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Ellamae, 49

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About Me

Its.....always......something,........my next tattoo.yes ...MY LOVE LIFE SUX.BUT MY LIFE DOESNT.GO FIGURE.........I REALLY NEED MY 'PICKER REPAIRED ...LOL.( U KNOW...MAN PICKER) COZ THE ONES I PICK R ALWAYS A BAD CHOICE.I can't figure out for the life of me why it is that it has taken 49 years to realize that ' men ' like to take long walks on the beach. Or to take long walks at all for that matter. And the holding hands part really has me throwed off for sure.(go read some of the men's profiles on here) I really do believe my mema was right in saying that when your true love comes around....it comes once. And she was very serious when she said.SO DONT SCREW IT UP!!! OR U JUST MIGHT SPEND THE REST OF YOUR DAYS A LONELY WOMAN. I've been divorced now for 28 years.....holy cow!!! And I keep telling myself she had to be wrong! !!!???? She was a very wise woman.and I miss her terribly. I know if she were here today she would have plenty of facts ( meetville ) to say about this online dating ...... But the fact of the matter is I don't think I screwed up my one true love. He's still out there. And our paths just haven't crossed yet. BEING INFATUATED WITH SOMEONE OCEANS APART (FOR 8 YEARS) IS NOT HIM!!!U JUST CANT SWIM THAT FAR!!! However, his friendship has kept me from sinking!( thank u Manny) OK. So u want to know what I like n a man? Hmmmm. I like a man who's romantic.Spontaneous. Likes to dance.He needs to b funny. And not lazy.He can be a tiny bit jealous, but not overly. Must have a job.He CANNOT be mean.EVER. Easy on the eyes is a big plus.He must love sex.(!!!)AND THAT DOES NOT MEAN U CAN STOP READING HERE AND SEND ME A MESSAGE!! He cannot be stuck on himself.He has to be my friend as well as my lover. He must be affectionate.He must always protect me.Be on my sideAnd always have my back.He cannot be ADHD, BP, or OCD.He can't have IBS,BO,BB or be full of BS.so.....if your out there.... I'm waiting. Patiently.Just know, that I need some TLC.... ASAP......THE END. A.K.S...but a nice lunch or dinner to chat and see if sparks are gonna fly will do i suppose.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Fabiola

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Passionately-unique individual born in the land of "the 300". I am thankful for the cultural exposure that truly broadened and enhanced my perspective on humanity and ability to define "true beauty! I was transplanted in the USA by the Air Force at the tender age of 11.I am very comfortable in my own skin, energetic at times but laid back when it's time to relax. Give me two-way meaningful conversations, sweet mellow wine, good food, good company and I'll lose track of time! Balance is very important to me: being at peace with myself and in harmony with life, physical fitness, religion, and my career. I have two sons (both grown and out of the house) that were raised with old fashion morals, values and were taught respect. Despite of being very busy, I make it a point to find the time for doing the things I like and spending the time with people who I care about. I disapprove of joining cults and cover bands. I discourage overindulgence and under-stimulation. I encourage playing with children and learning a second language. I am learning that life without a personal relationship with God/Jesus is a life without ultimate significance, value or purpose.“Now you know what I offer, here’s what I would like in the man of my dreams and hopefully the rest of my life.”I’d like a simple friendship to start out with (slow, easy, comfortable) because friends see the real you, flaws and all without being clouded by emotions, hopes, desires and lust. Then if it moves further I hope we have a more solid base.With that being said, I like a man who knows God and has intelligence, humor and wit, spunk, self-confidence (not narcissism), resilience, strength of character, a willingness to learn and be taught (humility). Someone that has been through trials in life and pushed through it. I think video games are retarded – I raised my two boys to be cut up and bruised from climbing trees and riding bikes, not fat & sassy in front of the TV being conditioned for army drone piloting. That goes for my partner as well. No, funky facial hair styles, high maintenance egos, military men/law enforcement (an exception applies to a man with strength of character regardless of his occupation), and guys who spend most of their free time at a gym. I am looking for a man that I am "equally yoked" with. Please be local, fit, and have a posted picture. If you are under 5’11”, younger than 42 and older than ***Current photos only and please have a picture WITHOUT your sunglasses....eyes are a window to the soul and the main feature in a man!Finally, my top reasons why I would be your best girlfriend:You will be proud to have me on your arm when we go out in public and your friends will probably be envious.You will never compete with me.You will be nicely surprised when I kiss you passionately at unexpected times and in unexpected places.You will never see me roll my eyes at you when you say something because I will respect you.You see my smile far more often than my frown.You will find yourself thinking seriously about my observations on life and current events. andYou won’t be holding my purse at the shoe store. You won’t even BE at the shoe store with me. Nice and relaxing atmosphere so we can get-to-know each other, learn who we are, where we've been and where we are headed to = we must be able to have a two way meaningful conversation.....talking on your phone or texting on the first date is a big turn off for me!

