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Arlean, 48

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About Me

And I am not real complicated I always try to just keep it real I will tell you now my nails are fake my hair is real but fake and my lashes are probably gonna be fake I am all about using whatever u can to stay looking as young as you want to feel or as good as you can. however, everything else is 100% authentic and I am probably not the one to ask if you can't handle the truth I say what I mean and mean what i say and I'm not real good at beating around the bush I have a tendency of just spitting it out and I can't stand it when someone tells you something they think you want to hear that makes me crazy I'm never gonna ask you does my ass look big in these pants because if you don't already know the answer to that question then dear god go put a skirt on. lol so when I do ask someones opinion, that is what i honestly want. I am 5'9 and 6 ft in heels and I am not skinny and i'm not fat i am a healthy girl with curves. My goal is to find the ONE and I'm hoping that when I meet him I will just know. Although it hasn't happened yet I'd like to think it could.,. Until then I'm just dating. I'd love to fall in love and live happily ever after. But until then I'm just dating, which means you really can't take this whole online dating thing real serious or your gonna get your feelings hurt. So in order to prevent that from happening I've decided to just take a different approach to it. We all have a preference in what we are looking for in the person we want to date and sometime what we see in our profiles aren't what we find in person it doesn't mean it has to be the end of the world, I promise you won't break my heart if I'm not your preference, believe me when I say their is always another man or woman right around the corner! So to me how we end the date is the most important part, because weather their be a love connection or not I would like to think at the very least I made a new friend then no body looses or gets their feelings hurt. And who couldn't use another friend. As for what I am looking for in a man, I want someone who can make me laugh and who is his own man and walks with confidence and has a good honest heart that turns me on. It's really about his looks for me, I mean that's nice and all but to me sexy is where it's at and sexy isn't about what you look like on the outside it comes from inside, it's all about how you feel in your jeans and how you feel in your skin that is what makes you sexy. Oh and of course a pair of cowboy boots that sends me over the top for sure. lol As for me, I have a huge heart and more empathy then a lot of people I can truly feel someones pain and from where they came. I relate to everyone and I think everyone has a story some good some not so good but its what you do with the information you have learned that is what is important and who am I to judge anyone I've had my own share of heart aches and bad luck bad choices but that is what makes us who we are today and I like who I am today. And for those men who thought I was stuck up because of my reaction or response to your compliment assure you I'm not stuck up I just don't see myself as beautiful and I not good at taking a compliment, I get embarrassed and am never sure what to say. If I have any beauty at all I think it is in my heart not my appearance. So i'm not stuck up! I'm just saying ! lol It really doesn't take a lot to impress me, I guess you could say I'm a cheap date. lol I think the best first date is maybe some dinner, great conversation and a lot of laughter. That to me is a great first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Henrietta

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hi friendly fish! I'm checking things out on here once again. The hopeless romantic at heart thinks there are still great guys out there! I'm a single woman with 2 great kids. They are growing up, changing, fun and keep me laughing with their cool personalities. We hang out at baseball and softball games (a son and daughter), I love watching them and always so proud. We love dogs, the beach, sports, music. I love the work I do that involves making children happy every day. In my free time I love to hang out with friends, listening to music, seeing bands down at the beach. Concerts and music is my favorite pastime, always have tunes on and love to dance and have fun. I also love to be active, walking, running, hiking, even doing housework! Love the water!I would like to find a strong but sweet man who I connect with, with similar interests and who is fun to be around. I'm not into just a quick hook up. That is really a turn-off, and at this point in my life I need more than that. If you are quite a bit younger than me, sorry I'm not interested. My match would be a man with a similar lifestyle and a guy with a cool, calm personality, considerate with a warm personality and look in their eyes when they smile at me :) A man with a sexy persona, not outwardly but in the way I perceive them. A genuine smile warms my heart as well :) Other than that, you'll have to stop by and say hi sometime to find out a bit more. Happy fishing! Meet somewhere we can chat and see if we have chemistry.

  • Lorita

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Not in Ta-Coma anymore after raising two children. Wonderful city but time to move on. I spend my time traveling for work doing a job I love and enjoy keeping very busy socializing. Even though they are over 18, I'm still passionate about taking care of my children and making sure they succeed in life but that does not mean I'm not ready and willing to be pampered by someone else for a change. Into: All things healthy, i.e., eating right, long walks/runs to keep fit and getting enough sleep. But also enjoy getting out and seeing the city night life, whether it may be a live band or delicious dinner. I'd like to find someone who can teach me things and travel with me; making each other laugh; grow and learn; sharing past and future life experiences/interests and insight.Hey Fisherman, I am a good catch!. So contact me if you are independent, confident and financially secure. Just saying.... Some type of activity like walking or an easy hike.

  • Karine

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I have 2 sons that are grown. I am a big animal lover. I have two cats. I like dogs too just don't currently have one . I grew up around horses, cows and yes even some chickens. I am a country girl at heart. I like to wear my cowboy boots, jeans and my western belt with a nice top. I have a great job of over 17 years. I am a very upbeat person with a great sense of humor. I am a honest, and considerate person. I like to get out and try new things . I am compassionate and can be spontaneous at times. I like to stay active and spend as much time outdoors as I can. I like to travel and check out new places. Dressing down is good at times as well for a night in or a day at the beach. I like to cuddle, hold hands, and kiss with the right person. Stay in and snuggle to a good movie. Communication with a partner is important. I enjoy most kinds of music, classic rock, Christian, Country as well as various others types. I go out line dancing at times as well. Love to go to live concerts. I I love to BBQ and sitting in the back yard to a fire in the fire pit. I'm looking for someone who has some of the same interests as I do. Someone who likes to laugh and have fun. Who takes care of themselves, honest caring and compassionate. Someone who can communicate well and open to share thoughts and feelings. Someone who has time to go out and enjoy life & time to dedicate to building a friendship than see where it goes. Has a good sense of humor and laid back. First date would be go some where and sit and talk over lunch, Dinner or even coffee Just learn to get to know that person and see if there is a connection.

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