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Debora, 48

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About Me

I am a ***odd years. I am a workaholic, but would love to meet a nice gentleman with whom to spend the little bit of free time that I do have. I am in my 40s (the upper end of my 40s...sigh....). and am ideally looking to make friends....but if something sparks from that, all the better. Not necessarily looking for "happily ever after" (but not opposed to that, if it happens). I am NOT looking for casual sex or one-night encounters. PLEASE NOTE: sending me messages that contain lewd, obscene or graphic sexual comments will cause me to block you. I work in hospital administration, and also am a writer (I sometimes freelance) and an artist (painter). I enjoy music (classic era rock and roll, classical, jazz, and especially folk), love to cook, though living alone, I don't get a chance to do so very often (pan- Most of what I read tends to be non-fiction, political/editorial types of things (e.g. Tom Friedman, etc.). Not a heavy drinker, though when I let my hair down, I do enjoy a good scotch, a martini or a nice glass of wine. No smoking or illicit drug use. I don't litter and I recycle. I drink WAY too much coffee.Though finding a man to date would be wonderful, I'd also love to make a friend or two. Most of the friends I have no longer live locally at present, so would really enjoy making a few friends locally, if possible.Again I'm absolutely NOT interested in casual sex, one-time encounters, etc. Please excuse my restating this. I just don't want waste anyone else's time -- as well as my own -- so would rather as emphatic about this as I can be. Dinner and/or coffee and dessert, at some smallish venue off the beaten path with candlelight, music (though at low enough a volume to be able to talk and get to know one-another) and a reasonably mellow atmosphere, where they wouldn't mind if we lingered for a couple of extra hours, if we hit it off and were enjoying one-another's company.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Quinn

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    . . But a girl can dream, can't she? LOL Just looking for a good man and he doesn't have to ride a Harley or own a horse.I am a good woman who loves life, but hasn't experienced it to the fullest. Something is missing, or rather someone. I do not know what he looks like, what his voice sounds like or what his touch may feel like: However, I do know that he exists. I have been on this web site since late March and wow what an experience it has been. Had my heart broken, met some very interesting characters, and made a friend. But the One I dream of and pray for still remains only within my heart.I love rides in the country, and long walks in the park or on the beach. I love playing darts, but warning my aim really truly bites. I like pool, but play it even worse than I do darts. LOLLooking for my best friend, a man who makes me laugh, holds my hand when I am sad or happy or afraid of the thunderstorm outside or maybe a scary movie. (Yes, when it comes to scary movies I am a big chicken) A man who is honest, loving and romantic would be cool. Not looking for a perfect man, just a nice down to earth good man.I am looking for one good man to share my life with and to enjoy this world God has made. I need a man who wipes away my tears *** causing them.I love God, Jesus, my family, my children & my country. I am also very old school. Not looking into jumping into anything, just want to take it slow and see where it might lead.A relationship is a two-way street. And I want someone who can respect me and treat me well . . . And I will do the same to the man I am with. I want a man who thinks I am beautiful even when I do not have a stitch of makeup on. So maybe I need a blind man! LOL * Do not let my relationship status scare you off, please. I have been separated for almost a year. Though not legally divorced yet, but soon . . . I am a single woman. So I decided to change my relationship status. Separated means a possibility of getting back together, well there is 0% chance of that! Just being honest and hope you understand.I like snuggling on the sofa watching a movie, and nice slow kisses when I am with the right man. I want us to look into each others eyes and see love and when we touch I want to feel that tingle that shoots throughout our bodies. I want to feel that spark like never before. And a lot of music from the 80's.Also not into the bar scene and that is one reason I am on here. Hard to meet “Mister Right” at Wal- LOL I love my children and when I blinked they grew up on me. Sometimes I wish I never blinked, because *** them looking at me like a super hero, now I have to pretend not to know them in public. LOL And Lord forbid if I try to hold their hands or kiss them. I was a stay at home mom by choice and I enjoyed every moment of it. My daughter was born with many health issues including being deaf. So, I had to be not only her mother, but her nurse and care giver too which is in a way is what all mothers do. I do know some American Sign Language, but since she moved out it is somewhat rusty which she thinks is funny. I adore children, so if you have them that is not an issue with me. I am kind of a big kid myself and I guess I always will be. I also love and respect the elderly and I so miss my grandpa and listening to his stories of WWII.I am a girl who prefers jeans to dresses or my truck to a car, unless it is a 67-I am just me . . . I am different . . . Be my reason to get off this crazy web site for good!Sorry this is a book, but I also wrote books for eight years.* And to think I could have written much more . lol Anywhere we can sit, talk and maybe share a laugh or two. We both will know if there is a spark or not...

