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Samella, 49

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About Me

looking for some one to go to dinner with, maybe go out have a drink. no head games please, I am not interested in guessing games, what you like or what you dont like. just want some one to spend some time with me for who I am . I give people everything I have, sometimes too much...and forget about myself. well now I am ready for some me time, I consider myself caring, loving, a little bit on the quiet side at first, but love to let my hair down and have some fun. i work hard for what I have and am not looking to give it up.. I am looking for someone who I can count on to be there if I need someone to lean on, but yet can lean on me if need be. not interested in some one that is ready to retire... I have been through alot over the last few years and I need to get my life back... I am a mom of 3 older children,who are a huge part of my life. I do alot with my kids as they are my biggest support , they too have been through alot so we do what we can to keep going forward...I some times wear my heart on my sleeve, so I try to be careful. and my kids are always watching out for me in that aspect.. I am just tired of doing things by myself, its time to go out and meet some new people. i enjoy the outdoors, beaches, sunsets, long walks..family cookouts ect..summer and fall are my favorite times of the year..I like all kinds of music, county, country rock ect. I would love a little romance back in my life...I like to see what someone looks like so if you dont have a pic posted I prob wont bother. just saying...maybe sounds kinda forward but I take care of my appearance and care how people look.. maybe drinks, dinner..some place where you can talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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