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Maleah, 47
United States, Michigan, Wixom

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About Me

Put your seatbelt on gentleman because I’m a special kind of woman has a lot of great qualities and attributes besides my curves. I love to be around funny, positive men that are secure with themselves and happy with their lives. I have lots of married friends and it would be awesome to be able to go out together with them *** being the dreaded third wheel all the time lol. Looks can be deceiving. lol, shallow assumptions based on my appearance and or style. I am much more than meets the eye. I am not dating you 21-..come on now... I am looking for a partner who is mature, has values and some life experience who challenges me mentally as well as physically. Physically I do like varying traits and have a weakness for goatees,scruffy faces...soul patches..unshaven look. Love baseball hats, dark or blond, or shaved short...salt and pepper hair, athletic builds or larger builds, big and tall is nice, taller than me is a must. A sarcastic witty, gentleman over someone uncultivated...duh..if you are a gym rat who allows it to define and consume you, it ceases to be compatible for me. I am all about getting back in shape but I am never going to be a runner, or a gym rat if I wanted to. I am someone who likes to stay relatively active and recently underwent shoulder surgery, so just getting my range of motion back...Slow going but would love to find someone capable of understanding that I can't go into a moshpit or into a batting cage anytime soon LOL but will love going on walks and hikes and possibly grab a drink or a bite to eat..catch a movie, concert, play, etc. I love having a glass of wine or a drink on the weekends or to see a concert, stand up comedy, etc. I love seeing live bands sometimes BUT, I am OVER the nightclub/ bar scene, and are more into going out to dinner and finding different activities...arts, theatre, movies, roadtrips, lasertag..hanging out with friends and family or having people over..entertaining, game nights... over the partying every weekend or nighty. If you are into bars/taverns/getting drunk every weekend or often we won't be a match. Same thing goes for 420. Once in awhile is fine...daily..yeah, not so much Cheech :>..love volleyball, badminton, pingpong, Wii.. family oriented, BBQing, playing games.. Romantic weekend getaways to the mountains, San Juans, etc LOVE!!..love traveling, haven't done it much :( public affection, feeling cherished and feeling that you are proud you are with me.. being romantic and small things like flowers or cards/notes for no reason, hand holding, etc.. in all the dorky random little ways that mean so much but take little effort...I am a sucker for. If you can BBQ or cook or like to entertain together, LOVE that too. If you are not afraid to go to a game night at my friends or families house and can just go with the flow, BONUS POINTS!!!!!!! Also, please no shallow minded homophobic, racists or super conservative small minded types either. I have a diverse group of friends and family, and was raised to accept and love everyone equally. If you think it's acceptable to refer to a person of color as 'colored' , newsflash, you are ***, and that is rude as hell... don't contact me and seriously....REALLY???? Where do you live ?? Go rent 'THE HELP'...educate yourself...regardless ..PLEASE DON'T BREED. ***************************************************************************************************************I know most guys don't actually read these....but it is so impressive when you actually do and have something to say that isn't related to my figure, DOUCHEY MUCH ?? LOL..NOT LOOKING FOR A HOOK UP/ONE NIGHTER or a FWB********************** Meet at starbucks or a local dive or quiet coffee shop.. go for a little walk around the waterfront...*****UPDATE***** SERIOUSLY ....NOT ON HERE TO HOOK UP..ESPECIALLY NOT ON THE FIRST DATE...NOT LOOKING TO SEXT....SOOOOOOO OVER IT. LOOKS CAN BE DECEIVING!!! I AM NOT A PARTY GIRL...BAR FLY..TRAMP...SO QUIT TALKING TO ME LIKE ONE. SWEET JESUS ..also I am NOT A COWGIRL BY ANY....ANY MEANS... don't assume that because of my hat. I am not a fan of country music, decor or cowboys....just a preference. Save your hate mail okay and focus on the next real country/cowgirl you see :> ALSO PS...I LOOOOVE KIDS SO IT'S GREAT IF YOU HAVE SOME..HOWEVER I AM NOT HAVING ANY AT 46...LOL. I ALSO AM A BIT OF A SOCIAL SMOKER..MOST PEOPLE DON'T EVEN REALIZE BECAUSE IT IS A COUPLE HERE AND THERE AND I NEVER DO IT AROUND PEOPLE THAT MIND.and I don't ever smell like it..such a turn off. Gum...fruity body spray lol. Not compatible with someone that thinks they can control me..lol

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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