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Neida, 50

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About Me

I should start with what I am looking for so the rest don’t have to read any further:Honesty, with me and with yourself.Passion, in what ever you do.Strength, both physical and emotional. Be strong enough to admit you have faults to.Ambition, don't settle for what comes your way, make it happen.Romance, it doesn't cost a thing if you do it right.Leadership, make a decision, if I don't like it I will tell you but I don't want to decide everything for you.Machismo, I don't want to think I’d have to defend you in a fight.Respect, I am a person with feelings; you should be able to acknowledge them and act accordingly.These are what I want, not requirements. Yes I want the perfect man but perfect for me is flexable. I am not looking for me so you don't have to like all or any of the things I like. I only list a few of the many things I already know I like but I am sure there is a lot I haven't tried yet. My only hobby these days is learning new things. Seems that's the only thing I am really good at. I bake to reduce stress but taking time off that to lose some weight. I love just going for a drive or even a walk. I love the beach and the mountains. I like all kinds of music. I had everything a person could ask for in life at one time or another and lost the most important thing of all the love of my life. I refuse to be alone there is too much life for one person. I hold honesty above all else. Sometimes the truth hurts. Every time I read my profile it seems a little depressing but it is not that way at all. Life is good. It certainly beats the alternative. I just want to be happy and happy with the person I spend my time with.One of the most important things I have learned is that I deserve better. I deserve to be treated with respect first of all, second to be treated like a lady. I won't settle for less. If you are offering less then don't bother here.Please don't expect a sex encounter. That is not going to happen here. If that is all you are looking for just move on. Meeting is not the first date. Meeting would be nothing more than a meeting in a public place, coffee, drinks, dinner?? or what ever. I have been reading some of the first date ideas on here and most of them sound pretty good to me. But again first date is different that just meeting.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Shyla

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am a very happy woman who is thankful for the many blessings in my life. I have a wonderful family and great friends that I love to spend time with. We often have dinner parties, or casual get-togethers. My favorite nights out are listening to live music and dancing. I almost always have tickets to an upcoming concert. If U2 is on tour I will be seeing them....more than once. Most days you will find me at the gym, I call it my second home. Health and fitness are important to me and I'm looking for someone who also makes it a priority. I also love going out for great food and wine which is part of the reason I love my gym :) Animals are a big part of my life, I live with 2 very well mannered and well groomed dogs. Unless you are eating, in which case they will beg...we aren't perfect here. I also have show horses, who are also well trained and well groomed, but don't beg as much as the dogs. I enjoy going to Mariners and Sounders games, especially when they win. Travel has been a big part of my life, and I would love to be with someone who enjoys that as well. Tahiti is my favorite place that I have been to, so far. I love to read, especially biographies and educational books. I do yoga, for the physical, emotional, and spiritual benefits. I like balance in my life, working hard balanced with lots of time to laugh and have fun and really enjoy life, I'm looking for someone to share that with me. The man I am interested in is:Healthy and takes care of himself, exercises and is in decent shape.Has a positive attitude and is happy with his life.Has integrity, keeps his word, you can count on him. Values family and friends. Is interested in self discovery.Is financially responsible and stable.Is kind and compassionate.Is affectionate and romantic.Is able and willing to communicate, even when it's a tough subject.Has a great sense of humor and can make me laugh.Loves music and will go to concerts and listen to local live music with me. Bonus points if you can sing and play an *** travel, especially to sunny places.Understands that my idea of camping is staying at a hotel without room service....****Update on Oct 24th. Since I cannot hide my profile without paying to upgrade I will apologize if I do not respond to your message. I just wanted to take a break without having to completely delete my profile and then having to recreate it from scratch when I wanted to come back.**** After a meet for coffee type introduction, a great first date would begin at a place with an intimate atmosphere where we could talk over a really good glass of wine. Delicious food would follow... could be seafood, Mediterranean, Thai, French, a great steak house, would love to try your favorite place. If it is nice weather, then a place with outdoor seating and a view would be lovely. If it's rainy or cold, then a cozy atmosphere with candles sounds perfect. After dinner I would love to go listen to live music, dancing would be a bonus. I think a first date needs to provide the opportunity to get to know each other better without too many distractions. Movies and sporting events are better for later dates.

