Singles In Xenia, OH

Webbj98G

• Xenia

• Ohio
• United States

Online

Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

Looking for: woman. In age: 26-41

Hi! My name is Webbj98G. I am never married catholic caucasian man with kids from Xenia, Ohio, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

Chante

• Xenia

• Ohio
• United States

Online

Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

I'm an open minded woman that is willing to try anything once, I have always told my kids, "You never know till you try it". I view life with optimism and feel life should be lived to it's fullest! You only got one life...don't waist it living with all the, coulda, woulda, shoulda's!I'm a social butterfly and can carry a conversation with intelligence and not bore one with nonsense. I enjoy the very essense of being a woman, all there is with it and enjoy looking my best for me, and the one at my side...I want him to feel blessed, proud and valued with the woman walking by his side, (which means as an equal as well).I enjoy going to movies, right next to, lying on the couch, snuggling and enjoying one at home. I love to sit at a bookstore, with a cup of coffee for hours. I enjoy doing just about anything that won't get me killed or arrested! I am kind, compassionate and believe that you get what you give. I am not judgemental, and do not tolerate judgemental people well...imagine a world filled with only people that look, talk, dress, and behave like you..would get kinda boring! I don't try to be intentionally cruel to anyone, and have empathy for all walks of life, we are all unique in our own way. I'm extremely forgiving, but not to a point where I want one to walk all over me or manipulate my feelings. I am not a daily drinker and don't find those that feel the need to do it daily, attractive in any way. But I do enjoy my Cosmopolitans when I am out with the girls! I believe in space, and personal time, nobody wants to feel smothered, and we need that break every now and then. And I am not a jealous woman, I believe if you have a trusting and commited relationship, you should be able to trust those times when your man is "hanging with guys", I encourage it...it's healthy for a relationship. My oldest daughter is 19, and is working towards becoming a Neo-Natel RN. I do however have a 13 yr old at home, and she is an amazing kid! Momma did good raising her to have the same values as myself, and is mature for her age. I believe in raising "Successful" adults, and do not hold her hand with every trivial situation that comes her way. She is my priority, and I don't mind dating anyone with kids, as long as they are there priority as well. If you do not have children, it is a must that you be able to accept and understand where my priorities are with my daughter, she is and will always be #1...but when it is just myself and my man, he will know he is #1 and won't have to question it. I am not the typical woman as far as the phone, I have never been fond of talking hours on end on the phone. You can get a better sense of someone by talking face to face, vs the phone. Although, I must be honest and tell you now, I do not sit at my PC just waiting for my notifier to ring from my meetville subscription. It's a pet peev of mine when one begins assuming I am not who I say I am, just because I did not reply, call, text or communicate in anyway immediately to a message! We all have lives to live, and as I just said, I have my priorities, and I don't expect anyone to change there's just because of me. There may be a delay in my response...but I assure you, if I didn't already initiate and attempt to get to know you...I will, be patient with me, after reading my profile in full, you will learn that I do have a lot going on in my life, and have been through a lot in a short amount of time.I don't lie, much as the truth hurts, a lie hurts more! A lie is deceiving, where as the truth is what it is. I am a grown woman, and can take just about anything..but once you lie, the trust is broken. It is easy to give trust, but highly difficult to gain it back! I am forgiving, not stupid. I don't want to make my whole conversation about previous relationships, or about when I was married, we had a good marriage, but, a marriage can only take so much at once, and mine definitely broke the limits. It hasn't left me scorned, angry or a "Man Hater", but it has left me cautious and aware. We had a son born with Congenital Heart Disease and had 2 surgeries within his first week of life, and at 3 months, he passed away, it was a shock for me, considering the day before, his Cardiologist told me, "Whatever your doing, keep doing it, we really did not expect him to survive or even this long", the folowing day, he passed in my arms. Three years later, my oldest son joined the Marine Corp, right after High School and was deployed to Afghanistan shortly after Basic Training. Again, 3 months later he was KIA. (I do not like the #3) Where the first loss made us strong, the second was just too hard...as I said, a marriage can only take so much. An added note...I try to maintain myself and my weight and I do not find heavy men attractive in any way! When I say, "heavy", I direct that towards the couch potatoes, obese, and those that do not value themselves enough to try to live healthy! The big muscle guys...that is not an issue, only if your life is the gym...how do you expect to meet me? Please, don't waste our time with the run around, if your big, your big. There are women that are into big guys, just not me! And really, in this day and age, every tablet, smartphone, P.C., and MAC comes with spellcheck! If your going to put that your degree is higher than, "High School", at least send me a message that is grammatically correct!!?? And if you leave your, "Intentions", or, "Do you have a car?", section blank...I don't know any woman in there right mind that will respond!?? Oh...if your picture looks like your in a, "Hair Band"...forget it! I am not vain, or have an inflated ego, I know that I am a, well kept woman. If your not the same..please don't waste your time anticipating a response. I really don't mean to sound so cruel, I do believe that there is someone for everyone! And you will find someone attracted to that type...just not me. So I do apologize now for your misreading, or feelings that I have hurt. I just know what I am looking for, and I am worth what I am seeking.Good luck! I am open minded, surprise me with something different. Out of the box type of place. What sets you apart from every other guy? I have been told that I am different from most women, and I agree. I am worth something different, but you will have to be the judge of that! I can guarantee you, great conversation, a smile and an open mind. Can you be the, "out of the box" date? Surprise me...I am a simple woman, not a materialistic one. I LOVE originality!

