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SynthiaOffline
Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 37-47
Life is good. It’s really good. There’s just one component missing. The perfect guy. Perfect *for me*, anyway… Perfection in general is boring and overrated. (Handsome, witty, sweet and a gentleman, though? Not overrated.:)Here’s the thing though… A lot of guys’ meetville profiles mention that they want someone who can “keep up” with them, and I am not looking for someone to keep up with or to keep up with me. I have a lot going on already. In addition to working quite a bit, we live in an incredible city; it’s hard not to want to be out exploring it every second of the day! Sporting events, the lakefront, restaurants, bars, museums… I’m looking to meet someone who will give me a reason to slow things down a bit. It would be super to meet someone who also has a great life and who will invite me to be a part of it and support whatever he’s into, but we don't have to share every interest or be out every night of the week together.… Fantastic! I’ll go out for wine night with the girls or stay in and read a book (dare I dream) and we’ll both be happy. But ideally, somewhere in the middle we’ll decide to stay in together and we’ll realize we don’t need to be “out and about” all the time to enjoy life in this city. Looking for a balance.I’m pretty well over the bar scene and 30, 40 and 50-something guys who are re-living college. Unfortunately that’s what my dating pool seems to have dwindled to but I am hopeful and optimistic that there is at least one guy left in the city who has grown up in lifestyle but isn’t afraid of getting a little silly with the right girl.Some additional facts you may or may not find useful:- I ditched my car about a year ago and am loving car-free life, so if you live outside the range of the CTA it could be tricky.-Though I am educated and have built a nice career and lifestyle for myself, I come from a very blue collar background downstate and carry those values with me. I like nice things, but I like great experiences more. - I have a cat.- I can be a bit of a contradiction. I've run with the bulls and jumped out of a perfectly good airplane, but spiders terrify me and I just got a new road bike that I refuse to put clipless pedals on because I'm afraid of falling off.-Bonus clue for those who actually read profiles: *** me must be ***characters or more in order to go through. That's about two standard sentences. If you're the guy, a couple sentences to make a good impression should be no problem.There is a lot more I could say about myself, but wouldn't it be more fun to sort it out over drinks or a walk through the zoo?Excellent. Good talk Russ. Drinks and a board game (Guthries!)? Wine tasting? A walk on the lakefront? The zoo? I'm pretty basic and am easily entertained in the right company. :)p.s. If I favorite you, it's not code for anything. It just means I'm interested but can't *** that particular moment.
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PamelaOffline
Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
Let me start by saying that i am not here for a booty call!*Secondly, a 'real man' doesn't need to disclaim it in his profile. It's reflected in his actions.*Why am I still here? This is such a horrible site! Look, if you messaged me once and I did not respond, messaging me 2,3 or 4 times is not gonna get you any closer. I'm tired of the same guys messaging me over and over. I'm not gonna feel any differently this week than Idid last week . Oh, and the copy and paste method with the same exact message... Real classic! That super close selfie you took showing your double chin, making your nose appear twice it's size, and resembling a mug shot is so sexy... Said no woman ever! Please do not get mad if I do not reply. I just don't want to waste anyone's time. If I ain't interested, I'm just not interested. So if you don't hear back from me, it's probably because I don't think you are my type. While I understand this is a dating site, I am also a realist and know that online, physical attraction is always #1. Sure, if we met at a bar and started talking I might start to find you more attractive by your personality. However, we're not at a bar. Here, attraction is simply by pictures, so please have some. If you do not have a pic, you can guarantee that you won't be hearing back from me. And no, i will not give you my *** send me a pic! While you may have an adorable dog or a fly ride, I am not trying to date your car, your dog, or even your kids at this point. Post pictures of yourself for crying out loud!! Looking for a good guy that can be chivalrous and make me laugh. Im a strong, independent, a lil bull headed (i am a Taurus), easy going, romantic dreamer who is looking for new adventures in life. My life has become so routine and mundane, so i welcome excitement! A quick drink at happy hour or Starbucks to see how we vibe.
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StephaniaOffline
Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 34-44
Please note: I won't be available to meet in person for a few months. I'd like to start by communicating by *** & switch to phone if it goes well. I don't chat or text. I find that some of the information this site demanded was inappropriate, so some of my answers are arbitrarily inaccurate--age, dob, income.I am looking for a soul mate--true love for long term--marriage or committed long-term relationship. I don't "hook up." I'm more likely to hit it off with a guy who is at least a little different, outgoing, charismatic, romantic, considerate, intellectual, edgy and fun. I'm often reserved and a little shy, but I can also be outgoing, it just depends. Style is important to me; I prefer alternative/underground fashion. I tend to like men who are slightly effeminate. I'm turned off by facial hair.I'm easy going, chill, like to cuddle, all the usual stuff. I'm kind, compassionate, considerate, affectionate, empathetic and supportive. I have a lot of love to give to someone who's the same. I like to do stuff that involves a little movement (nothing crazy) rather than sitting, at least sometimes. I like to dance to rock 'n' roll & swing music (swing--not that well, a little bit of east-coast). I am liberal and progressive, an atheist, ethnically Jewish, individualistic and non-conformist, intellectual but I don't dwell on that sort of thing. I prefer to talk about fun things and I like silly humor. I'm partially vegetarian, and will go back to being pescatarian or vegan in the future. I have no tolerance for disrespect.Rock 'n' roll is my passion, it moves me, so it would be good to have that in common. Please see interests for more on what I like.--a good way of ending thing with me before they start. I can't be around smoke. Not available to meet at this time. *** & eventually phone. I don't chat.