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Deloise, 49

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About Me

Based on the gentlemen that are messaging me, I should make a couple things clear...at this point in my life, the relationship i'm seeking doesn't include young children, except of course Grandchildren. Also, material things are not a priority, however, you should be gainfully employed, established in life and able to support yourself. I love being on a motorcycle, seeing new places, not a requirement, but if you ride...we already share one pastime. Lastly, I enjoy an occasional good cigar, you don't have to, but if you aren't cool with me doing my thing, then you won't be cool with me.I am an easy going person with a drama free and peaceful life and plan to keep it that way. I don't sweat too many things in life and I am a good listener and communicator. I would like to find a relationship where I can share what's on my mind, feelings, fears and such and have you do the same. I am a jeans kind of gal and don't care much for dressing up or being around uptight or phony people. I highly value and love spending time with my family, I have two children and two grandchildren. I have tattoos, so if they aren't for you, I am probably not either. I workout to stay healthy and feel good about myself. Looking to get out and experience some new things, such as hiking and learning to play golf. Although I choose not to drink, I have no problem being around people who do it responsibly and aren't habitual drunks.I have a job I enjoy, a house and take care of myself. I am not looking to gain anything from you and don't have the 'Princess' complex like so many women seem to. I am looking for a real man with a good heart, not the expensive car or bike...will never understand why I see so many pics of cars, bikes, houses and such in the profiles I view...makes me wonder what they are trying to attract Have no interest in changing anyone and my ideal man will accept me as I am. I want an equal relationship...two partners doing their part and making a fun, happy life.I am looking for someone to spend my life with. It would be nice to meet a down to earth, affectionate but not smothering, honest man with a sense of humor (can you laugh at yourself?), family values, and easy going nature. Although I am happy and content with my life, it would be nicer to spend it with someone special that 'gets' me. If you're not 'available' or serious, don't waste my or your time. I am also not looking for a hook-up or a casual relationship or to date multiple people at same time.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

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    I am looking for a Caucasian male, minimum 5'7", either---slim---average---athletic or a little over weight (not excessive)Must not: do drugs, drink excessively, lie or cheatThank you for your messages but if I don't feel there is a connection I won't reply. Becomes frustrating and I feel bad. Some guys message that haven't read my profile, message everyone, or send a message when it is obvious we are not compatible.I’m hanging on to the hope that there is a decent man that can be fun, honest, calm and exciting. Someone I find attractive (sexy is good too...lol). Gotta have the 'it factor'. A one-woman-man. A sense of humour is a must. Laughter is so important especially when it happens naturally in conversation. I can be reserved or goofy depending on the situation and who I'm with.I miss the sparks of kissing, holding hands, snuggling, laughter and all the 'perks' of being a couple.I am an occasional drinker, non smoker, I've never done drugs, never cheated on my boyfriends or husband. I enjoy many activities but don't get to do them because of being single. I have a big heart (a blessing and a curse), love to help, volunteer, have respect for all.My ex is on girlfriend #12 and I will not match his score or want someone like him.I'm not one for lots of chatting on the computer. Meeting is the best way to see if there is a connection. Why tell a complete stranger all about yourself in messages only to meet and have zero connection. When I talk to someone that is when a connection is made (or not) Not from reading a profile or seeing a photo. Those are just small steps in the process.Life is to short too waste, so please don't message me if you aren't able to be honest and are on the site for the wrong reasons.Also if you lie about your age...that is called dishonest and generally we (the women on here) can tell. Your looks give it away...you can't just make up a number!!!! Somewhere reasonable for us to be comfortable and talk, no pressure.

  • Linda

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Life could be so rewarding if everyone would treat people the way they want to be treated. I stayed single to raise my son....now it's moms turn to be happy. No one is honest anymore. Dating sucks I'm so tired of doing things alone. Before you get involved with someone make sure you have the time for the relationship or that you really want one!! Dating is not fun. I'd just like to meet someone genuine for once. Dinner, movie, walk at a park, anything would be fine for face to face meet and conversation

  • Willodean

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I'm interested in a lot of different things, especially anything nature related, I love the outdoors. I love hitting the great brewpubs and dining establishments of the city with friends or just wandering around by myself. Love to take road trips, and I enjoy having no particular plan. I like having a free spirit and a joyful attitude. Finding a spot on a map and making my way to it, tossing my sleeping bag in the dirt and sleeping under the stars on a warm night is better than a 5 star hotel. My personality is spunky but can be reserved at first, (I call this mysterious) though I am not shy. I'm flirty and affectionate when I let my hair down. I'm giving and loving in a relationship, if I can remember that far back. I remember I like peace, respect, and spooning.I'd like to meet my best friend. One who likes to be outside and has a zest for life, curious about things with interests and dreams. Probably should have a dry sense of humor like me. I laugh a lot, mainly at you, so be prepared. :) I seek a man who is laid back and patient, who is my rock. dealbreakers. DELETE me if you have religious or conservative viewpoints about gay people, think being gay is a "lifestyle”, or a choice: good bad or otherwise. I have a gay son and this is a non negotiable value. yardworkkiddingthe only firm expectation I have is nothing could happen or anything could happen. I will promise not to harm you or look worse than my photos.

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