Total users: 60,486,922 Online users: 218,041
Bessy, 50

Offline, last seen Sat, 20 Dec 2025 09:53:28

About Me

I'm a one man woman but I'm relatively new to this searching for a mate thing so I'd like to play it by ear - so to speak. I'm a bit shy at first but not for long.I am fit and healthy and I live an active life. I enjoy live theatre and music, the arts in general. I love to read, dance, travel, have no time for TV but do enjoy movies. Zumba classes in the mornings are my recent favourites - can't resist the beat and the energy! I prefer classical music to all other music but enjoy just about anything as long as it's not heavy metal, country or rap. I would love to meet a man with an adventurous spirit, a compassionate heart and an intelligent and inquiring mind. My ideal mate would be fit, happy with his work, financially and emotionally secure and, of course, be sensual. In short, I'm looking for a grown-up man who can still have fun. I love my work, I've created myself a job and I work hard. I will most likely morph once or perhaps twice or three times again into something else before I finish my working life; life seems to me to be full of potential and possibilities. I'm positive and passionate about the things and people I love. I'm not interested in lengthy arguments or debates - I don't need to be right all the time and I know there are as many ways to see the world as there are people on the planet. I would hope you feel the same way. I try my very best to live in a way that is environmentally sustainable and humane. I'm usually willing to try just about anything new with the exception of bungee jumping - that just seems silly.I am a loyal friend and I take good care of the people I love.There, how's that? Well, a first date. I think a coffee or tea out somewhere with the possibility of a walk would be best. Beyond that intuition will be my guide. I have to say that the thought of meeting a complete stranger in a Starbucks makes me want to run screaming but, I'm not sure what the options would be....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Virgil

    Offline

    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a respectful, fun, interesting, kind, smart, sexy, savvy lady. I love most sports. I love all that life has to offer- Looking for a special partner to share it all with - Want a man who loves children - Not a serial dater. My goal is to meet that one special person and see what happens without dating others at the same time. I am a one man woman who does not play games. Looking for the love of my life not simply to date just because it is fun. I want a real and meaningful relationship. If you do, let me know... Coffee - dinner - lunch - bike ride - rollerskating - a walk in the park -

  • Raye

    Offline

    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I'd describe myself as a patient & kind person, as would my life long friends. I'm active, enjoy outdoors (summer & winter; hike, bike, ski) .. young at heart. Laugh a lot .. pretty simple yet classy women, independent and hard working. Without a doubt, my glass is half full. A true optimist. I've been blessed with so many special people in my life .. enjoy being a Mom to two great older children. Hope to someday find my best friend for life .. someone who is honest, kind .. genuine .. a man of faith with a unique and special heart. I hope someday to meet that man who cares enough about himself to make his health and well being (mind, body & soul) a life priority. coffe - conversation -

  • Norah

    Offline

    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am a fun loving mom with two beautiful grown daughters, I like going out and having fun, I am very easy going and always up for anything, tubing down the river is one of my favorite Sunday afternoon events. I like dancing and hanging out with friends. I am very into arts and crafts, I like sewing, painting and decorating. I own a cleaning service. I have a great personality and great family, i am loving, caring, and outgoing. I like all kinds of music except hard rock, my favorite song of all time is Tim McGraw, Don't take the girl. If I could plan a first date it would start off with Dinner at one of my favorite restaurants and engage in great conversation, i am light-hearted and love laughing and joking around, then heading over to a comedy club or movie where we could share more laughs.

Follow Us: