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Vega, 50

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About Me

Hi, I am ready for a good friend, to start, been widowed at a young age and I need someone who also needs someone. A man who cares and will shower me with love and companionship, I am not after money or gifts, I am not the kind looking for gold, I just want someone by my side, someone to take long walks with to keep me from getting fat, hahahahahahahahahaOk that was fun.Seriously tho, no nightly beer drinkers or constant pot smokers, I just wanna have some real, down to earth, fun and maybe retire early with a guy who wants and is building for the very same thing. So if you found yourself on my short list (Favorites list) you should contact me if you are not going to consider me your second girlfriend after your substances use.Old rock mostly but I do like some of the newer stuff, not that gang rappy crap but ya know,,, Linkin Park is cool.What makes me unique? I really dont know, depends on your view. I am ugly on the out side as you can see but fairly good looking on the inside,,,,,, tee hee hee.Goals, to die knowing I did something to help othersI have real blond hair and blue eyes and my own teeth too!Edited to add, if you are looking for quick fun or one nights stands I am not for you. I can get that at the bar down the road from my house. I have a great job and am serious about it and am working to save for early retirement, if you are all about doing the same we could be a good match.Is the glass half empty or is it half full? Actually it is always full even if You think it's empty as long as there is enough air to fill it, Ha!Ok, some of you say Just dating in your profile, dont be offended if I say I am not interested, my profile says different and it shouldnt be a surprise later. I dont want to date someone who is dating others too or just wants short stints with many. I am looking for my last first kiss when that right one works out that way. It is my goal to find my true love, my everything, my forever man.Met a few good men, some of a long distance, hard to do long term, one who asked if I would keep contact and I said yes and did text him and heard back once and ya, things might have changed for him, its understandable, so many choices here. Some where we didnt click,,, happens, its all good. BUT,,,,There are too many darkened pics, dont you want me to see who I am going to meet? My pics are recent, all me with no make up, (it takes me 10 mins to get ready to go out, seriously), faded or washed out shots. Nothing to hide. Only ever, has one said he does drugs in his profile, this isnt possible. Its ok for many so be honest. Who wants surprises later. Why ruin what could be a wonderful thing between two who could truely have had the same interests and habits? I am not into substance abuse people. You burn your retirement your way and I will build mine my way. I also dont want to be the other girlfriend if you know what I mean,,, your drugs first then me. If you live three or four hours away dont be thinkin I am gonna travel to you, it aint gonna happen unless you look like a young Tom Selleck and you smell like money, hahaha.There, said it and am sticking to it. What?!?! I sound like a jerk? No, just being honest and reasonable and respecting your space too. Hope that goes over well for us all.;) Our first date would be a coffee, some chat and maybe a walk. Dont try to wine and dine me, I am an easy going kind who enjoys a simple setting like looking at a lake with a big jug of cold water or a huge travel mug of coffee and a hug. Really.Then,,,,Call me back if it was fun for you and you like lots about me.Please contact me only if you have recent pics. Kinda spooky yaking with no idea who's on the other end. Besides if we meet and you look like your picture's daddy we're gonna be in a terribly awkward place together. Be real, show yourself so the one who really loves you for who you appear to be can find you.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

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    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

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