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Neoma, 41

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About Me

Let's see...I guess I'm the average norm that is looking for her life's companion, buddy, lover all rolled into one. I'm not here ( or anywhere-lol) to play games or serial date just for the heck of it. I am a very committed, loyal, treat-you-as-a-king mate. If you are not comfortable with hugs and kisses, passion, laughter, adventures together as easily as snuggling on the sofa with a movie, probably best to move on. I love animals (ask me about "kill a Prius, save a cat!" LOL); have dogs and ponies (sea horses that is). I enjoy a very wide array of activities and music. Have you ever seen a meteor shower at 4am? Amazing! Make me laugh, have quirky conversations with me as well as intelligent ones...lay snuggled up saying nothing at all which speaks volumes. My 17 year old son is my light and love. But as many of you know, that means independence-one foot in and one foot out the door. Hense my ability & desire to find my mate to enjoy the middle and older years of life together. I'm sensitive, caring, heart of gold, heart on my sleeve....but don't take me for granted or disrespect me. Don't lie...if I ask and an outfit isn't flattering, then say so. (Nope, not kidding-honesty is huge with me.) Oh and no, you won't get passively-aggressively punished for it later. LoL COMMUNICATION COMMUNICATION COMMUNICATION...get the point? I want the right man, not just any man...My mate will be cherished, pampered (like massages?) and loved as unconditionally as humanly possible . My mate will show me his love...kisses and hugs, be a rock of support in good times and more so the not too good times. He will understand the huge thing called commitment. He will challenge me. He will enjoy intimacy---regularly (not just in the beginning). He will accept me as a package deal...son, dogs, ponies... I'm rambling...but that would be ok too with the right man. Surprise me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Airlia

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm an independent woman in search of an independent man. Life gets busy at times, I can and will make time for that someone special but I'm very turned off by a man who's clingy and demands attention all the time. I have a great job and I can take care of myself financially just fine, so I'm not looking for a sugar daddy. I get asked so many times "why are you single?" Answer is because I'm very selective! I know what I want in life and I'm patient enough to wait for it. St.;Mr. Right" I might venture his way. For all those who think I'm too far away right now to get to know, when I do move and if I'm still on this site ( Goodness I hope not! ) you didn't want to take a chance now and I definitely won't want to take the chance then. How does the little saying go? It's your LOSS! Good luck in your search, may you all find the hand you were meant to hold forever..!

  • Suzanna

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm gonna lay it out there on the table... I'm tired of being single , I thought it was for me, and I did just fine for about 4 years. But I realize that I am truly missing a part of my life that IS actually important to me. I am looking to have a serious relationship. Progressing to marriage. I want my dream guy... Professing his love and loyalty to me, forever . Yup, I want it. I'm not afraid to say it. Well, that or really good seats at Consol for a Pens game..... I'm not super model material, I'm pretty simple. I Have posted a pic , full body shot, as some people requested before they decide whether or not to talk any further to me. Which I feel insulted to have to post, but I digress. I'm about 5'2" (depending which citgo I leave) I have red curly hair,that I do, on occasion straighten, and blue eyes. I pride myself on being able to hold a intellectual conversation. I clean up decent.If you feel compelled to open a conversation with "hey babe, nice pics" I will just say "thank you" now and have a good day. UPDATE: dear God, why can't everyone read my profile. I still get"you're hott, beautiful eyes, hey sexy mama" really dudes? Come on... I'm not 20, I don't think those opening lines are "cool" anymore....geesh! I feel like there are a lot of people up here who are just playing games. If that's the case, please go to your apps store and download something .I want to find a decent, clean, honest man who isn't looking for a friend with benefits , or sex within the first 10 dates ( yes I said 10, lol) and please don't assume on date 11 I'm going to show up in lingerie,lol. I figured I would try this site before I start collecting cats and getting a reputation around town for being the crazy old cat lady. I am trying to be honest about what I'm looking for, I figure if some guys can post " no fat chicks" I think posting My little list of mood killers wouldn't ruffle too many feathers, lol lets try coffee, that way you and I can meet, you determine I'm not clingy and needy, and I'll survey whether or not you are potential serial killer material. LoL.

  • Karie

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    "I've done a fair share of stupid things in my life, a couple of which should have put me in the grave. But here I am, typing away as if I had a brain......"***I am not what you are looking for. I am impatient, impulsive, and at times totally selfish. I can't balance my check book, I only clean when company is coming, and my idea of laundry day is buying more socks and underpants. Some parts I enjoyed, others I just survived. The best I can say, is that I don't know anything, but I have had a really good time, so far! The date where you don't look at your watch, you don't need to drink to be social, that one where times flies, and you leave wanting to talk more, know more, and you spend the next day with a smile on your face.

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