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United States, Illinois, Carlinville

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Hello... I am hoping to be able to meet some really great people through this sight, but ultimately searching for that "special" friend. **Race/Ethnicity is not a factor. (I find that I get asked that question a lot)HONESTY is the first and foremost quality that I value in an individual. Loyalty, Integrity, and having a sense of family are also among the list of “gotta haves”... I am a playful ~cat~;fun" thing, so you must be some what playful yourself. I like to do silly and romantic things that will make you smile, shake your head or laugh outloud. I also appreciate giving and receiving little "reminders" of affection. (ie.. a note, a flower picked along the roadside, etc...)I have been told that I have a great sense of humor. I must admit, I love to share laughter with friends and family. I do also have a more serious side. I am a single parent and I work full time. While my schedule is a busy one, I would still love to have a special relationship with the right person.I am not a size 3 and also not a BBW. I am plus size woman, one of my male friends says I should say I'm "thick", he seems to think there is a difference. *lol* I just don't know, none of it sounds very flattering. I'm just me... My eyes are gray/blue and my hair is really long and brown with white/silver that frames my face. I am 5'10" tall, so I am more drawn to men that are 5'11" to 7'0" range.Let me see... what am I looking for? The givens: Honesty, Loyalty, sense of commitment to family and friends. I love to be hugged and held close... so you must be a squeezy kinda' guy. I want someone who will not shy away from mild to moderate (or more...) displays of affection out in public. I like to walk and hold hands, give that little kiss while standing on the docks at sunset etc...My interests:My children, Riding the open road, Photography & Digital Imagery, Reading and I love being at the beach. I don't really watch much tv., but enjoy a movie once in awhile.My Ideal Person: Someone that is emotionally strong and kind hearted, genuine, independant and loves to share laughter. I want to be able to share my wildest fantasies, my deepest desires and my life goals with someone. I want him to be my best friend and lover. I would like someone that I can call up if I am at work/away just to say, "Hey... guess what just happened" or "Hi... I miss you", and be the one to get the same kind of calls... I want butterflies when I think about "him", I want us to look forward to us being together if we are apart, but not have to be together ***in order to feel like a couple. I tend to do things on the spur of the moment... I have a rather odd schedule at times, so I just do things when the mood strikes. I probably wouldn't fit in well with someone who has to have advanced "plans" for everything... sorry, just the way it is.PS... I HAVE TATOO'S ETC.. IF THAT IS NOT YOUR "THING", THAT'S OK, I UNDERSTAND IT'S NOT FOR EVERYONE... but they are here to stay.Anyway, before I write a book... I'm signing off. If you are interested, feel free to get in touch. Best of luck to you all in your searches... I think it's always most important to meet other's with no preconceived notion of how the meeting has to "end up". Something "light" in an environment where conversation can happen easily.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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