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Shakita, 47

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About Me

You know, this is not fun trying to describe myself... I am a very loyal person who gives 110% to my relationships. The problem for me is finding that one man who feels the same way. I want the "happily ever after." I've always been the person that people come to for help because they know I am dependableand reliable. Unfortunately, it makes me forgo my needs and wants. I'm not into drama with exes or difficult kids... I've been there, done that. Not going back. At my age, I'm not opposed to finding someone with kids... they just have to be decent kids and respectful... I love kids, don't get me wrong.... I'm very involved with my daughter's club soccer and her activities... love to include the kids....but also know that the "alone time" is also important. I have a great relationship with my daughter's father and have no problems in that department. When I find the right person (or so I think) I've been known to "fall" too fast. I love "love" Who doesn't? Grew up in a big family of athletes and I love sports. Rock and Roll, Country, Hair Nation \m/, Classic Rock... love going to concerts, live music.Finding a man who is wants a relationship and is willing to give 100%, as I would... that is what counts in my book.I enjoy trying new things, I a fairly new golfer, but if I gave it the time I feel like I could be a decent golfer. I have the access to some great courses thru work and just need to get out there more often.... can't wait til it cools off! I enjoy camping, boating, skiing snow/water, etc. I like road biking I've been on a break but am getting back on my bike but would love to find someone who enjoys it... miss having a riding partner. I really enjoy motorcycles and have been considering getting my motorcycle license.. I'm ***Italian/Irish so I'm passionate and determined. :)If I'm going "out" I enjoy sports bars, pool tables, darts... I'm not into the "club scene" I'm not a big Halloween party kinda person.... not my thing. I enjoy going out to "new spots"... love finding a "great little joint" Diners, Drive-Ins and Dives are awesome... and I love 5 star dining too... I like picnics, I like hiking... so many different things... there are not too many things I am opposed to try... I'm all heart.... if I'm happy or upset, you'll know.... I wear my heart on my sleeve. I can't hide my feelings. I am shy at first.... trying to break that.... but the more comfortable I feel, I'll open up. I work, pay my bills and am responsible. I've been at my present job for almost 9 years (since I've been out here) and the job before that was 18 years. Did I mention that I'm LOYAL. :) I don't need to take care of anyone else. If you're into games, please move on.... that is not what I am looking for. :)I've been fortunate to do things that alot of others can't say. I love to travel... don't always get to travel as much as I want to, but I try to sneak away every once in a while. Well, I guess I wrote a book.. That should give you an idea of the type person I am. Chemistry is must... if it is not there, it would never work.... maybe a friend is all it will be, but ya never know unless we meet. I feel that if a man wants to impress a woman, he will go all out.... be creative. Truly, it doesn't take much to impress me... I'm the type of woman who is happy with a sticky note on the mirror in the morning to surprise me showing me you care. Its really the little things that mean so much to me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Carlena

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Well, what is the worse that could happen? I'm keeping this short and sweet and in the interest of full disclosure, I am describing myself as having a few extra pounds. I do, but I am not a plus size girl. I'm just cuddly. If you are looking for Barbie, move along, lol.I'm Scottish, complete with the accent, which i am told is cute, so be prepared:-). On the whole, Scottish people have a wicked sense of humor. Lets face it, when you grow up in a country where it rains practically everyday, you have to find something to laugh about. And seriously.....men in kilts? Bwahhaha. Joking. I actually think men in kilts are dead sexy. I love to laugh, I love to tease, I love a man who can give as good as he gets. If you are a bit of a smart azz, I will probably like you. Its one of my character flaws. Another one is people watching in crowded places and making up stories about the people passing by, or ripping their fashion sense to shreds. I told you it was a character flaw!I really don't like Piña Coladas, and I don't like walks in the rain......see above. That would be your first hint, lol. I'm not a casual dater. I'm looking for a relationship, the real deal. If you're not ready for that, that's ok, but we're probably not a fit. I have a professional job that I love, and my ideal guy, will love what he does too. Im self sufficient and can take care of myself. Hopefully you are too!Thanks for taking the time to read. Whiskey tastingCaber tossing. (Google it!)Haggis HuntingIf none of those look like fun, we could always do happy hour. :-)

  • Avalina

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    If you fish in my waters, you should know that it is useless to contact me if:-you write "Hi, wanta chat?" or "Hi, how are you?"-you don't have a recent picture of yourself on your profile-you are married or lie about your age-you have tatoos all over-your idea of travelling limits itself exclusively to go south in an all inclusive-silence drives you nuts-you listen to commercial radio in your car-you can't conjugate properly-the size of your flat screen tv is bigger than your bookshelves-you have ADD or other forms of attentional-related difficulties-you have a personality disorder-you have no insight-women who think and feel intimidate you-you have poor listening skills-contempt is one of your flaws-you hope to find the next Ironwoman for your adventures--so far, you are more freaked out than amused by this list of mine and are about to send me hate mailMen, I know the pool in which I swim is small; this is why I start my little message this way. I don't find it exciting to swim in an ocean and be approached by species that are too far from my tastes. (Twentysome messages in less than 24 hours is kind of scary.)I'll be back eventually to talk about me. Now, enough about you! :)

  • Helene

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Enjoy lifeMother of two girls ***. Have three grandchildren one which is an angel now in heaven, one boy two years old and one girl one years old, my girls and grandchildren are my world, both are self sufficient, enjoy outdoor from riding a metal horse to riding horses, enjoy going to the camp and being by a fire and enjoy BBQ, go to the beach at least three times a year, and do lake tahoe at least ever other year or ever year depending on whats going on, can sit and watch football, basketball soccer or go dancing or to festival, you have one life to live so live it, love Mardi GRAS and going to balls and can put on shorts and be ready to roll, don't deal well with drama, pretty simple Open to almost anything, but don't see myself going to a movie on the first date, new to online dating

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