Aletha

• Xenia

• Ohio
• United States

Online

Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

Update ***:I really don't like to have to say this, but after having guys stand me up repeatedly....I just want you to know that I follow through when I say I'll do something. Can you say the same thing? Looking for someone who can keep their word...is there anyone left?Anyway....I realized I hate reading long descriptions of other people, so had to erase my own. :)Found this for my son, but I think maybe just a FEW of you could benefit from reading this letter...it just takes a minute. *** you want to know something about me, feel free to ask. And let me save some of you some time, I'm not looking for a hook-up, gentlemen only please.Happy fishing!

Afrika

• Xenia

• Ohio
• United States

Online

Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

..and cuddling on the couch watching a movie........

Neely

• Xenia

• Ohio
• United States

Online

Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

I won't tell you just what you want to hear & I need you to listen to what I have to say... I am a 40 year old woman with more to offer than any man I have ever known deserves or could handle... I could ramble about many things, but we both know that is the last thing a man wants to listen to... I have been through the fires of hell and don't even smell like smoke (few will understand my point) but, let me get to it...I am creative by nature, art is in my blood, I love music of ALL kinds. I went to college for marketing & graphic arts, in which I did for 20+years.... then in a twist of fate or divine destiny... I am now a registered medical assistant working with cancer patients after losing my mom to brain cancer a year+ ago...life has turned a ***and I am truly in a new beginning in many ways. Consistency tells a lot about character... I am funny and outgoing but, deep... I love to cook, it is therapy for me.. I LOVE IT... I am not interested in booty calls, being your drinking buddy or waiting for you to text me. My faith and my God is why I am still here, I am a free spirit, a writer, a romantic by heart and I tend to say too much.... so for now, I will leave it at that and build on a good thing as we go along.... by the encouragement of a friend I am here again and being completely open and honest to possibility...... I am not interested in passing your time or you wasting mine. I think it is best to stick to locals, I don't think I have it in me for another long distance anything. SOOOOOO Start diggin'.... OK, so I guess I will add some thoughts... because if you have come this far, I will assume you wanna know more. I am the whole package, come on now, seriously... if we don't think that about ourselves who will!? I have been on here a few times before and SWORE I wouldn't be back. I cannot be described in one word. There is nothing average about me.... and who doesn't have a few extra pounds or more to lose if honest, unless you are TRULY athletic, which most who say they are on here, are NOT (I know I have met them). I am a beautiful women with a lot to offer and am still a work in progress... I describe myself physically as "curvalicious" and have never had a man complain about my figure. I am NOT a Barbie doll and you will prolly never see me in a dress and heels unless someone has died, and I will prolly still be in pants.I prefer to crank up some good tunes, put on my comfies, open a bottle of wine or make some drinks and cook you the best meal you have ever had vs. going out to eat. I am very laid back compared to most women I know. I am open and honest, loving and sincere. There truly is nothing fake about me. If you ask people who know me what I am like, they would describe me as faithful, funny, sarcastic, outgoing, inviting, trustworthy, kind, reliable, shocking, passionate, sexy and I have a giving heart. I don't care if it sounds too good to be true, it is the truth.... I don't have to try and sell myself... I am just being open.... More to come...I have learned the hard way that time is precious, I do not give it to just anyone because it is a gift and you cannot get it back. I am not a dater, much less a serial dater. I will not talk to nor go out with a dozen guys at once. Not being a dater has made being on a dating sight difficult, lol. BUT, I work full time and have my daughter half the time and I don't get out much anymore. There is nothing about the bar scene I miss, except live music. ... I want more than shallow, surface relationship, I need substance. I need physical attraction just like anyone, I am not disregarding it.... it is vital. BUT, I want what I have never had. My longest relationship was 18 years and it did not work, that is almost half my life... I will not give away my heart so easily now, but when I do... that man will be blessed.