  • Johnnie

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Ok, a little about me...Note: The photos were taken 10 years apart. One at 37, one very recent at 47. Little joke about aging... I'm medically average...more to the athletic side, in great shape.I'm not going to go on about moonlit walks, watching sunsets, candlelit dinners, etc. The company is more important to me than the setting. I'm not a gushy person though I certainly can let a guy know I'm into him and I do have quite a soft side.I enjoy good conversation with someone who is open-minded and intelligent. My friends call me the calm voice of logic and reason with a bit of feisty thrown in. I'm a calm rational thinker and value good communication. Confident, but a bit shy.I am very much a summer girl. Love the sun, beach, outdoors, riding, backyard get-togethers with good friends, fire on the beach, swimming by moonlight.I don't do drugs myself. Since it's your mind, first and foremost, that will attract me or not, please don't contact me if yours is fried to a crisp.What I'm hoping to find is something casual but exclusive. Something safe, stress-free, and no drama. A companion, friend and lover. If it leads to more, so be it, but let's not push it.A good healthy sex life is important to me, but don't get the wrong idea... That doesn't mean going out and boinking the willing at every opportunity. There must be a great connection and genuine affection otherwise the other fun "stuff" is out of the question. ;)If you're not interested in long term, I'm not the girl for you.I have no tattoos and only my ears are pierced.Ok, a little about you...You are not covered in tattooooos up to your forehead. Some are fine (on you, not me).I look after myself and I think you should too. If you don't appear to care much about yourself, chances are I won't care about you either ...so look and smell as though you care about yourself.You aren't a couch potato who spends his days wearing sweats and a wife-beater, sucking back beers in front of the TV, and burping "bow-wow"s. No no no! You are a fun guy with manners, brains, and wit!You have a sense of ha ha. Witty funny is good. Class clown or lampshade funny is not. Drinking straws or pencils up your nose will not amuse me.I have hobbies and interests and so do you, right?I'm an Artist/Illustrator, I play bass (badly imo) I love a good book (please, no romance novels) and movies. I'm a girlie girl, but I'm not into "chick flicks". Going to a pub for a few drinks, food, and laughs with friends is ok, but I'm not into the club scene. I don't drink much at all, but I will have a couple in a social setting. I'm not into guys who drink a lot.Dinner out or dinner in... depends on my mood. There is something sexy about a guy who will get in the kitchen with you and cook a nice meal. If you can't cook, you can still be helpful. - "Here. squeeze these. Feel fresh?"I'm into healthy eating. I don't eat meat often, but I don't care if you do. Yes, I'll cook it for you and have some too, but if you want it BBQed, you will have to operate it since I'm not great with one. It has flames and you're supposed to hover over it dressed in a "Kiss the Cook" apron and be wielding a big fork thingy. That's the extent of my BBQ knowledge.I'm not going to want to go base jumping or leap out of airplanes with you, but I'm certainly not a couch potato either. I'm usually up for something that I'll have at least a ***chance of surviving.Wanna put a smile on my face? Take me out riding.

  • Chantal

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am a redheaded, only child, raised as a daddy's girl. My clothing is chosen for comfort and class rather than style and fad. I love the outdoors, don't swim in cold water, and can bait my own hook when fishing. I am not like most women, I am not about the flashy jewelry, pretty much a no frills type of gal. I hate to shop. I can hold an intelligent conversation about most anything. Hoping to move up there eventually. I have fun in most everything I do and I can take care of myself. I miss the feel of an arm around my waist, laughing with someone over an inside joke. The warm feeling you get when your eyes meet with someone else's across the room and it feels like you have just been hugged. I miss finishing the sentence of the person I am with because we both were thinking the same thing. I miss having breakfast at 3am with someone because neither of us could sleep. I miss having a noon brunch because i was up all night having a great time and had to sleep in late. So, again, what am I looking for? A very patient man. Someone who will talk because he knows I listen, and listen because he cares that I am talking. Someone who can forget all about what he is used to because I feel I am like no other woman. I don't play "head games" what ever those are. I want someone who will get up and dance with me at home and not be embarrassed with just us in the room. Just let loose a bit and have a little fun. Coffee date. Nothing like a good cup of coffee with great conversation!

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