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Synthia, 40

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About Me

Life is good. It’s really good. There’s just one component missing. The perfect guy. Perfect *for me*, anyway… Perfection in general is boring and overrated. (Handsome, witty, sweet and a gentleman, though? Not overrated.:)Here’s the thing though… A lot of guys’ meetville profiles mention that they want someone who can “keep up” with them, and I am not looking for someone to keep up with or to keep up with me. I have a lot going on already. In addition to working quite a bit, we live in an incredible city; it’s hard not to want to be out exploring it every second of the day! Sporting events, the lakefront, restaurants, bars, museums… I’m looking to meet someone who will give me a reason to slow things down a bit. It would be super to meet someone who also has a great life and who will invite me to be a part of it and support whatever he’s into, but we don't have to share every interest or be out every night of the week together.… Fantastic! I’ll go out for wine night with the girls or stay in and read a book (dare I dream) and we’ll both be happy. But ideally, somewhere in the middle we’ll decide to stay in together and we’ll realize we don’t need to be “out and about” all the time to enjoy life in this city. Looking for a balance.I’m pretty well over the bar scene and 30, 40 and 50-something guys who are re-living college. Unfortunately that’s what my dating pool seems to have dwindled to but I am hopeful and optimistic that there is at least one guy left in the city who has grown up in lifestyle but isn’t afraid of getting a little silly with the right girl.Some additional facts you may or may not find useful:- I ditched my car about a year ago and am loving car-free life, so if you live outside the range of the CTA it could be tricky.-Though I am educated and have built a nice career and lifestyle for myself, I come from a very blue collar background downstate and carry those values with me. I like nice things, but I like great experiences more. - I have a cat.- I can be a bit of a contradiction. I've run with the bulls and jumped out of a perfectly good airplane, but spiders terrify me and I just got a new road bike that I refuse to put clipless pedals on because I'm afraid of falling off.-Bonus clue for those who actually read profiles: *** me must be ***characters or more in order to go through. That's about two standard sentences. If you're the guy, a couple sentences to make a good impression should be no problem.There is a lot more I could say about myself, but wouldn't it be more fun to sort it out over drinks or a walk through the zoo?Excellent. Good talk Russ. Drinks and a board game (Guthries!)? Wine tasting? A walk on the lakefront? The zoo? I'm pretty basic and am easily entertained in the right company. :)p.s. If I favorite you, it's not code for anything. It just means I'm interested but can't *** that particular moment.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Herta

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I would describe myself as a feminine girl with an edge. I love everything about being a woman. High heels, painted nails and long hair. I also dig pony tails, little or no make up and my running shoes.I like being in nature and used to camp a lot but haven't been in years. I also adore nice hotels with room service for fun weekend get-a-ways.I love to read and be inspired. I love the girly stuff too (shopping,pedicures, facials- all that stuff we do)I enjoy a night with my girls to laugh and be silly but enjoy topics that have meaning too. I have been known to dance at hole in the wall bars to really bad cover songs but sometime want to share a bottle of wine at a place with a view or a lounge with a cool vibe. I can rock a pair of $5 flip-flops or a pair of $***heels. I think you get the point. I like to mix it up. Personal: I am honest and loyal. I've been told I'm witty and smart and funny (I really am the funniest person I know) and can be sarcastic in a playful way. I'm independent. I'm self aware. I can laugh at myself. I have self confidence which comes naturally but I'm soft too. I am not afraid to say I'm sorry. Oh and I floss.I'm from the mid-west originally and have been told I'm down to earth. I think that's a fair description of me. Work: I have a really cool job that is challenging and creative.Health/Fitness: I'm in really good shape and I try and hit the gym everyday (except Sunday!). Yoga keeps me balanced, weights keep me strong and running helps me stay on my path. ( literally and mentally) I tend to eat healthy but I don't deprive myself of anything. Moderation.I do love movies and great TV and have the big ol' plasma and Roku to prove it but movie time is my way to unwind at night. (or snuggle with some sweetness, if I had some sweetness- which I don't and I wouldn't be here if I did)I have a current passport and have done some traveling. There's lots more places I want to go and would love to find someone to explore with.** the next part of my profile was written a long time ago and is intended to be funny! As I am recently back on meetville I thought about deleting it as parts of it are no longer relevant. I've decided to keep it as it makes me smile even though it is lost on most and I've gotten a hard time for it in the past. Lighten up, it's only online dating!You: Please have a job. I understand if your in a "transition" and we are in a recession but..c'mon. (maybe it's not the best time to be dating)Please take care of yourself. If you describe yourself as "athletic" but can't see your wiener when looking down at your feet then we probably won't be a good match. If you wear your hat or visor to the side or upside down- keep on clicking tiger. If your way of writing/ typing is: "wuz up 2 all da hotties out der"--then good luck homeyIf you're the type of guy who says "CIAO" *** good bye then adios amigo.If your first note to me is "hey cum over" , "i have a nice lady pleaser" or "you have kissable lips" or "I can make dat booty go clap" then not no but --HELL NO!I tend to be attracted to men taller than me.**If you have pics of your kids in your profile- don't message me. (having kids is no biggie but showing them in profiles is inappropriate in my opinion) thanks! WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.

  • Arla

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Love to dance, cook & bbq & watch sports. Single Mother of 3 they are 19, 17&13. My kids are my life. No more babies for me though. I love a sense of humor & I love to be funny. Public place

  • Coreen

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I am a petite woman who has a good heart. I have never been married and don't have any kids. I am looking for a man who I can settle down with so if you are not ready for a serious relationship and a family of your own please keep it moving. I am not into playing games. I don't like to go to clubs. I have grown out of that. My perfect evening would be laying on a couch in the arms of the man I love. I am definitely low maintenance but I do like it when a man pays attention to me and shows me he cares. I want a man who knows how to treat a woman with the honor and respect she deserves. I like a man who is family oriented, responsible, dependable, romantic, funny and caring. For music I like R&B, Hip Hop, Pop and some Rap and Country.I like sports. My favorite teams are Red Sox and Patriots. I love going to the games. There is something about being at a sporting event within the madness that just brings us all together.I am attracted to Caucasian, African American and Latinos. If you don't have a picture please don't even bother responding. I am getting some *** me if I am interested in younger men. The answer is no because I don't feel a 20 something year old would be ready to settle down. I am looking for someone between the ages of ***.Good luck Fishing! Let's meet up first to see if we want to go on a first date.

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