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Helene, 39
United States, Oklahoma, Vinita

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About Me

I'm looking for awesome people to hang out with.I enjoy cultures, diversity, and learning anything new. I am an online activist for equality. I'm independent and when it comes to freedoms, and am rather intolerant toward intolerance. Those beliefs are calcified; I served in the military to protect freedom and while I believe speech comes with responsibility; I also believe speech should be protected and that transparency's a virtue. I'm a classic INFJ.To Come: A bigger motorcycle -or maybe just a heated jacket; a house; write juicy tell-all book; get more tattoos; go visit warm beaches; purchase kyak; pay off car; fix old pickup; be a foster or adoptive parent.Turnoffs/Reasons we would not be compatible: 1) You have pics of little kids on your online dating site profile. If this is you, we don't agree about online child safety. Dealbreaker. Good luck fishing. Let's cross off a bucket list item! Orrrr a volunteer event. New bucket list item: I need to see mighty Mike at the adventure aquarium!In the interest of being up front and not wasting each other 's time, please do not expect a response if you send me a bunch of honeybabysweetheart bullsh!t mush in a message. I'm not interested in a cybersex penpal or fetish; if you are interested in an intelligent, articulate, no nonsense, human being capable of deep and compassionate lasting emotion, please say hello.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Baseball Sailing
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