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Naida, 47
United States, South Carolina, Elgin

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About Me

LOOKING FOR???Anything NEW !!! looking for someone who wants to do and add newness into their life also---I am currently under reconstruction I have just lost 90 pounds and I am very much into health and fitness--Wanna impress me??? Come walk with me?? My walks are between 4- I am very much into a NO baggage or drama rule--Sorry no can do---I have worked hard to de-stress my life and and no one in this world is worth having IF I will lose a part of me---at 47 I have learned "to thy self be true"I am okay in my skin and I am looking for someone who is alsoWHAT I AM NOT LOOKING FORI am not looking for any man who is in a rush to get physical---I am looking for the long haul and not some night or nights of just lust or passion--and please for the love of God make sure your CURRENT pics are on your profile---My pics are less than 2 weeks old and I will always update them---If your pics are not current than you are doing some false advertising hahaha to say the least---BE REAL AND no pics equals no chat and that is no exceptions First dates wow they are tricky--I promise that no matter how honorable your intention our first date will not be in your apartment or house sorry no can do on that one--yep even if your on the cooking network and your a famous chef on TV,first date will not be in your house---We can do something breezy nothing to serious or we can do dress up like we are rich and famous--I think it depends on the two individuals right???

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Clairene from Elgin | Woman | 46 years old | Taurus
    Clairene

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    "Every woman has the exact love life she wants." ...one of my favorite movie lines ever. (Not the movie, just the quote.) I totally believe this. :) If you don't have kids, you won't understand me. I've had many loves in my life, and I'm not looking for the next love of my life. For me, things like that don't need to be searched for, they just happen.Ok, I'm sorry, but this totally needs to be said: It's not that I don't believe in soul mates, but in my world that happens over time... you have dinner with someone and have a good time, enjoy each other's company, like each other and become friends, want to hang around often and bounce thoughts around, one day you realize how important the other person has become in your life and how much you value them, etc... (It's a process.) So, those of you who want to meet face to face to determine whether I'm "the one," I'M NOT.Love at first site? I'm certain that it happens for some, but I also think that it's linked to a personality type, and my personality is such that I'm much too cautious for that. If my demeanor (and humor) comes off as sarcastic, or even a little crude, please understand that I am parenting a house full of boys. I am constantly surrounded by testosterone, fart jokes, stinky feet and damp toilet seats. *******************************************************************Sooo tired of the haters. If I haven't responded to you :EITHER: I got busy, sidetracked, got chatting with someone else, or had a lot of messages and didn't get to yours. I'm sorry. If you're so inclined to message me again, I'm good with that. OR: I don't feel we are a compatible match, but didn't know exactly how to tell you that. Please put things in perspective... you don't know anything about me from the few paragraphs I wrote, and couple of photos I posted. You don't know about my past, my history with men, my current life, or where I'm coming from. This in no way means that I don't think you are a good man or some other woman isn't lucky to have you in HER life. For example, if I read your profile and you're clearly very driven, focused, disciplined and intense... well, I spent many years as a working single mom, I am flexible, laid back, I roll with whatever comes my way.... Or, if you're a sports fanatic, I respect that, but every time I have watched a game - baseball, football, basketball, etc. - within minutes I find my mind wandering and I'm staring at the wall daydreaming. So, I'd (pretend to) watch a game with you on occasion, or go to one once in a while, but I am NOT gonna magically become someone who enjoys it! First off, let me just say I am not trying to have sex with you. I know there are women on this site who are just trying to take advantage of a guy and use him for sex, but I am not one of them! That's not what I'm looking for. I will take you out for a drink, cup of coffee, or dinner first.... get to know you a little bit.... you know what I mean...Ok, seriously, I can get along with and have an enjoyable time with just about anyone. If you wanna have dinner and chat, as though we're coworkers having lunch together, let me know, that's a good place to start.

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  • Daphne from Elgin | Woman | 48 years old | Scorpio
    Daphne

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    .What am I looking for? Passion, Romance & Chemistry! I am not looking for the perfect man god knows Im not perfect, Im looking for the perfect man for me! It seems to get harder as we get older to find that perfect fit. Im a simple woman looking for a simple man. When we were younger and had no experiences, fears or issues it was easier. If you like someone you told them and before you knew it you were a couple. To bad it has gotten so complicated. I am looking for my best friend and lover. The one when you wake up is the first thing on you mind and your last thought before you go to sleep, the one that you miss when your apart, the one you go out to dinner and a movie with or spend a night at home relaxing, the one you get those weekends away with or that vacation you cant wait for, the one you go to with good news and bad, the one you are silly with, the one you laugh and cry with, the one you want to support them in the pursuit of there dreams and celebrate there accomplishments, the one you want to build a life together with!!! To sum up what Im looking for, IM NOT LOOKING FOR A MAN I CAN LIVE WITH, IM LOOKING FOR A MAN I CANT LIVE WITHOUT MEET FOR COFFEE AND GET TO KNOW ONE ANOTHER

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  • Florida from Elgin | Woman | 46 years old | Taurus
    Florida

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I like to go to the movies, traveling, photographhy, weekend road trips, wine tasting, boating and anything that has to do with water, I'm in. I also like to read, spend time at home and I love cooking. I am looking for a guy who can make me laugh and enjoy lifes simple pleasures. I am looking for a man who can enjoy a night of relaxing and laughing together about nothing. I want a loyal, honest and affectionate man who will treat me like a lady. I do not want a player. I am starting a new chapter in my life and I am looking forward to making it a good one. Lets meet for a drink and see what happens.

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