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About Me

You know, this is not fun trying to describe myself... I am a very loyal person who gives 110% to my relationships. The problem for me is finding that one man who feels the same way. I want the "happily ever after." I've always been the person that people come to for help because they know I am dependableand reliable. Unfortunately, it makes me forgo my needs and wants. I'm not into drama with exes or difficult kids... I've been there, done that. Not going back. At my age, I'm not opposed to finding someone with kids... they just have to be decent kids and respectful... I love kids, don't get me wrong.... I'm very involved with my daughter's club soccer and her activities... love to include the kids....but also know that the "alone time" is also important. I have a great relationship with my daughter's father and have no problems in that department. When I find the right person (or so I think) I've been known to "fall" too fast. I love "love" Who doesn't? Grew up in a big family of athletes and I love sports. Rock and Roll, Country, Hair Nation \m/, Classic Rock... love going to concerts, live music.Finding a man who is wants a relationship and is willing to give 100%, as I would... that is what counts in my book.I enjoy trying new things, I a fairly new golfer, but if I gave it the time I feel like I could be a decent golfer. I have the access to some great courses thru work and just need to get out there more often.... can't wait til it cools off! I enjoy camping, boating, skiing snow/water, etc. I like road biking I've been on a break but am getting back on my bike but would love to find someone who enjoys it... miss having a riding partner. I really enjoy motorcycles and have been considering getting my motorcycle license.. I'm ***Italian/Irish so I'm passionate and determined. :)If I'm going "out" I enjoy sports bars, pool tables, darts... I'm not into the "club scene" I'm not a big Halloween party kinda person.... not my thing. I enjoy going out to "new spots"... love finding a "great little joint" Diners, Drive-Ins and Dives are awesome... and I love 5 star dining too... I like picnics, I like hiking... so many different things... there are not too many things I am opposed to try... I'm all heart.... if I'm happy or upset, you'll know.... I wear my heart on my sleeve. I can't hide my feelings. I am shy at first.... trying to break that.... but the more comfortable I feel, I'll open up. I work, pay my bills and am responsible. I've been at my present job for almost 9 years (since I've been out here) and the job before that was 18 years. Did I mention that I'm LOYAL. :) I don't need to take care of anyone else. If you're into games, please move on.... that is not what I am looking for. :)I've been fortunate to do things that alot of others can't say. I love to travel... don't always get to travel as much as I want to, but I try to sneak away every once in a while. Well, I guess I wrote a book.. That should give you an idea of the type person I am. Chemistry is must... if it is not there, it would never work.... maybe a friend is all it will be, but ya never know unless we meet. I feel that if a man wants to impress a woman, he will go all out.... be creative. Truly, it doesn't take much to impress me... I'm the type of woman who is happy with a sticky note on the mirror in the morning to surprise me showing me you care. Its really the little things that mean so much to me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Vicenta

