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Minnie, 47
United States, Indiana, Greenfield

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About Me

I am looking for a Caucasian male, minimum 5'7", either---slim---average---athletic or a little over weight (not excessive)Must not: do drugs, drink excessively, lie or cheatThank you for your messages but if I don't feel there is a connection I won't reply. Becomes frustrating and I feel bad. Some guys message that haven't read my profile, message everyone, or send a message when it is obvious we are not compatible.I’m hanging on to the hope that there is a decent man that can be fun, honest, calm and exciting. Someone I find attractive (sexy is good too...lol). Gotta have the 'it factor'. A one-woman-man. A sense of humour is a must. Laughter is so important especially when it happens naturally in conversation. I can be reserved or goofy depending on the situation and who I'm with.I miss the sparks of kissing, holding hands, snuggling, laughter and all the 'perks' of being a couple.I am an occasional drinker, non smoker, I've never done drugs, never cheated on my boyfriends or husband. I enjoy many activities but don't get to do them because of being single. I have a big heart (a blessing and a curse), love to help, volunteer, have respect for all.My ex is on girlfriend #12 and I will not match his score or want someone like him.I'm not one for lots of chatting on the computer. Meeting is the best way to see if there is a connection. Why tell a complete stranger all about yourself in messages only to meet and have zero connection. When I talk to someone that is when a connection is made (or not) Not from reading a profile or seeing a photo. Those are just small steps in the process.Life is to short too waste, so please don't message me if you aren't able to be honest and are on the site for the wrong reasons.Also if you lie about your age...that is called dishonest and generally we (the women on here) can tell. Your looks give it away...you can't just make up a number!!!! Somewhere reasonable for us to be comfortable and talk, no pressure.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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