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Synthia, 40
United States, Indiana, Clarksville

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About Me

Life is good. It’s really good. There’s just one component missing. The perfect guy. Perfect *for me*, anyway… Perfection in general is boring and overrated. (Handsome, witty, sweet and a gentleman, though? Not overrated.:)Here’s the thing though… A lot of guys’ meetville profiles mention that they want someone who can “keep up” with them, and I am not looking for someone to keep up with or to keep up with me. I have a lot going on already. In addition to working quite a bit, we live in an incredible city; it’s hard not to want to be out exploring it every second of the day! Sporting events, the lakefront, restaurants, bars, museums… I’m looking to meet someone who will give me a reason to slow things down a bit. It would be super to meet someone who also has a great life and who will invite me to be a part of it and support whatever he’s into, but we don't have to share every interest or be out every night of the week together.… Fantastic! I’ll go out for wine night with the girls or stay in and read a book (dare I dream) and we’ll both be happy. But ideally, somewhere in the middle we’ll decide to stay in together and we’ll realize we don’t need to be “out and about” all the time to enjoy life in this city. Looking for a balance.I’m pretty well over the bar scene and 30, 40 and 50-something guys who are re-living college. Unfortunately that’s what my dating pool seems to have dwindled to but I am hopeful and optimistic that there is at least one guy left in the city who has grown up in lifestyle but isn’t afraid of getting a little silly with the right girl.Some additional facts you may or may not find useful:- I ditched my car about a year ago and am loving car-free life, so if you live outside the range of the CTA it could be tricky.-Though I am educated and have built a nice career and lifestyle for myself, I come from a very blue collar background downstate and carry those values with me. I like nice things, but I like great experiences more. - I have a cat.- I can be a bit of a contradiction. I've run with the bulls and jumped out of a perfectly good airplane, but spiders terrify me and I just got a new road bike that I refuse to put clipless pedals on because I'm afraid of falling off.-Bonus clue for those who actually read profiles: *** me must be ***characters or more in order to go through. That's about two standard sentences. If you're the guy, a couple sentences to make a good impression should be no problem.There is a lot more I could say about myself, but wouldn't it be more fun to sort it out over drinks or a walk through the zoo?Excellent. Good talk Russ. Drinks and a board game (Guthries!)? Wine tasting? A walk on the lakefront? The zoo? I'm pretty basic and am easily entertained in the right company. :)p.s. If I favorite you, it's not code for anything. It just means I'm interested but can't *** that particular moment.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian British Chinese French Social Networking
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