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Melanie, 49
United States, South Carolina, Elgin

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About Me

Where are the honest, loyal men who are are not out for games or one night stands? I am looking for my soul mate, a mature man who is willing to give and not just take. Tired of being alone all the time, especially on the weekends and holidays. A little bit about me. I do have a job, which pays me well, so no I don’t need somebody to pay my bills for me, on the other hand I expect the same from you. If you think that holding a door open sometimes or paying the bill at a restaurant where you invited me for dinner is not something you should do, than you are not the right one. Deep down I am kind of shy and maybe even considered old fashion, but that’s who I am. I do like to dance the two step but I will never go up to somebody I don’t know and asked them to dance or to buy them a drink. I still think the man should make the first move. Maybe I am just a dreamer, but I am sure the right one is somewhere out there. Is it you?? A picnic on beach or in a park???

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Indian Middle Eastern Vietnamese Comedy Fantasy Sport Collecting To Work Out
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