  • Cammy

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I've been divorced over a year now and have two kids (teens) who are the main focus of my life. But, to be honest, I'm missing the companionship of a man. I don’t want to get serious right now but my ultimate goal would be a committed relationship. However, right now I want to go out and have fun, take things slow and see where it goes from there. I enjoy virtually all activities from dancing, walks, travel and camping to just hanging out, laughing and watching a good movie. I am open to just about anything. I am not a needy person, I am self-sufficient and driven. I want the same in a man – someone who is financially stable. Sorry to be blunt, but I'm not interested in being the sugar momma nor am I looking for a sugar daddy (although it is nice to be spoiled once in a while and that goes both ways) Please don't contact me unless you're financially stable and can afford to go do fun things with me....I'm not interested in going backwards, only forward to enjoy what life has to offer...... I have been at my work for 19 years and plan to retire there within about 10 years. I love my job and take it very seriously. Vacations and leisure time are important to me, I love to travel and go on cruises with my girlfriends (the Caribbean is my favorite place). I served in the Army right out of high school and was stationed in Germany and I've been overseas to many different countries and would like to revisit those places someday. I was raised by a single mother who struggled most of her life to raise my brother and I. She inspired me to be strong and independent. I have been told I'm fun to be around. However, I feel kind of shy in new situations sometimes. Being single is not something I am used to and I am definitely out of practice when it comes to dating. It's been 20 years since I was single. I do miss the passion and the newness of a relationship. I like that feeling you get in your stomach (butterflies) when that connection is mutual. If I sound interesting, I'd like to start via *** how it goes from there. I am very responsible, definitely have my life together and I can afford to treat myself and my children well. I'm looking for someone between ***, fun to be around, responsible, has a sense of humor and just loves enjoying life. My mother passed away suddenly of a heart attack and I miss her a lot. I've learned that life is too short and you just never know when your time is up, so I'm getting out of my comfort zone and putting myself out there with the hope that I can rewrite my happy ending. If I don't ***, that means I'm not mutually interested, but thank you for taking the time to ***, if you don't have a picture, I won't respond. If I have to post some for your viewing pleasure, I want to see a recent picture of you too.........lol Would definitely meet in a public place, maybe over a drink or coffee to see if the chemistry was there.....I work in the legal field and my best friend works for corrections so you can imagine the stuff I hear and see........let's start over ***, then go from there...

  • Lucina

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    ; antique stores, all kinds of music (except bad Rap and bad country) but I especially love Motown, R& I like to randomly sing and dance around, sometimes it embarrasses my teenage nieces, but they have pretty much learned to get over it! I enjoy keeping a nice home and making holiday dinners, lacy and silky clothes (mostly pajamas), French perfume, natural, organic, vanilla, rose or patchouli baths (I'm trying my best to go organic with everything... when I can), working out, absolutely love rafting the river and I enjoy going on nature walks, preferably with somebody nice. My favorite television is the Antiques Roadshow, PBS mysteries, Futurama, Family Guy, Spongebob, SNL and SOA. I like traditional Gothic literature, not the new stuff. I love old classic romantic movies from the ***s-..... so well, you get the picture!People tell me that I'm on the dreamy side: Rainbows, unicorns, fairies, angels... and I guess that is mostly true, but I am a realist too and I know how to take care of business. I am what some people would call a "girly girl", I work out everyday but I'm not athletic or thin. I am a talented, creative, curvy woman who is very comfortable being feminine. I am not masculine at all. If you like cowgirls or tomboys, you probably won't like me very much! I am a bit of a grease monkey for my job, but that's about as boyish as I get and that's only because I have to do it. I am a strict vegetarian for myself and talk about it a lot, but I accept outside choices for others, I just don't like it. My political views tend to lean more to the left than the right, some of the time I'm in the middle. I believe in freedom for everyone not just the privileged. If you are a devout republican (like my ex) then be prepared for a debate or do not discuss it with me. Probably my favorite thing to do with my boyfriend is watch tv together in bed!-informed propaganda they were attempting to report!I think it would be great to meet someone nice for friendship and doing fun things together: dinner, movies, playing board games, talking, road trips, museums, art galleries, concerts or whatever else.If a romance develops that would be wonderful! If not, then fond friendship is fine with me and I feel happy to say that I have had the great fortune to retain all of my previous boyfriends as friends, some closer friends than others, but still I am friendly towards all of them regardless of whatever happened in the past. I tend to prefer the type of man who is successful in his field and who knows how to value and treat a lady. I prefer the type of man who knows how to protect and take care of a woman. But I am not completely selfish, I know how to give and receive and once a relationship is established, I am very loyal and supportive. I am proud to be a Christian, not prideful, but rather happy to know and serve the Lord, and I try to live up to the meaning of what that truly means everyday. So, because my faith defines Who I Am, I do ask if you contact me, please be a genuine Christian because otherwise we probably would not be compatible and I have learned that there is no exception to this, at least for me there's not.I would like to meet someone who makes me smile, who doesn't feel the need to control me or be my superior, who isn't out to use me. Ultimately I would like to meet the right man for more than just friendship but everyone is not a perfect fit and I don't want to jam a square peg into a round hole! If you think I could be the right girl for you, then please do not be shy and send me a quick note. But please know this, I am not a player nor am I interested in meeting any players or anyone who is searching for an "intimate encounter" (ie, one night stand). I have learned that some men say that they are a Christian, but they certainly do not always act like one! So, please do not contact me or respond to my inquiry if a meaningless, casual intimacy is your intention. If you are not divorced or actually single, then we should not starting communicating. Thank you for taking the time to read this and I sincerely wish all the best to everyone on here searching for their true love or perhaps just a compatible mate. My love and best to everyone! I think for a first date, going for coffee only, preferably in a bookstore and looking at books, talking and getting to know one another. If that worked out, then for the second date, I think going to lunch and then a nice walk along the river would be fun. For a third date, dinner and a movie, then going home for coffee and desert afterward and maybe playing a board game or cards, talking or even watching a movie on TV. I am always up for antiquing, too or going to museums, art shows, the theater, or wine tasting is fun. But I'm pretty much open to as whatever my date and I agree would be fun or interesting.

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