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Allannah, 45

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About Me

I'm a 30-something (stopped birthdays awhile ago (don't judge) :) designer living out in my time in the suburbs. Years gone are the days of bright-eyed innocence and here are the days of children, chores and daily routines. I really believe in viewing life as a half-full mug of room temperature coffee.. things can cool off but, if you choose you can always warm it back up in the microwave. I guess the moral of the story is that life is what you make of it and I choose to make it positive, no matter what! I'm looking for someone real. I'm not looking for a hook-up, or a friend with benefits - that's not me. I don't expect to jump right into a relationship, but ultimately that's my goal. I have a career and really want someone who has their life together and is open to a long-term relationship. I'm pretty open to different things, but prefer a first date where we can actually talk. (going to a park, glass of wine or Starbucks - my addiction)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ember

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Well, here I am! You can stop looking! lol! TOTALLY new to this whole dating thing. It's fun talking to new people. I'll talk to anyone, and, geez! It's just dinner or a cup of coffee? I'm completely ddd free, drug, disease, and drama free!Love music (mostly metal), concerts, hanging out with friends, Oh, and I'm sane! Js lol Love hanging out, listening to a good band and enjoying a cerveza with friends. Even brewed my own for a while. ;) Beer is good. As far as dating. I know right away if things are going to result in a second date. So do you actually. lol A great date is one where conversation flows and nobody looks at their watches. Time seems to stand still and the beer you ordered an hour ago has barely been touched. Oh, and gotta have a lot of laughter and smiling. To be honest, if there's no laughter when we go out there probably won't be a second date. Just being honest. I love to laugh and truthfully, a sense of humor is wayyy more important than being really attractive. Don't get me wrong looks count but, laughter counts more. :)Okay, gonna have to revise this. I've been in the "pond" for a while now and I've made quite a few male "friends" JUST friends. Mind you. What I have found out is that you're all sleeping with the same girls. I'm NOT the standard "Pof" girl. I don't want to meet you, have sex on the first date, and never see you again. I PROMISE. If that's what you want please continue on. The next girl WILL. But, don't forget to wrap it up if you do, because I have more than one guy friend on here who is trying to sleep with ALL the women here and a different one every day (sometimes two or three) . I have one friend that slept with over 20 in two weeks. It's a game to them. Let me make this perfectly clear. I'm NOT playing the "game" I freaking LOVE sex and don't suck at it.lol But, there's more to life than sex. Well, there is for me. Now, if you still want to meet me after all that I DEFINITELY want to meet YOU. Because, you're probably a good guy and I'm soooo done with jerks. :D I'd love to go out to dinner or even just grab a beer and a play a game of pool. LOVE riding on the back of a motorcycle. Nothing like putting your arms around someone you really like and holding on for dear life. Love smiling and being happy. Like I said before. Sex isn't happening on the first date so, that kinda takes the pressure off right?. lol Now, if you score a second date.....all bets are off. lol jkjk Idk let's just play it by ear k. I've gotten more friends (not fwb;) from this place than anything else. So, let's go out, and see if we click.

  • Brande

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Well first of all,, my friend set this profile up-without my knowing! Guess she just wants me to find happiness!!Anyway,,,,,,,, I dont really like to talk about myself...but Im a country girl at heart. Enjoy the country lifestyle and country way of life. Since my divorce I no longer live in the country but hope to eventually! I am a mother of two amazing and beautiful daughters, who are on there way to starting their own lives and planning weddings. So I guess its time for me to start thinking about myself some and get back out there in the dating world, so I am hoping to find a good, honest, caring, compassionate man. I was in a long time marriage/relationship of 20 yrs together and was never treated right, but still tried over and over, and finally decided I need and deserve more. Only thing is, I love with all I have and all that I am,, its so hard to be alone, but I will be ok!! (i keep telling myself that)lolI am shy at first and am kinda nervous about getting back out there. I am scared alittle to let put myself out there and fear of being hurt again, but I guess that just goes with the territory. Just very hopeful its all going to be worth and the reward will be sooooooo worth it!!I work full time, love my job! I have always had a love for animals. When I had the farm, I had many types of animals, and have raised many animals. I have horses, mostly just trail ride now.When I can find time.Country music is my first choice, but I like other types of music too.Fall is coming up very soon, and its my favorite time of year!! Cant wait for the change of the season and the scenery is soooooooo pretty. I hope to someday in the near future get my own motorcycle. Guess Im just into horsepower.lol whether its four legged or two wheeled! :-)Sorry for rambling on, if you have any questions, please feel free to askThanks, M Somewhere we both mutually agree upon. Meeting for the first time is kinda nerve racking, so Im thinking someplace neutral and comfy for both of us.

  • Cherly

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I feel that I'm an attractive woman, I love the doing lots of different activities such as anything outdoors, love motorcycles, fishing, camping, hiking, reading, music, clubbing, dancing, wine tasting etc...I'm recelntly seperated about a year now after 15 years and looking to find a real man to have some fun...going to a movie...out to eat! I have kids but all over 18 and on their own. I have a degree in business management...

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