Larryreedcontp

• Xenia

• Ohio
• United States

Offline

Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

Looking for: woman. In age: 36-53

Hi! My name is Larryreedcontp. I am divorced other caucasian man with kids from Xenia, Ohio, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

Shelba

• Xenia

• Ohio
• United States

Online

Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

Some things about me:I enjoy spending time with friends and family, but equally enjoy time to myself. I love road trips - either day trips, weekend getaways, or longer adventures. I love planning and looking forward to bigger holidays that involve planes as I LOVE to fly :). I love camping and spending time at the cottage. Our family cottage is my favourite place on earth. Its great just to kick back with the lake in view, the smell of the earth and trees, good food, family and friends, and Board games and card game are too much fun! Could play games for hours and hours! Cheese and bread are heavenAs for me and what Im looking for on here, the bottom line is this: Im pretty happy in my life, but would be nice to have someone fun and funny to kick around with and maybe it turns into more. So....there ya have it. Or at least some of it :) I'll admit that I am one who enjoys the old fashioned date of going out for dinner. At the very least a drink of some manner at a place condusive to talking (so no, not Tim Hortons or Stages).

Maris

• Xenia

• Ohio
• United States

Online

Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

i have a busy life with three very active kids, im alwaats what you want then keep fishing. other then that im open for chatting:)if you are someone who likes to be spoiled by his women with lots of affection then we should talk.

Cadence

• Xenia

• Ohio
• United States

Online

Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

Where does it say that meetville is a hook up site??? I missed that info.First of all I want to say that my age on here is incorrect. meetville in their infinite wisdom wont let users change that. I put a younger age on here because I was getting tired of getting matched with old retired guys who were inactive and BORING! That being said...NO one likes talking about themselves and everyone is laid back and chill. If that were true...NO ONE would be online looking for love because we would all get along great. Face it...we are looking for the one special someone that we can feel like ourselves around...someone that we can put on a pedestal and when we are with them...they make us feel like we are a priority! That's what I am on here looking for. Someone who makes me a priority not just an option. meetville is not unique in its concept. It is a candy store of people and we are all here shopping. The inherent flaw with the concept of online dating is.....there is always someone else right around the corner. This makes it difficult to focus on the one we are with because meetville is constantly flaunting the "next best thing" in our faces.....There is not one person on here who is the ultimate.....there will ALWAYS be someone better looking, wealthier, smarter, in better physical shape and/or more perfect than the person you are talking to. The secret and the trick is......give the person you are with a chance, He/she might just be your perfect match!! I guess I must be confused.... shouldn't we be trying to sort of. ... impress each other on a first date? Why show up in dirty shorts or unshaven??

Branhamharrii8

• Xenia

• Ohio
• United States

Offline

Man. 25 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

Looking for: woman. In age: 19-25

Hi! My name is Branhamharrii8. I am never married other caucasian man without kids from Xenia, Ohio, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.