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Rika, 45

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About Me

I'm an optimistic person with a good heart. I have a great sense of humor and love sarcasm as long as it's not mean-spirited. I can laugh at myself but prefer to laugh at you. :p I'm honest and loyal, sometimes to a fault. Yes, I have faults but I'm a work in progress. I'm certainly not perfect and don't expect it in someone else...how boring! I prefer to live in reality but have got lost in a fantasy world once or twice. Luckily, I have a pretty good sense of direction for a girl and find my way back. I haven't given up on love. With that said, I'm not on a desperate search to find it either. I think it will find you, you just have to live your life and be open to the possibility and take a calculated risk once in a while. That got more serious than I meant for it to. I'm a working mom and my kids are my priority. But I also make time for myself and enjoy getting out with friends...live music, movies, and traveling when the opportunity presents itself. Look forward to making some new friends.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Allannah

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm a 30-something (stopped birthdays awhile ago (don't judge) :) designer living out in my time in the suburbs. Years gone are the days of bright-eyed innocence and here are the days of children, chores and daily routines. I really believe in viewing life as a half-full mug of room temperature coffee.. things can cool off but, if you choose you can always warm it back up in the microwave. I guess the moral of the story is that life is what you make of it and I choose to make it positive, no matter what! I'm looking for someone real. I'm not looking for a hook-up, or a friend with benefits - that's not me. I don't expect to jump right into a relationship, but ultimately that's my goal. I have a career and really want someone who has their life together and is open to a long-term relationship. I'm pretty open to different things, but prefer a first date where we can actually talk. (going to a park, glass of wine or Starbucks - my addiction)

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Big #***if you don't read my profile and understand who I am and what I'm looking for, then please don't message me. I'm really looking for a soul mate, someone who can be my partner in the things that I love. This doesn't mean I'm not open to the things you love, but I want to be able to connect with someone. If the things in my profile don't interest you, then I'm not the one for you.That being said...I am a big hearted, compassionate yet somewhat sarcastic woman who is looking for a good man to get to know; to be friends or whatever happens. I have a 20 year old daughter who is my best friend, she's awesome. I love to spend time with friends and family and my idea of a perfect night is getting together, having good food and drink (wine :P), laughing and enjoying each other's company. I really like cooking and it brings joy to my heart to make people happy and be able to say nothing but "Mmmmm!" when I cook for them. I am also a total geek. I love Star Wars, Game of Thrones, Doctor Who, online role playing games, dragons and fairies and going to Renaissance Festivals or Sci-Fi/Anime conventions, etc. But I'm pretty easy to please. Just be HONEST and genuine, and please be serious about wanting to find someone, because I am. Having a good sense of humor doesn't hurt either ;).I'm looking for a guy that will make me feel like I'm important to them. I want someone to make me laugh and take initiative! Having similar interests is very important, so when I start going on about RPGs, Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, etc they don't get glassy eyes and check out like a lot of my friends, haha! I love geek culture so getting to know each other on that level and having little inside jokes about stuff is fun! As I said up above, be honest, genuine, be yourself! Coffee places are the best. You can usually find a secluded place to get comfortable, sip on a yummy drink and talk. I like to drink wine, but bars are not a good place to meet up, too noisy. If the weather is nice, the lake is nice too.

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I have finally found my dream career. I am a third grade teacher that enjoys the challenges of my job. I enjoy outdoor concerts, sporting events, wine tastings, comedy clubs, movies, theater, museums....the list goes on and on. I like all types of music (except metal and hard rap) but country is mostly on my i-pod. I enjoy reading books especially suspense/mysteries.#1 on my bucket list. I love trying new hole in the wall type of restaurants. I will try any food once and enjoy new experiences (no blue cheese or olives please). My favorite food of all is grilled seafood. I am a very caring individual and am looking for my partner for life. I think family is important and am looking for someone with the same beliefs. Spending time with friends is important and sharing it with a partner would be great. I love the beach as well as the mountains. I am comfortable at the local sports bar as well as at a formal engagement. Tired of meeting BOYS who tell me what I want to hear, make and break promises, and aren’t ready for something serious. Please……mean what you say and say what you mean!!! I'm considered a very generous person in all aspects of my life especially in friendship, family and love. I've been told that I'm smart, beautiful and sensitive, although I also tend to be a bit modest too. I'm looking for a man who shares my views on love, family and friends and is ready for all of it to begin with me. Going someplace quiet enough to talk. Meet for a meal and see what happens. Maybe a walk afterwards to get to know each other better. The first date is to see if there is a connection, we can get creative after that.

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