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    ;My son, there's a battle between 2 wolves inside us all. One is evil, it is anger, jealousy, greed, resentment, inferiority, lies and ego. The other is good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, humility, kindess and truth." The boy thought about it and asked, "Grandfather, which wolf wins?" The old man quietly replied, "the one you feed." So, a little about me: I am the oldest of six children. I am close to my family, although I don't get to spend as much time with them as I'd like. I have two daughters, 11 and 12, both are very smart and they do make it all worthwhile. I am passionate, expressive, playful, generous, thoughtful and fiercely protective of friends and family. I am slow to anger, but a good person to have in your corner if you have been treated unfairly and need an advocate. I will not run from a fight, but I believe in choosing my battles. When I love, I love completely and with abandon, much like Ronny and Loretta in "Moonstruck". If you are looking for a playmate only, please don't respond to me. The word "intimate" has nothing to do with sex although many people make the mistake of believing that they are one and the same. True intimacy is the deep connection of two souls, and I won't accept anything less in my next relationship. Some things I like in a man: Honesty for one, for ***, exclusive means that you don't see other women romantically (a duh moment, I know) I like someone who can take charge, without being bossy. Someone who knows enough about cars to hazard a guess as to the cause of a smell or a sound emanating from the engine but doesn't know TOO much. I like a man who will wrap his arms around me and pull me in close when its cold or when I'm sad or worried and make me feel as if the world can't stop spinning as long as his arms are wrapped around me. I like a smart, educated man, that can match wits with me and that realizes I am truly a prize and doesn't take me for granted. I don't need to be catered to or pampered. I do, however, value attention from the man I love and reciprocate gratefully. But you should know that all the things that make me interesting can also make me challenging at times (I've been told) and if you can't handle a strong woman who will challenge you to be your best self, than move on to the next profile. When we meet for the first time, I may be quieter than you are expecting. I will likely listen more than I talk because I want to know what makes you tick and whether together we are a "yes" or a "no". I don't like endless *** phone conversations with men I have not yet sat across a table from although a short initial conversation is totally okay in the beginning. If you have had or still have women in your life with whom you've had on again off again relationships that never really ended, please don't *** used to tell people that I never re-cross a bridge and I didn't really understand why I felt that way. I have discovered that when relationships end, there's a reason, and revisiting those relationships often creates an endless cycle of heartache and dysfunction. I am learning to accept the ends of things and be open to new opportunities. Whether it is physically or emotionally, I strive to be healthier every day, and be true to myself. I know that I'm never going to stop falling in love and that I will always be risking a broken heart. It is a risk that must be taken. I know that when I meet the one I am supposed to be with for the rest of my life, I will continue to fall in love with him every day until I take my last breath. There is no true victory without significant risk. Something casual. Happy hour works well for me....coffee on a Saturday morning...anything that will allow me (and you) to know whether there's a spark.

  • Elayne

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hi..I guess the best words to describe myself would be caring, affectionate, funny although my kids might disagree, and fun loving. I love to try new things theres alot i havent done in my life so alot would be new to me. Love music, my least favorite is country, but slowly im getting to like a few songs but only for a short time. I prefer top 40, hip hop, 80s and 90s. I like to watch movies, not slasher ones, more like chick flicks or action and drama. Love pizza, dt mt dew and salads. I love the summer months when I can get out and enjoy the weather, sun worshiper. Not looking for games, or drama really want to settle down with someone and spend the rest of my life with them. I am divorced with 4 kids, only one is still at home though. They are my life!!

  • Maile

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Hi there, thanks for stopping by. Like so many others, I am on meetville to hopefully meet someone I genuinely connect with. Has not happened yet, but I remain open to the possibilities. I believe it is important to find someone I connect with, am attracted to, and share some similarities with. I do feel some different interests keep things exciting and I love learning something new.I am looking for a man who believes that true romance still exists, has a sense of adventure, and is willing to to let someone into his his life for more than just a hot minute. Life and people are sometimes less than perfect, but I feel we have to still be open to the possibilities that are out there. I have a kind heart, know how to truly keep a secret, and am fiercely loyal to those I count as friends. I have a grounded, responsible side and a very good job. However, I definitely believe in work/life balance and know how to have fun! I like to listen to live music - and perform. Playing guitar is a passion of mine. I play at open mic when my schedule permits. Yes, I have quoted song lyrics for my headline from a song I really like playing.I totally believe in God and hope you do too! I am a non-smoker and totally NOT into drugs. Looking for the same - just keeping it real. Take a chance here - you just might be pleasantly surprised! Let's go out and have some fun!!**Please do not *** you are not single, available or free of past relationship/emotional attachments. I'm not talking about co-parenting here. It's the personal adult emotional commitment I am talking about. If you are on the rebound or not over an ex, it just will not work for me. Thank you for understanding. Peace. I see the first meeting as more of a meet-n-greet than a date. Let's go somewhere we can talk and get to know each other - coffee shops work well for this. Let's meet and see if there's a connection. Then we can plan the first date! :)

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