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Shebah, 36
United States, Oklahoma, Vinita

Offline, last seen Thu, 15 Jan 2026 10:11:47

About Me

The Bait - a divorced single mother with three sons (almost 17, 15 and 12). What a catch huh? What you get - A woman who know's her own mind, can be funny, sarcastic, loving, loyal, spontaneous, unusual in my own way, (and I'm human so I do have faults.) Most importantly, I'm always honest and expect the same from pretty much everyone who want's to be around me. Some days I just want to cuddle, others I just want to be left alone. I'm 36 years old. I've loved and been loved, hurt and been hurt. I'm tired of the games people play and quite simply just want to be with someone who "gets" me. Someone who can do his own thing and leave me be when I just want to sit and curl up with a good book. I'd like someone who likes to take long walks, but is also content to sit in front of a campfire on a warm summer's night. I'd like someone who is similar to me in that we can enjoy the same things, but It would be nice if he had his own thing to do once in awhile and maybe a thing or two to introduce me to.- Every kind of music has it's own mood, and the mood I'm in determines the music genre playing on my radio. I have my preferences ***'s, top 40's, some mild (mild?) rap, rock, and lately some hard rock... Ok,sometimes I really enjoy some country, too but not too often. Classical on a rare occasion... I'm not overly fond of jazz. Yeah, I don't like jazz. I like puzzles. As in putting little pieces together to form a pretty picture kind of puzzle. Simple ones. ***pc) That way I can turn on some relevant to my mood music, sing along (off pitch and barely on melody) and sometimes just mindlessly put the little pieces together, reflecting on my day, the past, my sons, or perhaps the future and what it may bring. Join me sometime - the conversations could be endless, enlightening and entertaining or just plain silly. I love laughing until I cry. Sometimes I snort. I'm a girly girl like that, you know. (sarcasm!!!)I'm not interested in being around anyone who does any kind of drugs, even if it's "only once in a while." Drugs are not my thing and if you want to be around me, even as a friend, please respect that ok? Best way to impress me? Keep it simple and real. I don't care if you fly a jet plane, drive a beater car or chose to walk - what's important is the way you treat me (including strangers on the street) and the respect and devotion you show me will be returned tenfold.***updateI decided to update this for a few reasons, but primarily because I felt I needed to add a few things to my profile. If It appears I don't answer you back right away, just give it a bit. There are times I send messages from my phone but they don't post - it's something I've just recently noticed. Give me time to get back to you ok?One very important thing a person needs to know about me is that i rarely if ever make the first move... or the second or third. It's just me. If you are interested and would like to continue to date or get to know me, you are going to have to let me know by deed or word or "action." If i'm interested, I will let you know. On a walk - if I say that couple looks cute walking hand in hand... maybe that's your first hint that I'd like for you to ask to take my hand, or for you to just do it. Also - I'm short and have short legs! if you are over 6 feet tall and are walking ahead of me to the point that I have to nearly jog to keep up... yeah, not really a good indication that you are interested and I will react accordingly. I've been called stand-offish.... I don't mean to be. But if it's something you notice, perhaps trying to draw me out or make me laugh. It's likely that I'm unsure how your feeling or what you are thinking and I draw within myself unknowingly. Draw me out! There is a whole lot going on inside that the right guy will be able to bring out of me. I'm a very loving, forgiving, optimistic person that has a whole lot to give to the right guy who can figure me out.- the guy who figures me out, or "get's me" will likely capture my heart.I could rattle off ***things about me, my life or the reasons I'm where I'm at today both physically and emotionally, but everyone has a story to tell. I'd like to know your story, and I'd hope that the right guy would want to know mine. Knowledge is a very powerful thing, but without knowledge or understanding - there is nothing. Update ***I'm rarely on here, and I haven't been for months. Yeah, I dated a bit but I'm still on here. Figured I'd stick around for awhile and just see how things go. Interested? Message me, but I probably wont answer if all you have to say is less than a sentence, you just seem to want to hook up, or if your profile is written like something my 8 year old nephew would write. Okay, thank you and have a great day/week/month... you get the idea.Right now - I'm looking forward to November and all the wonderful things the month brings. I refer to deer hunting. I have a gun and intend to use it! And a license. Licenses for hunting are required. Oh yeah! Can't forget Thanksgiving! I love mashed potato's and gravy and stuffing and turkey.... my mouth is watering! So, as of right now, I'm (obviously) single and interested in getting to know someone. I've no intentions of jumping into something right away, and quite honestly, shy away from relationships that seem to move too fast. If you tell me you love me after 4 weeks (after we've actually met in person and gone on a few dates) don't be surprised if I run away. That's freaky fast to me. If you are looking to move in with your next girlfriend next month, or the week after that, please move on. Oh! and my hair is back to the natural dark blonde. I will try to get another photo posted here soon since the one from May is getting a bit outdated now.That is all. For now.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical Comedy Horror Music
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