  • Opal

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hello... I am hoping to be able to meet some really great people through this sight, but ultimately searching for that "special" friend. **Race/Ethnicity is not a factor. (I find that I get asked that question a lot)HONESTY is the first and foremost quality that I value in an individual. Loyalty, Integrity, and having a sense of family are also among the list of “gotta haves”... I am a playful ~cat~;fun" thing, so you must be some what playful yourself. I like to do silly and romantic things that will make you smile, shake your head or laugh outloud. I also appreciate giving and receiving little "reminders" of affection. (ie.. a note, a flower picked along the roadside, etc...)I have been told that I have a great sense of humor. I must admit, I love to share laughter with friends and family. I do also have a more serious side. I am a single parent and I work full time. While my schedule is a busy one, I would still love to have a special relationship with the right person.I am not a size 3 and also not a BBW. I am plus size woman, one of my male friends says I should say I'm "thick", he seems to think there is a difference. *lol* I just don't know, none of it sounds very flattering. I'm just me... My eyes are gray/blue and my hair is really long and brown with white/silver that frames my face. I am 5'10" tall, so I am more drawn to men that are 5'11" to 7'0" range.Let me see... what am I looking for? The givens: Honesty, Loyalty, sense of commitment to family and friends. I love to be hugged and held close... so you must be a squeezy kinda' guy. I want someone who will not shy away from mild to moderate (or more...) displays of affection out in public. I like to walk and hold hands, give that little kiss while standing on the docks at sunset etc...My interests:My children, Riding the open road, Photography & Digital Imagery, Reading and I love being at the beach. I don't really watch much tv., but enjoy a movie once in awhile.My Ideal Person: Someone that is emotionally strong and kind hearted, genuine, independant and loves to share laughter. I want to be able to share my wildest fantasies, my deepest desires and my life goals with someone. I want him to be my best friend and lover. I would like someone that I can call up if I am at work/away just to say, "Hey... guess what just happened" or "Hi... I miss you", and be the one to get the same kind of calls... I want butterflies when I think about "him", I want us to look forward to us being together if we are apart, but not have to be together ***in order to feel like a couple. I tend to do things on the spur of the moment... I have a rather odd schedule at times, so I just do things when the mood strikes. I probably wouldn't fit in well with someone who has to have advanced "plans" for everything... sorry, just the way it is.PS... I HAVE TATOO'S ETC.. IF THAT IS NOT YOUR "THING", THAT'S OK, I UNDERSTAND IT'S NOT FOR EVERYONE... but they are here to stay.Anyway, before I write a book... I'm signing off. If you are interested, feel free to get in touch. Best of luck to you all in your searches... I think it's always most important to meet other's with no preconceived notion of how the meeting has to "end up". Something "light" in an environment where conversation can happen easily.

  • Earlie

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Looking to date a nice man and see where it goes. I'm an independent woman who has her own home, car and a secure job. I keep busy kayaking in the summer! Nothing better then the peace found paddling through Peche Island. Volunteer my spare time on causes close to my heart. I try and live each day to the fullest and sometime exhaust myself in the process..lolol LOVE live music and try to see as many concerts as I can! Please have a photo to share when making contact. Thanks.Life would be boring if we were all the same..... Love the differences in people...you will learn something from each of them.Stay in touch with those you love and who love you.....the love feeds your soul.People remember how you make them feel.....bring joy to people on purpose.Try to always see the positive side of things......negativity will age you.Me. Not into drinking coffee so meeting at the River somewhere would be great!!

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