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Mila, 39
United States, Michigan, Portage

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About Me

I am looking to meet someone to be with long term.... Would like to have my last first date!! I'm not looking for endless *** This happens a great deal with the online thing.... It's kinda crazy. Also, intimacy is very important to me. That bring said I've never been a hook up or one nighter. I'm not interested in casual in that manner, at all.I love helping people no matter what their situation and I'm lucky because it's my passion and also what I do for a career. It makes me feel happy and feel after years of trying I am where I need to be.I am Mom to the worlds 3 greatest kiddos!! They are first for me of course... I aspire to be the best Mom I can so they will look back someday and say, "my house was the place all my friends wanted to hang out"I love to be held tight... Just on the couch hanging out, or all through the night. I also like a man that is affectionate and not afraid to show it. I like to feel safe, I definetely like the man to take the lead. I'm independent and can certainly take care of myself, and I do, but being protected and feeling safe is a huge turn-on.I'm up for trying anything! Learning to surf is definetely on my list of things to try. I would also like to start hiking, I like the woods. I also enjoy motorcycle rides and drives to Door county.As far as my spare time, anything with my kids is my favorite pasttime. I'm also an avid reader and I love concerts as well. As far as music, anything goes!!! Bad tempers are frightening to me.... So if you get angry easily..... I'm probably not the girl for you!! A first date should be simple! A couple glasses of wine or just hanging out doing something casual is a good way to get to know one another. When the first date is super complicated I feel it can distract from getting to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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