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Elvie, 46

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About Me

If I were to be totally honest here I am not quite sure what I am expecting. I am just trying to figure this out one day at a time after ending a ten year marriage (happily divorced as of Feb). I have two wonderful children who keep me very busy but I miss having time to do things with a partner or adult. I enjoy dining out and movies, seeing new places and keeping busy. I have a lot of great friends where I live and who I socialize with but ALL of them are married so I guess this is how people meet other people these days so I thought I would just give it a try. Honesty is HUGE with me so if you aren't then please don't bother reading any further or contacting me. I am straight forward and mean what I say..reliable in that if I say I will do something it means I will and I am looking for the same . As such, I am not here to waste my time or yours if I don't think we have anything in common or wont make great friends then I may not reply back and please don't take that the wrong way as I wish you well regardless :) Also...because the photos may not show it my hair has many tones and I do have tasteful and colorful tattoos ..soooo..if that offends you I wanted you to know now ;) oh..I also have cats so if you're allergic I'm not your gal either...and lastly...I wanted to just put this out there as well..though I have a good sense of adventure most of the time I myself don't ride on motorcycles...I have no problem and don't mind if you do..but..if having me enjoy this with you is a "must" then again...I'm not your gal but wishing you all the best just the same..I figure it's best to get these things out there up front ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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