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About Me

And I am not real complicated I always try to just keep it real I will tell you now my nails are fake my hair is real but fake and my lashes are probably gonna be fake I am all about using whatever u can to stay looking as young as you want to feel or as good as you can. however, everything else is 100% authentic and I am probably not the one to ask if you can't handle the truth I say what I mean and mean what i say and I'm not real good at beating around the bush I have a tendency of just spitting it out and I can't stand it when someone tells you something they think you want to hear that makes me crazy I'm never gonna ask you does my ass look big in these pants because if you don't already know the answer to that question then dear god go put a skirt on. lol so when I do ask someones opinion, that is what i honestly want. I am 5'9 and 6 ft in heels and I am not skinny and i'm not fat i am a healthy girl with curves. My goal is to find the ONE and I'm hoping that when I meet him I will just know. Although it hasn't happened yet I'd like to think it could.,. Until then I'm just dating. I'd love to fall in love and live happily ever after. But until then I'm just dating, which means you really can't take this whole online dating thing real serious or your gonna get your feelings hurt. So in order to prevent that from happening I've decided to just take a different approach to it. We all have a preference in what we are looking for in the person we want to date and sometime what we see in our profiles aren't what we find in person it doesn't mean it has to be the end of the world, I promise you won't break my heart if I'm not your preference, believe me when I say their is always another man or woman right around the corner! So to me how we end the date is the most important part, because weather their be a love connection or not I would like to think at the very least I made a new friend then no body looses or gets their feelings hurt. And who couldn't use another friend. As for what I am looking for in a man, I want someone who can make me laugh and who is his own man and walks with confidence and has a good honest heart that turns me on. It's really about his looks for me, I mean that's nice and all but to me sexy is where it's at and sexy isn't about what you look like on the outside it comes from inside, it's all about how you feel in your jeans and how you feel in your skin that is what makes you sexy. Oh and of course a pair of cowboy boots that sends me over the top for sure. lol As for me, I have a huge heart and more empathy then a lot of people I can truly feel someones pain and from where they came. I relate to everyone and I think everyone has a story some good some not so good but its what you do with the information you have learned that is what is important and who am I to judge anyone I've had my own share of heart aches and bad luck bad choices but that is what makes us who we are today and I like who I am today. And for those men who thought I was stuck up because of my reaction or response to your compliment assure you I'm not stuck up I just don't see myself as beautiful and I not good at taking a compliment, I get embarrassed and am never sure what to say. If I have any beauty at all I think it is in my heart not my appearance. So i'm not stuck up! I'm just saying ! lol It really doesn't take a lot to impress me, I guess you could say I'm a cheap date. lol I think the best first date is maybe some dinner, great conversation and a lot of laughter. That to me is a great first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Emily

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am a career oriented person. I own a hair salon with my twin sister. I am looking to go out and have fun, I enjoy meeting new people. I love the magic of falling in love :) A drink and an appetizer or coffee

  • Lorita

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Not in Ta-Coma anymore after raising two children. Wonderful city but time to move on. I spend my time traveling for work doing a job I love and enjoy keeping very busy socializing. Even though they are over 18, I'm still passionate about taking care of my children and making sure they succeed in life but that does not mean I'm not ready and willing to be pampered by someone else for a change. Into: All things healthy, i.e., eating right, long walks/runs to keep fit and getting enough sleep. But also enjoy getting out and seeing the city night life, whether it may be a live band or delicious dinner. I'd like to find someone who can teach me things and travel with me; making each other laugh; grow and learn; sharing past and future life experiences/interests and insight.Hey Fisherman, I am a good catch!. So contact me if you are independent, confident and financially secure. Just saying.... Some type of activity like walking or an easy hike.

  • Francis

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I have been on meetville for a little over a year now. In that time I have drawn some conclusions about some of the men on the site.... Before I dish, let me also say that I have met some wonderful men and made a few great friends. It has been a nice way to get to know some very awesome guys, share some of Life's experiences and hear from a different perspective. That being said, some of the men on this site think that meetville means Plenty of Flesh.... I'm not a prude but I won't text any naked pictures. I've also noticed that some men are pretty impressed with their toys (4 wheeled, 2 wheeled and engines in general), their work out routines/bodies and their trophies (both the 4 legged and 2 legged varieties). Vehicles, sports and the gym are fine as Hobbies but if they are your LIFE you don't have time for anything else. This does not impress me. The words "shallow" and "self absorbed" come to mind.I am single, employed, financially responsible and raising 3 awesome kids. They are 19, 17 and 14 so while they are still my number one priority, they are getting more independent daily. Live music, cooking from scratch, spontaneous road trips, meeting new people and trying new things excite me. I love to read (almost anything), garden, dance, be in the woods and in the water, watch movies (I don't have cable and I don't game), laugh (I'm very comfortable laughing at myself) and hang out with friends and family. I am passionate, romantic, sexy and confident.I don't believe that a man and a woman have to spend all of their time together, like all the same activities, foods or people, or agree on all issues. I DO believe that a man and a woman need to respectfully communicate, be honest with each other, trust and accept each other for who they are. It's obvious that there are many single men and many single women looking for that one person to build a special relationship with. I don't believe in Soul Mates, relationships that 'just happen; fall into place; or are easy'. I DO believe that intimate relationships are a vitally important part of a Life fully enjoyed and lived. Best of luck to all Fishermen.Love has more to do with the person you become in its presence than it does with anything else. You must always be yourself, honest and true. I think a first date should be casual and relaxed. No worries over being over or under dressed. Not a movie or concert - too loud to talk. Suggestions? Extra points for creativity.

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