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Neoma, 41
United States, Illinois, Benton

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About Me

Let's see...I guess I'm the average norm that is looking for her life's companion, buddy, lover all rolled into one. I'm not here ( or anywhere-lol) to play games or serial date just for the heck of it. I am a very committed, loyal, treat-you-as-a-king mate. If you are not comfortable with hugs and kisses, passion, laughter, adventures together as easily as snuggling on the sofa with a movie, probably best to move on. I love animals (ask me about "kill a Prius, save a cat!" LOL); have dogs and ponies (sea horses that is). I enjoy a very wide array of activities and music. Have you ever seen a meteor shower at 4am? Amazing! Make me laugh, have quirky conversations with me as well as intelligent ones...lay snuggled up saying nothing at all which speaks volumes. My 17 year old son is my light and love. But as many of you know, that means independence-one foot in and one foot out the door. Hense my ability & desire to find my mate to enjoy the middle and older years of life together. I'm sensitive, caring, heart of gold, heart on my sleeve....but don't take me for granted or disrespect me. Don't lie...if I ask and an outfit isn't flattering, then say so. (Nope, not kidding-honesty is huge with me.) Oh and no, you won't get passively-aggressively punished for it later. LoL COMMUNICATION COMMUNICATION COMMUNICATION...get the point? I want the right man, not just any man...My mate will be cherished, pampered (like massages?) and loved as unconditionally as humanly possible . My mate will show me his love...kisses and hugs, be a rock of support in good times and more so the not too good times. He will understand the huge thing called commitment. He will challenge me. He will enjoy intimacy---regularly (not just in the beginning). He will accept me as a package deal...son, dogs, ponies... I'm rambling...but that would be ok too with the right man. Surprise me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Dance Indonesian Italian Portuguese Turkish Vietnamese Animation Horror Music Cricket Shooting Sports
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