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Bessy, 50

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About Me

I'm a one man woman but I'm relatively new to this searching for a mate thing so I'd like to play it by ear - so to speak. I'm a bit shy at first but not for long.I am fit and healthy and I live an active life. I enjoy live theatre and music, the arts in general. I love to read, dance, travel, have no time for TV but do enjoy movies. Zumba classes in the mornings are my recent favourites - can't resist the beat and the energy! I prefer classical music to all other music but enjoy just about anything as long as it's not heavy metal, country or rap. I would love to meet a man with an adventurous spirit, a compassionate heart and an intelligent and inquiring mind. My ideal mate would be fit, happy with his work, financially and emotionally secure and, of course, be sensual. In short, I'm looking for a grown-up man who can still have fun. I love my work, I've created myself a job and I work hard. I will most likely morph once or perhaps twice or three times again into something else before I finish my working life; life seems to me to be full of potential and possibilities. I'm positive and passionate about the things and people I love. I'm not interested in lengthy arguments or debates - I don't need to be right all the time and I know there are as many ways to see the world as there are people on the planet. I would hope you feel the same way. I try my very best to live in a way that is environmentally sustainable and humane. I'm usually willing to try just about anything new with the exception of bungee jumping - that just seems silly.I am a loyal friend and I take good care of the people I love.There, how's that? Well, a first date. I think a coffee or tea out somewhere with the possibility of a walk would be best. Beyond that intuition will be my guide. I have to say that the thought of meeting a complete stranger in a Starbucks makes me want to run screaming but, I'm not sure what the options would be....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

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