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United States, Indiana, Greensburg

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About Me

And I am not real complicated I always try to just keep it real I will tell you now my nails are fake my hair is real but fake and my lashes are probably gonna be fake I am all about using whatever u can to stay looking as young as you want to feel or as good as you can. however, everything else is 100% authentic and I am probably not the one to ask if you can't handle the truth I say what I mean and mean what i say and I'm not real good at beating around the bush I have a tendency of just spitting it out and I can't stand it when someone tells you something they think you want to hear that makes me crazy I'm never gonna ask you does my ass look big in these pants because if you don't already know the answer to that question then dear god go put a skirt on. lol so when I do ask someones opinion, that is what i honestly want. I am 5'9 and 6 ft in heels and I am not skinny and i'm not fat i am a healthy girl with curves. My goal is to find the ONE and I'm hoping that when I meet him I will just know. Although it hasn't happened yet I'd like to think it could.,. Until then I'm just dating. I'd love to fall in love and live happily ever after. But until then I'm just dating, which means you really can't take this whole online dating thing real serious or your gonna get your feelings hurt. So in order to prevent that from happening I've decided to just take a different approach to it. We all have a preference in what we are looking for in the person we want to date and sometime what we see in our profiles aren't what we find in person it doesn't mean it has to be the end of the world, I promise you won't break my heart if I'm not your preference, believe me when I say their is always another man or woman right around the corner! So to me how we end the date is the most important part, because weather their be a love connection or not I would like to think at the very least I made a new friend then no body looses or gets their feelings hurt. And who couldn't use another friend. As for what I am looking for in a man, I want someone who can make me laugh and who is his own man and walks with confidence and has a good honest heart that turns me on. It's really about his looks for me, I mean that's nice and all but to me sexy is where it's at and sexy isn't about what you look like on the outside it comes from inside, it's all about how you feel in your jeans and how you feel in your skin that is what makes you sexy. Oh and of course a pair of cowboy boots that sends me over the top for sure. lol As for me, I have a huge heart and more empathy then a lot of people I can truly feel someones pain and from where they came. I relate to everyone and I think everyone has a story some good some not so good but its what you do with the information you have learned that is what is important and who am I to judge anyone I've had my own share of heart aches and bad luck bad choices but that is what makes us who we are today and I like who I am today. And for those men who thought I was stuck up because of my reaction or response to your compliment assure you I'm not stuck up I just don't see myself as beautiful and I not good at taking a compliment, I get embarrassed and am never sure what to say. If I have any beauty at all I think it is in my heart not my appearance. So i'm not stuck up! I'm just saying ! lol It really doesn't take a lot to impress me, I guess you could say I'm a cheap date. lol I think the best first date is maybe some dinner, great conversation and a lot of laughter. That to me is a great first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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