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Hello! I am trying this site to see who I can meet. I am interested in dating and I am open to having a serious relationship. I have been happily single for awhile now; I've been busy with my kids and finding out what makes me happy :) I much prefer meeting in person over *** calling or texting. I think an initial meeting helps discover if there is a "spark", if there is then you can ask me on a date :) I'm not on this site to waste anyone's time, including my own, so that is why I value meeting over messaging.I enjoy working out. It is what I do in my free time. I take three or four fitness classes a week and I enjoy running on different trails near my home and work. Most recently (see pic above), I completed the Dirty Girl 5k; it was tons if fun! Next up is the Women Rock MN 10k. Very exciting!This will seen counter productive from my last paragraph, but so be it! I bake bread for the family and I enjoy baking treats. I think it would be amazing to own my own bakery someday.I have a job that is not my dream but I am good at it and enjoy what I do (usually!).I do not smoke and want to find someone who also does not smoke. I only drink socially and I am very against drinking and driving. I have pretty much left the party scene behind. I still enjoy going out and having fun, I just choose to do so without the hangover.I love to see live music! My tastes lean toward more alternative music (I may be stuck a bit in the 90's). Some of my faves are TV on the Radio, Blind Melon, Tool, Liz Phair, etc.I am very independent. I own a home and I am pretty handy. I would like to find someone who is also independent (aka: you don't live with your mom or have her do your laundry!)I love to have fun! I am honest, witty, and intelligent. I hope you have similar traits.I am looking to meet new people, date, and see what happens from there. I feel that relationships require a natural evolution and should not be forced. As much as I like to have fun, I am not interested in one night stands or a *** am looking for someone that is handsome, masculine, with an easy laugh and a quick wit.Any hoo.. Thanks for reading :) Best of Luck! This is already in my profile, but just in case you skipped ahead....I think an initial meeting over coffee or brunch/ lunch is important as a precursor to a date. It's pretty non committal and quick. That way, it will be over soon if it's not working out. If it is working out, we will have likely learned more about each others interests. At that point, we can date. This may be a little traditional, but I won't be asking you on a first date. I may ask if you would like to meet me for coffee or whatever but when it comes to that "date", I think the man should ask.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Traveling light……Single, no kids, and bill collectors don’t stalk me! Not impressed? I don’t blame you…These are pretty normal qualities, right? Ok…let’s go deeper.I am looking to enhance my life. Not by what you can do for me, but what we can do together with laughter, new experiences, and over all great companionship. I want our time to be full of laughter and intimate moments. Being genuine comes naturally. Fun….let’s have fun with lighthearted interactions while learning about one another!*A confident, strong man is sexy. So, if you are interested and think we might be compatible, please drop me a message. "Love may not make the world go round, but it is what makes the ride worth it." ~On the Line~Want more? Interested in going a little deeper??I am a loving, passionate woman who is searching for an independent, professional man. I do like to be treated like a lady. What can I say...educated gentlemen impress me! I have many diverse interests and would like to find someone who also is well-rounded. Could that be you? I feel that certain common grounds are important in order for a relationship to work, such as one's religious belief. I am a Christian and looking for that in my future partner. Communication is very important to me....- I don't want to argue or have to guess what is bugging you. I have created a peaceful lifestyle for myself, which includes avoiding drama. I feel strongly that a relationship should enhance your life, not be a stressful factor. I am content with my life; however, I am ready to share the finer things in life with someone special. Is there a limit to how happy one can become? I am ready to find out! Are you? I think a great date is based on great company, not the actual activity itself.

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