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Neoma, 41

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About Me

Let's see...I guess I'm the average norm that is looking for her life's companion, buddy, lover all rolled into one. I'm not here ( or anywhere-lol) to play games or serial date just for the heck of it. I am a very committed, loyal, treat-you-as-a-king mate. If you are not comfortable with hugs and kisses, passion, laughter, adventures together as easily as snuggling on the sofa with a movie, probably best to move on. I love animals (ask me about "kill a Prius, save a cat!" LOL); have dogs and ponies (sea horses that is). I enjoy a very wide array of activities and music. Have you ever seen a meteor shower at 4am? Amazing! Make me laugh, have quirky conversations with me as well as intelligent ones...lay snuggled up saying nothing at all which speaks volumes. My 17 year old son is my light and love. But as many of you know, that means independence-one foot in and one foot out the door. Hense my ability & desire to find my mate to enjoy the middle and older years of life together. I'm sensitive, caring, heart of gold, heart on my sleeve....but don't take me for granted or disrespect me. Don't lie...if I ask and an outfit isn't flattering, then say so. (Nope, not kidding-honesty is huge with me.) Oh and no, you won't get passively-aggressively punished for it later. LoL COMMUNICATION COMMUNICATION COMMUNICATION...get the point? I want the right man, not just any man...My mate will be cherished, pampered (like massages?) and loved as unconditionally as humanly possible . My mate will show me his love...kisses and hugs, be a rock of support in good times and more so the not too good times. He will understand the huge thing called commitment. He will challenge me. He will enjoy intimacy---regularly (not just in the beginning). He will accept me as a package deal...son, dogs, ponies... I'm rambling...but that would be ok too with the right man. Surprise me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a B33BW so if you are not into them....please move on. I have four girls and a grandson that are my life. I am looking for a relationship,and someone to date and hang out with at first and see where that leads us. I have a great sense of humor and I am sarcastic and say whats on my mind. I work and go to school, so I'm pretty busy but I can find time to spend with someone and hang out. I like to text and talk on the phone but most of the time its easier for me to text. I like a variety of music and I like to dance. I like to play cards, watch movies, and hang out with friends. I have been told that I'm loud, funny, and usually the life of the party. I want someone who I can be myself around and they can be themselves. If your into drugs or drink more than once a week, move on...thats not the lifestyle that I want for myself or my kids. I have kids so therefore, I want a relationship with someone thats wants a family and everything that intails. If you dont think you want this, eventually, in your life, then we can be friends and chat but please tell me from the start so there are no expectations of anything. And lastly, if you only want sex, move on. Sex is a gr a relationship but if that was all i was looking for, I could go to a different web site or to a bar and get that. Making out and cuddling is great, but dont expect to have sex with me on the first date. If you are interested and want to chat, text me and maybe ill show you my pic.....***My ideal first date would be what the man decided, once he got to know me a lil first. I like for him to be creative and decide where to go and what to do. I want to be able to get to know them better and hang out.

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