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Shakita, 47
United States, Indiana, Highland

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About Me

You know, this is not fun trying to describe myself... I am a very loyal person who gives 110% to my relationships. The problem for me is finding that one man who feels the same way. I want the "happily ever after." I've always been the person that people come to for help because they know I am dependableand reliable. Unfortunately, it makes me forgo my needs and wants. I'm not into drama with exes or difficult kids... I've been there, done that. Not going back. At my age, I'm not opposed to finding someone with kids... they just have to be decent kids and respectful... I love kids, don't get me wrong.... I'm very involved with my daughter's club soccer and her activities... love to include the kids....but also know that the "alone time" is also important. I have a great relationship with my daughter's father and have no problems in that department. When I find the right person (or so I think) I've been known to "fall" too fast. I love "love" Who doesn't? Grew up in a big family of athletes and I love sports. Rock and Roll, Country, Hair Nation \m/, Classic Rock... love going to concerts, live music.Finding a man who is wants a relationship and is willing to give 100%, as I would... that is what counts in my book.I enjoy trying new things, I a fairly new golfer, but if I gave it the time I feel like I could be a decent golfer. I have the access to some great courses thru work and just need to get out there more often.... can't wait til it cools off! I enjoy camping, boating, skiing snow/water, etc. I like road biking I've been on a break but am getting back on my bike but would love to find someone who enjoys it... miss having a riding partner. I really enjoy motorcycles and have been considering getting my motorcycle license.. I'm ***Italian/Irish so I'm passionate and determined. :)If I'm going "out" I enjoy sports bars, pool tables, darts... I'm not into the "club scene" I'm not a big Halloween party kinda person.... not my thing. I enjoy going out to "new spots"... love finding a "great little joint" Diners, Drive-Ins and Dives are awesome... and I love 5 star dining too... I like picnics, I like hiking... so many different things... there are not too many things I am opposed to try... I'm all heart.... if I'm happy or upset, you'll know.... I wear my heart on my sleeve. I can't hide my feelings. I am shy at first.... trying to break that.... but the more comfortable I feel, I'll open up. I work, pay my bills and am responsible. I've been at my present job for almost 9 years (since I've been out here) and the job before that was 18 years. Did I mention that I'm LOYAL. :) I don't need to take care of anyone else. If you're into games, please move on.... that is not what I am looking for. :)I've been fortunate to do things that alot of others can't say. I love to travel... don't always get to travel as much as I want to, but I try to sneak away every once in a while. Well, I guess I wrote a book.. That should give you an idea of the type person I am. Chemistry is must... if it is not there, it would never work.... maybe a friend is all it will be, but ya never know unless we meet. I feel that if a man wants to impress a woman, he will go all out.... be creative. Truly, it doesn't take much to impress me... I'm the type of woman who is happy with a sticky note on the mirror in the morning to surprise me showing me you care. Its really the little things that mean so much to me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Craft Making Caribbean English German Turkish
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