Total users: 59,542,186 Online users: 214,056
Selene, 38

Offline, last seen Tue, 21 Oct 2025 14:24:30

About Me

After reading the below, it may not seem like it, but I am very laid back and go with the flow. I do need to plan out my days, mostly due to necessity (2 kids to consider), but I can be spontaneous too. I'm non-judgmental and believe everyone should do as they please as long as they aren't hurting someone else. I don't believe in organized religion. I'm a grammar nazi - I won't date someone who can't figure out that "your" is not "you are" before hitting send. I don't have a lot of time for dating, so if I feel there is a connection after chatting a couple of times, I will gladly meet you in person. That being said, if there's no physical attraction, then there won't be any more dates. Also, I'm not really looking for someone to have more kids with, but it's not completely off the table.Here are my non-negotiables when it comes to a partner:• you do not smoke• you are drama-free• you are pro-choice & pro gay rights• you're smart, funny, witty, with a bit of sarcasm thrown in• you like to play & watch sports (extra points if Aggie football is on your list)• you are not a student or in the midst of a career change• you like kids and want to be a good role model• you have male friends and make it a point to spend time with them• you understand that I need girl time every now and then• you're a gentleman• you like staying in shape but aren't a gym rat• you like dressing up for a night on the town, but enjoy staying home watching movies and eating pizza• you are looking for someone to come home to each night• you aren't religiousIf you message me and I don't message you back, it's probably because I saw something in your profile that doesn't mesh with one of the bullet points above. Also, please save us both some time and don't message me to tell me "good luck with that list." It's there for a reason - I know what I want and if you don't fulfill these characteristics, we are not going to be a match, no matter how great of a guy you are. Happy Fishing! Anything that allows for conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Armani

    Offline

    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    ME...Kinda cute :o)Loves hockey!Loves the sun and being on the waterWants to travelLoves my family and friends!Loves surprisesCan't cook :)YOU...Are kinda cute :o)Have a bit of a sarcastic sideAre confident and easy goingAlways make time for family and friendsLove hockey!Can spell :)Don't mind that I can't cook :)Easy going, fun and confident, a jeans and t-shirt kinda girl with a great sense of humour, who might just be a bit sarcastic at times :) Simple things make me happy and what you see is what you get :) I know exactly what I'm looking for and am not willing to settle...would love to meet that one guy that looks at me like he's seen nothin' like me and gives me butterflies with just one simple kiss :) Surprise me!

  • Venus

    Offline

    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    In general, my life currently consists of three main areas; home(I own my own), work(look after kids), and my children(have 2 boys; 10 and 18 yrs old). It's difficult for most people to write about themselves, especially something personal. I've got a number of brilliant, beautiful, frank, funny friends , all capable of remarkable things except for setting me up with someone 'normal'... LOL I treasure my family and friends as they are a very big part of my life! They would tell you that I am dedicated, loyal, caring, giving, loving, helpful, a motivated individual and a SURVIVOR. I like to challenge myself... One of the questions meetville suggests we talk about is 'what makes us unique'. I believe that my fingerprint is the most unique thing about me, no one else has the same! ... OH and I am one of the few that still have BBM... LOL What I always say is, things happen for a reason and it is what it is. So to all of you, keep an open mind and I wish you all the best of luck in your search! Happy Fishing!:o)

  • Elfreda

    Offline

    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm looking for someone to enjoy my time with - someone I connect with and is fun to be around - someone to go to the movies, out to dinner, hit a beach bar with friends, enjoy a concert, watch a ballgame, or hang out on the couch in front of the TV.- LOVE roller coasters. I do watch sports - not enough to know every player of every team, but definitely enough to get by. A Sunday afternoon surrounded by friends watching football is a great day for me. I've been known to throw a pretty decent Super Bowl Party. I love to laugh and tend to laugh at some of the silliest things. A sense of humor is something I find very attractive. I would describe myself as an optimist. I definitely try to see the best in people, as well as see the best in any situation. I'm someone who will never ask anything of anyone I'm not willing to do myself - which means I will show you respect, compassion and honesty. Basically, I'd like to find someone to laugh with, and see where it leads.Update - I've been told by a few guys that I should change my "separated" status as that scares you guys off. The problem with that is, I believe in complete honesty. The deal is, yes, on paper, I am still married. We have not filed the paperwork to make it official yet. However, the marriage has been over for over a year. We do not live together. We are friends and get along just fine. No drama. We are raising our children together, but that is all.

Follow Us: