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Suzanna, 45
United States, Illinois, Benton

Offline, last seen Thu, 19 Feb 2026 14:14:59

About Me

I'm gonna lay it out there on the table... I'm tired of being single , I thought it was for me, and I did just fine for about 4 years. But I realize that I am truly missing a part of my life that IS actually important to me. I am looking to have a serious relationship. Progressing to marriage. I want my dream guy... Professing his love and loyalty to me, forever . Yup, I want it. I'm not afraid to say it. Well, that or really good seats at Consol for a Pens game..... I'm not super model material, I'm pretty simple. I Have posted a pic , full body shot, as some people requested before they decide whether or not to talk any further to me. Which I feel insulted to have to post, but I digress. I'm about 5'2" (depending which citgo I leave) I have red curly hair,that I do, on occasion straighten, and blue eyes. I pride myself on being able to hold a intellectual conversation. I clean up decent.If you feel compelled to open a conversation with "hey babe, nice pics" I will just say "thank you" now and have a good day. UPDATE: dear God, why can't everyone read my profile. I still get"you're hott, beautiful eyes, hey sexy mama" really dudes? Come on... I'm not 20, I don't think those opening lines are "cool" anymore....geesh! I feel like there are a lot of people up here who are just playing games. If that's the case, please go to your apps store and download something .I want to find a decent, clean, honest man who isn't looking for a friend with benefits , or sex within the first 10 dates ( yes I said 10, lol) and please don't assume on date 11 I'm going to show up in lingerie,lol. I figured I would try this site before I start collecting cats and getting a reputation around town for being the crazy old cat lady. I am trying to be honest about what I'm looking for, I figure if some guys can post " no fat chicks" I think posting My little list of mood killers wouldn't ruffle too many feathers, lol lets try coffee, that way you and I can meet, you determine I'm not clingy and needy, and I'll survey whether or not you are potential serial killer material. LoL.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Jazz Metal Salsa Documentary Bowling
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