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Yolande, 41
United States, Illinois, Benton

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About Me

I am a fun loving woman who loves to live the family life. Cooking, hanging outside, picnics and anything to spend time together. Likes to go out occasinally but not every weekend. Need a man who is honest, grown up and wants a partner to spend time with and make goals and plans together. I still like to spend time w my daughter to so if u mind the kids then I'm not the one for u I get tired of guys on here saying they don't mind kids or love kids and the first thing they do is try to plan a drinking adventure for a one night stand. I'm not that kinda woman so if that's what your looking for move on. My ideal first date would be a picnic outside if weather permits or dinner and maybe a walk around some place where u have the ability to talk and ask questions about each other and just get to know each other. I dont believe you can have feeling for someone until you meet them I believe you have to become friends with someone before you can ever consider a realationship.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jinny from Benton | Woman | 45 years old | Capricorn
    Jinny

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    **REVISED**Completing the profile is quite a task. I've been asked what I am looking for. I can tell you I have no agenda. I'm not searching for a serious relationship. I think relationships are something that develop. If you click you know it. If something wonderful develops then a relationship is certainly not something I am opposed to. But at present I do not have a game plan. I am not on a mission to meet Mr.Right. While I appreciate the numerous messages please understand I am not interested in dating young men and while I respect peoples individual choices I am not interested in inter-racial dating. I'm a professional who works hard through the week and on the weekend I like to have fun or other times I like to unwind and relax. I enjoy cooking, live music, movies, new adventures. Enjoy live sporting events from time to time. And I love going out on a boat. Maybe that is the native Floridian in me. I have some wonderful friends and consider myself to be very fortunate. I like spending time with people who are positive and fun to be around. Bonus points for making me laugh. Who doesn't enjoy laughing?I am a curvey lady but I believe that's ok. I don't think I have to be skinny to be attractive but I do think its best to be in the healthy weight range. I am more attracted to big guys. Tall is great since I am 5'10" and I like some meat on the bones. Being attracted to you is the first step. But looks are second to personality and stability. I like the total package, someone who can laugh and cut up but be serious when the time is right.My adventurous past activities include sky diving, bungee jumping, zip lining and riding my own Harley for five years. Now I am not quite that bold these days but I don't want to just sit on the couch. Fun is important to me. You only go around once and I want to continue to make great memories.Good luck to all. I hope you find what you are looking for. Ah.... the first date. Simple, no big pressure or expectations is best. Meet for a drink or a meal. Truth is nobody knows if there will be chemistry until you meet. I think its best to have a short first date. If sparks fly make more plans. If nothing happens that's ok too. Just politely move on.

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  • Hayley from Benton | Woman | 44 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a non traditional student or so thats what they call me..but I am really just someone who was called to school a little later in life. Living out my dreams,, daring to dream big and work everyday to make those dreams come true. My goals are to in the next couple of years achive my degree in Elemmntry Education, with minors in psychology as well as spanish. I am just looking for someone to spend a little time with get to be friends and share a movie or whatever sounds like fun at the time. I am pretty diverse in my musical taste, anything from lip bizkit to andre bocelli. Always open to try new things. The more one puts themselves out there the better off they are in the end. First dates I think should be a little on the traditional side. Dinner, movies, coffee... but am open to just about anything fun.

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  • Amari from Benton | Woman | 43 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Love life, family, & friends and strive to enjoy every moment, every opportunity life has to offer. Honesty is important to me. People say I'm a strong person but I think it would really be nice to have that one special person I could share all my hopes, dreams, fears with and he still love me for all that I am. Hate the whole dating thing it's like an interview, let's just find something to do we both enjoy and get to know each other. Looking for someone that would enjoy working together, playing together, family time, caring, sharing, respect, honesty, understanding, big hearted, and NOT AFRAID OF COMMITMENT. Don't get me wrong I know nobody is perfect but have goals, know what you want, and find your dream!If your interested send me a message. Dinner and some place intresting to enjoy sights and common intrests. GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER. I treat others with respect and expect to be treated ths same.

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