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Tarah, 36
United States, Indiana, Clarksville

Offline, last seen Sat, 09 May 2026 17:47:05

About Me

I'd rather you hate me for the person that I am then ever love me for something that I'm not. What you see is what you get. I'm sarcastic and blunt but if you have the right attitude the two can go well together. I love to laugh, have great conversation, finding something a little out of the the status quo, ooh and watching my Vikes! Although I must admit I saw my first football game at a local sports bar here and no one was there! That's going to take some getting used to.I love people who are honest, direct and upfront and realize that doesn't mean disrespectful.What I want:I want to be the girl you want to take out in the daylight. The girl you want to hold hands with and be proud to say she's with you. A last minute call on a Friday night after you've had a few with a follow-up invitation to your place or mine afterwards does not interest me. I expect to meet someone who respects me at least as much as I respect myself. I'm talking to most of you that are in your 30's or 40's and don't think it's a stretch that the expectation is I'm treated better than a girl at a college frat party.I've been on here for a while. I'm at the point I want to date one person and see what happens. If we meet and don't click no harm no foul. I won't be your "there was nothing better to do so I called you" girl. Now I understand how these two statements can come across. I'm not a man hater or do I think that everyone on here is a bad person. Don't confuse my directness with some sort of dysfunction and send me a dissertation on what I really meant. I know what I meant and I typed what I meantShould we talk or not?If you aren't looking to meet someone with the potential of more then we won't click. Plenty of people on here looking for FWB/NSA If you are still married whether separated or not or just recently out of a relationship, I'm probably not going to be nurturing enough to build you back upIf you need someone who is available 7 days a week to hang out - well I like my girl timeDisclosure:I get these messages telling me how I should change my profile to be softer. I don't disagree. That being said the men on here know that girls get a lot of messages. Why not be up front in what your looking for so the person who sends the message is on the same page?Look at a profile before contacting someone. So I smoke when I drink. Yes I do drink. If you have a problem with either don't message me. I promise you that you will be so much happier in the long run actually reading about who you are contacting than spending 20 minutes of your life exchanging messages. Another thing to look at, body type. For god's sake don't message a girl who says she's not skinny and then tell her you want someone in great shape. Sorry for the rant. I am busy just like the rest of you and the one thing to test my paitence is *** this didn't scare too many people away. We could start out by playing air hockey. It is a wonderful thing to do when first meeting. Laid back, fun, competitive with only a few bruised knuckles. Then we can do dinner or coffee if the conversation is going well. I hate uncomfortable silence so tend to lean towards things that involve some activity. I don't believe the first time you meet someone it is a date. If we are being honest both people are checking the other one out to see if they were the person they thought they were. A first meeting is a potential new friend, a 2nd meeting determines if your still friends or if it's a date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Music Indonesian Irish Korean Adventure Family & Kids Horror
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  • Abbigayle from Clarksville | Woman | 39 years old | Virgo
    Abbigayle

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Only Locals PLEASE..:-)I'm ready to start enjoying lifes many gifts. Ie, friends my children, family, kisses, good fun food, and so on. I would be happy to find a man who enjoys getting to know me as much as I enjoy learning who he is. * :-) * I want someone to spend my free time with and eventually come home to EVERY NIGHT .*The X traveled a ton for the majority of our marriage so I'm not interested in someone who travels and or works nights.. I had Wayyyyy too many nights sleeping alone. Communication is important. I enjoy a nice chat on the phone rather than texting alone, don't get me wrong I love to text. Texting is for when you can't talk. chivalry is not dead, btw.I love a gentlemen with a little bad boy side. Men please have Current photos including some with out your hat and Sun glasses . B-)If you can't upload photos , I probably don't want to know you... ;-)IE!:-X !!! NO photos, NO Reply. *if I dont reply please don't be disappointed , I'm just not interested. I believe ,the bigger the age gap the less we may have in common Ie..

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  • Kath from Clarksville | Woman | 39 years old | Aries
    Kath

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am looking for someone who can make me smile and laugh... This can make any stressful day better. I would like someone who can appreciate the little things in life. I have a hectic schedule so I'm looking for someone who understands this.

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  • Tor from Clarksville | Woman | 40 years old | Pisces
    Tor

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am originally from a small town here in ND. I love going to concerts and to plays. Hopefully I will meet someone that likes to go to concerts with me, but if a guy does not want to go to plays, that is ok, I know that most men are not into going to the theatre. i like to go to comedy shows when they are in town. I also like to play cards, darts, and pool (even though I really suck at pool). I like to go out, but not necessarily every weekend. I joke around alot and can be described as a sarcastic smart-ass. I am also very loyal and kind hearted.I am looking for someone who is honest. I want someone who is fun, yet responsible. Good manners are a must, especially table manners. I like a tall man...since I am 5'10", I prefer a man who is over 6'0". I love a man with strong arms, and my major turn-off is a man with bad teeth. I am not interested in anyone who is not local. Definately something where we can get to know eachother with low pressure. Movies and bowling are not good first dates because you really can't talk and get a feel for the person. Dinner or drinks work well.

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