself, say whatever I feel like, express my deepest feeling or fears, and still be loved. And that's what I'm willing to give too. I can be defensive and even seem distant until I have made my decision about a guy, but should it be favourable (and should he want me too), I will progressively be quite at ease and confident. Physicality is as important to me as any other ingredient in a relationship and I absolutely couldn't stay with someone just because he is a "nice guy" if there wasn't passion and attraction too. And once I'm involved with someone that I trust, I give my all, both as a companion and as a lover.PS: I've noticed a few people also indicate their Myers- I did an online test that says I'm an ENFJ (if you don't know what that is, then "google" it ! )

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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