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CatherineOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I'm looking for someone to share my life with. I've never been married and have no children (pretty much baggage and drama free). :-) I have 9 AMAZING nieces and nephews who mean the world to me... so family must be important to you. I give 110% to my relationships and I want the same in return (I'm very low maintenance, just LOVE to have a good time). I am independent and believe each person in a relationship should have their quality time together as well as their personal time with their own friends. I would make a fabulous step-mother, as long as everything is a good fit in the relationship. I love to travel and the beach is my favorite place, although I love the mountains too. I enjoy the outdoors and love camping. I like going out or just making dinner at home and watching a movie. Football, hockey and will even watch college basketball during March Madness (I especially love tailgating and live sporting events). I want someone who will communicate, treat me with respect and have my back, as I will always have theirs. I'm currently working hard at getting healthy and have been very focused on that. It would be nice to find someone who would like to do this along with me, but if not, that's okay too!! :-) I will try anything once and love spontaneity. FYI... a huge turn off for me is sex being mentioned on the first couple dates. I prefer to take things slow and develop a relationship before moving any further. I'm looking for the real thing. So, if you're looking for a hook up, I'm not the one for you. My ideal first date would be a simple, low-key dinner and a nice walk. A drink somewhere? An outdoor concert??? I'm up for just about anything!
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OpalOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
Added Note: If you only have a sentence or two on your profile and end it with "If you want to know anything, just ask" - c'mon, put a bit more effort into it.. If i favorite you, I am not trying to be creepy (not that I think that is bad - we all have our thing***it just means that your profile caught my eye and I want to check it out when I have more time.If you wish to message me that is fantastic, I will usually respond (I have not returned several messages due to the fact you have obviously not read my profile). However, please message something other than: "hey", "nice hair", "nice eyes". I don't expect a disertaton - just give me something with which to respond. I am not looking to move quickly into a relationship - get to know each other and go from there - just let things develop naturally. I am not big on drama though I know we all have a bit - it shouldn't define or be a major part of who you are. If we don't "click" just be honest about it - I am open to establishing friendships providing you don't creep me out - you know who you are.About me - 1. I enjoy going out, but I don't like being on the go constantly. Sometimes just hanging out and doing nothing is great. Drinking beer/coffee on the back deck just talking and laughing has been some of the most enjoyable times I have had.2. I find the funny side of just about anything. My humor is diversified: silly, goofy, irreverent, sarcastic,cynical. I love to laugh.3. I hate to clean but enjoy living in a clean house - so I compromise and clean anyway. This is very subjective.4. I do not like mean people - condescending and judgmental make for a negative aura and exudes ugliness regardless of physical beauty. Compassion and kindness are a big turn on and the way the universe intended us to be. (remember: God or whatever you worship don't like ugly)5. I am naturally curious, and I ask a ton of questions - yes, I am one of those people. I just don't know how to know you otherwise. If I don't ask alot of questions, it means I find you unbelievably boring or weird- Although weird I can work with, boring not so much.I know, I know - putting stipulations on what/who i am looking for turns some people off, but why waste time on dealbreakers?1. Please be able to hold an intelligent conversation ***that involves more than the latest sporting event. Stimulate my brain! 2. If you are an avid NASCAR fan - meaning you have an entire room in your house dedicated to the gods of NASCAR, or you spend Sundays glued to the tv - we are probably not going to hit it off very well. Nothing wrong with NASCAR, if you enjoy it rock on; however, not interested in this insanity.3. Be gainfully employed - if you are going back to school, be enrolled otherwise - well, I will just leave it at that. NOTE: I am not speaking of those that have been laid off due to the economy, but rather those that have a constant excuse for not being employed and have not held a job in years. You know the category in which you fit. Let me add, I am not money motivated or materialistic - I am just a believer that one should be self sufficient (men and women alike).4.= just be clean and smell good.5. Sense of humor and upbeat - there are so many things to laugh about and enjoy in life. I enjoy witty banter and that personality is what I respond to the most.7.- please be within 45min of me - it's just top hard to spend much time together otherwise. 8. Let's plan on a casual meeting within a few messages. I'm not into cyber relationships. No reason to keep things going if there is no chemistry.9. If you hate my profile or something offends you, don't send me ugly messages, just move on.I am needing to add this regarding children:I have a rockin' 12 yr old that I adore (at least 95% of the time). You need to understand that although he is my priority, I do like adult conversation and company. With proper planning going out is not a problem; however, getting together on the spur of the moment is not usually an option. His father and I are amicable, but are not "best friends" - so my schedule is somewhat flexible.I am not under any circumstances interested in having more children. Yes, I know they already have a mother (and I know they are your world and your heart, yada, yada, yada - I would expect no less), but I am a very nurturing person and would welcome your children into my life if things were to progress to that point.This profile is not meant to be condescending or mean. I have just dealt with each of these issues in the past and it was not a good thing. I feel that most of the things on my list are just common sense. I am a nice person and am looking for the same. I know what I want and would hope at this point in life you do as well. First meet up - coffee and conversation
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LilianaOffline
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
A good relationship is one built on trust, respect, communication, and attention. I have been on here 4 years now, and I have been ready to throw in the towel quite a few times... But at this point, I have placed may trust in the good Lord above that he will bring me my Mr. Right. I will eventually find someone who is worth my time and effort, as I am there's. I am a good catch for the right person and I respect myself enough not to just settle. I am not looking for a Sugar Daddy and I hope you aren't looking for a Sugar Momma, because I am sorry but I don't play that game...so lets not waste each others time okay! :)A little about me: I have been divorced for over 4 years. I am a single parent to ***year old and have 100% custody. I am very open to your children if you have some; but unfortunately, I can no longer have anymore. If that bothers you, I understand. Also, my child is my everything and everything I do revolves around my child's happiness and then mine. So if you will have issues with that, please pass me on by. This should be every parents priority in my opinion, but you know what they say about opinions...lol I have held the same job for 19 plus years. I am not opposed to change, I actually like it if it is for the better. :) But I am huge on stability, family, and security. And I am looking for the same in my partner. I want to find the man I want to spend the rest of my life with rocking grandbabies and traveling....or just sitting on the front porch holding hands watching nature and talking about the good 'ole days! I would love to learn to fish and have been working on cooking healthier and exercising daily. I am happy in my day to day life, I would just like to find someone to share that happiness with. My child is getting more independent everyday and doesn't need me around ***like I am use too. :) I am interested in picking up a few new hobbies that we could enjoy doing together as well, especially as a family. Variety, spontaneity, and continuous learning is the key to happiness I think. I aspire to find my soulmate, someone who takes my breathe away and sweeps me off my feet! Yes, I love romance and I tend to be a very romantic person. I want to be able to look into your eyes, and know what you are thinking without you having to say a word and vice versa. As for the physical, looks aren't everything! But there has to be some kind of a spark or attraction between us, and sometimes that isn't found until we have met. So that being said, I really don't have a "type". To me it is the inside that matters the most. I am looking for my best friend....and lover. Someone that I think about and miss when he isn't around and someone that I also have that effect upon. What I am seeking in a man - Faithfulness, Honesty, Security, Best Friend, Loyalty, Family Oriented, Trustworthiness, Good father figure, Non-Violent, Good Temperament, Sense of Humor, Someone who will give me the attention I crave and spend quality time with me and my child. I want a family unit again someday, and someone whom I can enjoy doing anything with...because if you are with the right person you can find the joy in doing anything together. If you think you are a good match, please send me a message. I can't wait to hear from you! Public place, until we get to know each other better.