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Patrina, 39
United States, Ohio, Xenia

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About Me

There's plenty of eye candy out there but I'm seeking someone who is honest, attentive, confident in himself, and knows what he wants out of life. Looks are second to a great sense of humor and heart. At the same time, I take care of myself and hope you do too. I take pride in keeping myself fit and staying active. I can get all dolled up in a sexy black dress or throw on a t-shirt and shorts and feel just as good!!!Either way, I am usually up for anything you throw my way. Life is short and I want to experience as much as I can. I know exactly what I am looking for and of course just searching to find it!! I am genuine, compassionate, warm, nurturing, generous and fun! I am intensly loyal and trustworthy. I love being with my family and friends, just need to find that one special person to share my life with. I have alot to offer and looking for someone who has the same... I want the whole package. I want a man who excites me and makes me laugh. I need a man who communicates his feelings and isn't afraid of commitment. Is that too much to ask?I am very passionate about what I do and I love my job. I am not looking for someone to support me, but it is important that you have a strong worth ethic and strive to be the best that you can be. I am extremely drawn to someone who is intellectually stimulating and who has a good sense of humor than someone who can't hold a conversation.BTW- I am an old fashioned girl who prefers conversation over texts..... A first date is usually the make it or break for the next one......if the chemistry is there and the conversation is good, there will definitely be another date SO......it doesnt matter where, it just matters if you "feel" it. Coffee, tea or ....(no, not me!!)or even a drink will work.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dorethea from Xenia | Woman | 40 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I absolutely love the weather here & enjoy going to the beach whenever I can. I have a lot of different interests... I never know if I am interested in something until it presents itself but love to always learn about new things. from scientific stuff to silly stuff : ) What can I say... sometimes it's a big world & sometimes it's a small place. I am sure you are probably not going to be interested in all the same things that i am. Unless, of course.. you like to do "girly" stuff. That's just what i enjoy doing... it isn't the whole depth of my character ; ) This is not to say that there can't be some common ground. I like doing some physical activities but in moderation. I do think being healthy & fit are important. I love to run at Okeeheelee & take in the nature while I'm there but can honestly say if you are looking for someone to keep up with you while you train for the next Ironman... well, that's not me : ) I love to laugh (mostly at myself) & enjoy being around positive people who try to grasp the bigger picture of life. We all have our not-so-spectacular days but I always try to look on the bright side & if there isn't one ; ) I look for the lesson in the moment so I can grow as a person. I have one child who is almost 17. Even though, he is not a little child anymore, I respect that I am his mother first. Something to keep in mind if you would like to date me ; ) Anyways, hmm... I think it is hard to sum up who I am in a few paragraphs. The best way to get to know someone is to talk with them. So, send me a message : )

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  • Aletha from Xenia | Woman | 36 years old | Cancer
    Aletha

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Update ***:I really don't like to have to say this, but after having guys stand me up repeatedly....I just want you to know that I follow through when I say I'll do something. Can you say the same thing? Looking for someone who can keep their word...is there anyone left?Anyway....I realized I hate reading long descriptions of other people, so had to erase my own. :)Found this for my son, but I think maybe just a FEW of you could benefit from reading this letter...it just takes a minute. *** you want to know something about me, feel free to ask. And let me save some of you some time, I'm not looking for a hook-up, gentlemen only please.Happy fishing!

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  • Selene from Xenia | Woman | 38 years old | Aries
    Selene

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    After reading the below, it may not seem like it, but I am very laid back and go with the flow. I do need to plan out my days, mostly due to necessity (2 kids to consider), but I can be spontaneous too. I'm non-judgmental and believe everyone should do as they please as long as they aren't hurting someone else. I don't believe in organized religion. I'm a grammar nazi - I won't date someone who can't figure out that "your" is not "you are" before hitting send. I don't have a lot of time for dating, so if I feel there is a connection after chatting a couple of times, I will gladly meet you in person. That being said, if there's no physical attraction, then there won't be any more dates. Also, I'm not really looking for someone to have more kids with, but it's not completely off the table.Here are my non-negotiables when it comes to a partner:• you do not smoke• you are drama-free• you are pro-choice & pro gay rights• you're smart, funny, witty, with a bit of sarcasm thrown in• you like to play & watch sports (extra points if Aggie football is on your list)• you are not a student or in the midst of a career change• you like kids and want to be a good role model• you have male friends and make it a point to spend time with them• you understand that I need girl time every now and then• you're a gentleman• you like staying in shape but aren't a gym rat• you like dressing up for a night on the town, but enjoy staying home watching movies and eating pizza• you are looking for someone to come home to each night• you aren't religiousIf you message me and I don't message you back, it's probably because I saw something in your profile that doesn't mesh with one of the bullet points above. Also, please save us both some time and don't message me to tell me "good luck with that list." It's there for a reason - I know what I want and if you don't fulfill these characteristics, we are not going to be a match, no matter how great of a guy you are. Happy Fishing! Anything that allows for conversation.

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